{"tag":"porn","articles":{"blog\/life\/how-did-i-not-know-i-m-pansexual-panromantic":{"key":"blog\/life\/how-did-i-not-know-i-m-pansexual-panromantic","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2021-01-17T12:51:29+01:00","publishedAt":"2021-01-17T12:51:29+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"how-did-i-not-know-i-m-pansexual-panromantic"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"how-did-i-not-know-i-m-pan","title":"How did I not know I\u0027m pansexual \u0026 panromantic?","intro":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPatriarchy and heteronormativity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn pretty much every movie, book or TV series the heteronormative relationships look the same.\nThe girls is supposed to be submissive, delicate, while the guy is dominant and strong.\nHe\u0027s supposed to fight for her, impress her, ask her out, pay for her.\nShe\u0027s supposed to play hard to get, innocent\u2026\nHe makes money, she\u0027s a hausfrau.\nRoles are clearly defined and very asymmetrical.\nMost love stories don\u0027t look like love, but rather a conquest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeeing same-sex relationships was so fucking refreshing for me!\nNo stupid schemas, expectations, rectum-derived rules!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why straight people keep asking gays the iditoic question\n\u201cwho\u0027s the man and who\u0027s the woman in your relationship?\u201d.\nThey get that a guy might like men instead of women, but still cannot comprehend\nany other model of the relationship than what popular culture taught them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I did the opposite \u2013 I knew I don\u0027t want a patriarchal relationship,\nI just didn\u0027t realise I \u003Cem\u003Ecan\u003C\/em\u003E have that with a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMainstream porn\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003C!--\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A screenshot of a porn scene from \u201cReality Kings\u201d studio\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022720\u0022 height=\u0022404\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg 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data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A screenshot of a porn scene from \u201cReality Kings\u201d studio\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022720\u0022 height=\u0022404\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E--\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs hard as it might be to believe,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E this outrageously unrealistic porn scene\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cspan class=\u0022badge badge-warning\u0022\u003ECW: porn\u003C\/span\u003E\nhas been released by a studio called \u201cReality Kings\u201d. How ironic!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose boobs are fake. Those lips are fake. This voice is fake.\nThe plot is unrealistic. Getting a blowjob while still hanging from a basketball loop\nis probably not comfortable enough for people to actually do in real life.\nAnd don\u0027t even get me started on his dick springing out rock hard right away\nwith no mental or physical stimulation whatsoever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u0027s not an exception, the fakeness pretty much a common theme.\nThe strong makeup that\u0027s supposed to start dripping with her tears when she gets face-fucked by a colossal dick.\nThe almost absolute lack of interest in the girl\u0027s pleasure\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf that\u0027s what straight sex is like, I don\u0027t want it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept porn lied to me! Sex isn\u0027t like that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMonogamy\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, not monogamy \u003Cem\u003Eper se\u003C\/em\u003E, but forcing it as the default, or even the only, option.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen everyone in your life tells you you\u0027re supposed to find \u201cthe one and only\u201d and \u201ctill death tears us apart\u201d,\nit\u0027s easy to fall into the trap of feeling forced to choose.\nNot just the \u003Cem\u003Eperson\u003C\/em\u003E to spend your whole life with, but the entire \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFinding out that it\u0027s possible (and awesome!) to love more than one person at the same time\nhas also opened my eyes to endless other possibilities.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s way more, but those three things in particular I\u0027m very angry about.\nThe world keeps lying to us about how to be happy. It shows us just one possible way:\na patriarchal, monogamous relationship. Or, yeah, whatever those gays are doing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut turns out that queerness is vastly more colourful than any of that!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["sexuality","gender","sexual orientation","romantic orientation","patriarchy","porn","monogamy","polyamory","queer"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay.lite\u0022\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay.lite\u0022\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPatriarchy and heteronormativity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn pretty much every movie, book or TV series the heteronormative relationships look the same.\nThe girls is supposed to be submissive, delicate, while the guy is dominant and strong.\nHe\u0027s supposed to fight for her, impress her, ask her out, pay for her.\nShe\u0027s supposed to play hard to get, innocent\u2026\nHe makes money, she\u0027s a hausfrau.\nRoles are clearly defined and very asymmetrical.\nMost love stories don\u0027t look like love, but rather a conquest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeeing same-sex relationships was so fucking refreshing for me!\nNo stupid schemas, expectations, rectum-derived rules!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why straight people keep asking gays the iditoic question\n\u201cwho\u0027s the man and who\u0027s the woman in your relationship?\u201d.\nThey get that a guy might like men instead of women, but still cannot comprehend\nany other model of the relationship than what popular culture taught them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I did the opposite \u2013 I knew I don\u0027t want a patriarchal relationship,\nI just didn\u0027t realise I \u003Cem\u003Ecan\u003C\/em\u003E have that with a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMainstream porn\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003C!--\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A screenshot of a porn scene from \u201cReality Kings\u201d studio\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022134.66666666667\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E--\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs hard as it might be to believe,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E this outrageously unrealistic porn scene\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cspan class=\u0022badge badge-warning\u0022\u003ECW: porn\u003C\/span\u003E\nhas been released by a studio called \u201cReality Kings\u201d. How ironic!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose boobs are fake. Those lips are fake. This voice is fake.\nThe plot is unrealistic. Getting a blowjob while still hanging from a basketball loop\nis probably not comfortable enough for people to actually do in real life.\nAnd don\u0027t even get me started on his dick springing out rock hard right away\nwith no mental or physical stimulation whatsoever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u0027s not an exception, the fakeness pretty much a common theme.\nThe strong makeup that\u0027s supposed to start dripping with her tears when she gets face-fucked by a colossal dick.\nThe almost absolute lack of interest in the girl\u0027s pleasure\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf that\u0027s what straight sex is like, I don\u0027t want it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept porn lied to me! Sex isn\u0027t like that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMonogamy\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, not monogamy \u003Cem\u003Eper se\u003C\/em\u003E, but forcing it as the default, or even the only, option.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen everyone in your life tells you you\u0027re supposed to find \u201cthe one and only\u201d and \u201ctill death tears us apart\u201d,\nit\u0027s easy to fall into the trap of feeling forced to choose.\nNot just the \u003Cem\u003Eperson\u003C\/em\u003E to spend your whole life with, but the entire \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFinding out that it\u0027s possible (and awesome!) to love more than one person at the same time\nhas also opened my eyes to endless other possibilities.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s way more, but those three things in particular I\u0027m very angry about.\nThe world keeps lying to us about how to be happy. It shows us just one possible way:\na patriarchal, monogamous relationship. Or, yeah, whatever those gays are doing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut turns out that queerness is vastly more colourful than any of that!\u003C\/p\u003E","words":534,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/hey-porn-show-us-a-real-dick-for-once":{"key":"blog\/society\/hey-porn-show-us-a-real-dick-for-once","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-11-12T19:43:21+01:00","publishedAt":"2019-11-13T18:30:00+01:00","group":"cock-size","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"hey-porn-show-us-a-real-dick-for-once"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"hey-porn-show-us-a-real-dick-for-once","title":"Hey, porn! Show us a real dick, for once!","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022269.1654465593\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022269.1654465593\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid you know the dicks you see in porn are \u003Cem\u003Enot real\u003C\/em\u003E? Per se, sure, but if you look at them as a group? That\u2019s not what what real cocks look like!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know. I checked.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022683\u0022 height=\u0022383\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022683\u0022 height=\u0022383\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid you know the dicks you see in porn are \u003Cem\u003Enot real\u003C\/em\u003E? Per se, sure, but if you look at them as a group? That\u2019s not what what real cocks look like!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know. I checked.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wrote a simple script that scrapes the member area of \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/members.nextdoorstudios.com\/en\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E NextDoorStudios\u003C\/a\u003E\u2019s list of models.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOut of 213 models that have put their cock size in their profile, the smallest one is 15 cm, the biggest one \u2013 28 cm, and the average is a stunning \u003Cstrong\u003E18.8 cm\u003C\/strong\u003E with a median of 17.8 cm!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow does that relate to the real world?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt does not. At all. At fucking all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDepending on \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Human_penis_size#Erect\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E which study you look at\u003C\/a\u003E, the average size of an erect cock is 12-14 cm and median is about \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.vox.com\/2015\/3\/4\/8143585\/penis-size-average\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E 13\u003C\/a\u003E-\u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/mraverage.com\/stats.htm\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E 15\u003C\/a\u003E cm.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me do some complex math now...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ccenter\u003E\u003Ciframe src=\u0022https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/BmmfETghGOPrW\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022206\u0022 frameBorder=\u00220\u0022 class=\u0022giphy-embed\u0022 allowFullScreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/center\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh damn! If my calculations are correct, not only is 18.8 cm waaay longer than the global average, but even the absolute smallest of the NextDoorStudio\u2019s dicks is also above average!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI checked out only NextDoor, because that\u2019s what I have access to, but I don\u2019t think I have to convince anyone that casting almost exclusively big-dicked models in porn movies is not something that only this single studio does. This practice is omnipresent. It\u2019s the rule.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EUpdate:\u003C\/strong\u003E I checked BelAmiOnline as well: it\u0027s \u003Cstrong\u003E18 cm average\u003C\/strong\u003E, 18 cm median, 15.5 cm min and 25 cm max.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn regards to the cock size alone, more than half (!) of the entire male population is not represented in porn.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd we wonder where do all those insecurities come from? Why do teenagers obsess so much about what\u2019s in their pants? Why are they scared to get naked in the shower after a gym class? Why are they afraid to have sex for the first time? Why are women disappointed when they see an \u003Cem\u003Eactual\u003C\/em\u003E dick for the first time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s a scary thought: straight guys usually never or very rarely see a non-porn erect penis that is not their own. They usually have no concept of what an erect penis can look like. Can you even imagine the horror of thinking that everyone else except for you is super well-endowed?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd it\u2019s not just dicks being misrepresented in porn. It\u2019s entire bodies.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s not just guys being misrepresented \u2013 women probably even more!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot everybody looks like this. Not everyone is super slim or super muscular. Not everyone has huge, shapely tits. Not everyone has a bubble butt.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs a matter of fact, very few people do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey are what our wildest fantasies look like \u2013 but not how the vast majority of sex looks like.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf we take an even wider look, both cock sizes in particular and bodies in general are still only a part of a way bigger misrepresentation problem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause you know what, porn? That\u2019s not a position that any woman is comfortable in, let alone takes pleasure from. And pounding a hole for 30 minutes with breaks only to switch positions is not a fun thing to do, for neither side of the pounding. Condoms don\u2019t magically appear on penises. People use lube. People communicate. People take breaks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou don\u2019t show any of it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wish there was a \u003Cstrong\u003E\u201dnormie porn\u201d\u003C\/strong\u003E studio. One that would make professional movies, in terms of lighting, video quality, etc., but \u201camateur\u201d in terms of showing \u201creal\u201d people having \u201creal\u201d sex.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["average","body","body acceptance","body shaming","cock","dick","fake","insecurities","penis","porn","representation","size","statistics"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_small.jpeg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022134.58272327965\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid you know the dicks you see in porn are \u003Cem\u003Enot real\u003C\/em\u003E? Per se, sure, but if you look at them as a group? That\u2019s not what what real cocks look like!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know. I checked.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/porn-cock-size-emoji_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022134.58272327965\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid you know the dicks you see in porn are \u003Cem\u003Enot real\u003C\/em\u003E? Per se, sure, but if you look at them as a group? That\u2019s not what what real cocks look like!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know. I checked.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wrote a simple script that scrapes the member area of \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/members.nextdoorstudios.com\/en\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E NextDoorStudios\u003C\/a\u003E\u2019s list of models.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOut of 213 models that have put their cock size in their profile, the smallest one is 15 cm, the biggest one \u2013 28 cm, and the average is a stunning \u003Cstrong\u003E18.8 cm\u003C\/strong\u003E with a median of 17.8 cm!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHow does that relate to the real world?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt does not. At all. At fucking all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDepending on \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Human_penis_size#Erect\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E which study you look at\u003C\/a\u003E, the average size of an erect cock is 12-14 cm and median is about \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.vox.com\/2015\/3\/4\/8143585\/penis-size-average\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E 13\u003C\/a\u003E-\u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/mraverage.com\/stats.htm\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E 15\u003C\/a\u003E cm.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me do some complex math now...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ccenter\u003E\u003Ciframe src=\u0022https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/BmmfETghGOPrW\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022206\u0022 frameBorder=\u00220\u0022 class=\u0022giphy-embed\u0022 allowFullScreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/center\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh damn! If my calculations are correct, not only is 18.8 cm waaay longer than the global average, but even the absolute smallest of the NextDoorStudio\u2019s dicks is also above average!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI checked out only NextDoor, because that\u2019s what I have access to, but I don\u2019t think I have to convince anyone that casting almost exclusively big-dicked models in porn movies is not something that only this single studio does. This practice is omnipresent. It\u2019s the rule.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EUpdate:\u003C\/strong\u003E I checked BelAmiOnline as well: it\u0027s \u003Cstrong\u003E18 cm average\u003C\/strong\u003E, 18 cm median, 15.5 cm min and 25 cm max.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn regards to the cock size alone, more than half (!) of the entire male population is not represented in porn.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd we wonder where do all those insecurities come from? Why do teenagers obsess so much about what\u2019s in their pants? Why are they scared to get naked in the shower after a gym class? Why are they afraid to have sex for the first time? Why are women disappointed when they see an \u003Cem\u003Eactual\u003C\/em\u003E dick for the first time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u2019s a scary thought: straight guys usually never or very rarely see a non-porn erect penis that is not their own. They usually have no concept of what an erect penis can look like. Can you even imagine the horror of thinking that everyone else except for you is super well-endowed?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd it\u2019s not just dicks being misrepresented in porn. It\u2019s entire bodies.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s not just guys being misrepresented \u2013 women probably even more!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot everybody looks like this. Not everyone is super slim or super muscular. Not everyone has huge, shapely tits. Not everyone has a bubble butt.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs a matter of fact, very few people do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey are what our wildest fantasies look like \u2013 but not how the vast majority of sex looks like.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf we take an even wider look, both cock sizes in particular and bodies in general are still only a part of a way bigger misrepresentation problem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause you know what, porn? That\u2019s not a position that any woman is comfortable in, let alone takes pleasure from. And pounding a hole for 30 minutes with breaks only to switch positions is not a fun thing to do, for neither side of the pounding. Condoms don\u2019t magically appear on penises. People use lube. People communicate. People take breaks.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou don\u2019t show any of it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wish there was a \u003Cstrong\u003E\u201dnormie porn\u201d\u003C\/strong\u003E studio. 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Only to talk to some old friends once in a blue moon, and to laugh at all the spammers who assume that owning a \u201c.it\u201d domain automatically makes you Italian.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIf they really had full access to my computer, or even checked out my public posts on social media, they\u2019d know I don\u2019t give a shit about someone seeing me naked or masturbating.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EBlackmailing someone with that is the most obvious choice: almost everyone watches porn \u0026amp; masturbates, and most people are (inexplicably) ashamed of it.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EThey didn\u2019t attach ANY proof whatsoever. Not a piece of a video, not a single URL from browser history, not a screenshot. Not even naming my OS or browser. I have no idea, which of my computers they claim to have attacked \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ESending an email from my own address to myself is given as a \u201cproof\u201d that they control my computer. The thing is, via SMTP you can send an email with ANY valid email in the \u201cFrom\u201d field. Most clients will deem it unreliable though and put it in spam \u2013 exactly as has happened here.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EThey claim to have been \u201cobserving me for a couple of months\u201d. Well, to get enough porn \u0026amp; masturbation blackmail material on me, they wouldn\u2019t need more than a day \ud83e\udd2d\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u201cMalware was undetectable by the antivirus, because driver\u201d is a BS talk for people who don\u2019t know shit about computers. They\u2019ve been watching me for months, they should know I know my shit about computers \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMost importantly: the deadline is over already. And nothing? \u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDespite so many red flags people seem to be buying this bullshit, apparently. Those criminals \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.blockchain.com\/btc\/address\/17YKd1iJBxu616JEVo15PsXvk1mnQyEFVt\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E have received 4,5 BTC\u003C\/a\u003E already (~14k\u20ac). Within A WEEK!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPlease, educate yourself about cybersecurity, people... And don\u2019t panic! \ud83d\ude42\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EUpdate\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just got a report of a scam attempt that \u003Cem\u003Edid\u003C\/em\u003E include a \u201cproof\u201d, so let\u0027s take a look at it:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker-2_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022479.22829581994\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker-2_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022479.22829581994\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, the attacker knows your password. But they don\u0027t tell you to which service\nthis password grants access to, which is pretty weird...\nIf I were an asshole and had that information, I\u0027d use it:\nat least to further prove to you that I know private shit about you,\nat worse to log in to that account, take it over and demand money for giving it back.\nAnd yet, they didn\u0027t. Suspicious.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut anyways... if you go to the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/haveibeenpwned.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u0027;--have i been pwned?\u003C\/a\u003E website\nand enter your email, you\u0027ll see the list of data breaches over the years where your email was found.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis guy\u0027s email was in 18 of them. Some were connected to the same reused password.\nSo here\u0027s how the attacker knew his password: he didn\u0027t hack his computer or gain access to his camera,\nhe just found it (or bought it) on some shady website.\nThe attacker probably doesn\u0027t even know what service was this password for or whether it\u0027s even still valid.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood news about this attack: as of today, not a single cent was sent to\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.blockchain.com\/btc\/address\/bc1qrpmrkdwh2uhnmrsj0803hg909m66rp6ax7y7je\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E that BTC address\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83c\udf89\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo what\u0027s the takeaway?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EEven if someone knows your password, it doesn\u0027t automatically prove their other claims.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ESign up for email updates from \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/haveibeenpwned.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u0027;--have i been pwned?\u003C\/a\u003E\nand whenever they notify you about a breach, go to that website and change your password.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDon\u0027t reuse passwords! The best way to stay secure is to use a different, strong, random password for each service\nand store them in a password manager, like \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/keepass.info\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E KeePass\u003C\/a\u003E or even a browser.\nIf someone told me, they know that my password is \u003Ccode\u003EhiVxV788S2dm8rK6P5qH\u003C\/code\u003E?\nBitch, even \u003Cem\u003EI\u003C\/em\u003E don\u0027t know that\u0027s my password \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDon\u0027t panic! The vast majority of such attacks is just a bluff.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["bitcoin","blackmail","cybersecurity","email","masturbation","porn","security"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022155.59701492537\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid anyone receive a message recently that contained a video of me watching porn? \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause apparently I was being blackmailed that all my contacts would receive it, if I don\u2019t pay 202\u20ac in BTC. Alas, I didn\u2019t check the spam folder, so I\u2019d missed the deadline a week ago \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022155.59701492537\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/HJENWbX4t-Q\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Eunsplash.com\/photos\/HJENWbX4t-Q\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDid anyone receive a message recently that contained a video of me watching porn? \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause apparently I was being blackmailed that all my contacts would receive it, if I don\u2019t pay 202\u20ac in BTC. Alas, I didn\u2019t check the spam folder, so I\u2019d missed the deadline a week ago \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/alto-pericolo-1_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/alto-pericolo-1_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022242.12765957447\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/alto-pericolo-2_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/alto-pericolo-2_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022238.91696750903\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIf they really had full access to my computer, they\u2019d know that I almost never use Italian... Only to talk to some old friends once in a blue moon, and to laugh at all the spammers who assume that owning a \u201c.it\u201d domain automatically makes you Italian.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EIf they really had full access to my computer, or even checked out my public posts on social media, they\u2019d know I don\u2019t give a shit about someone seeing me naked or masturbating.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EBlackmailing someone with that is the most obvious choice: almost everyone watches porn \u0026amp; masturbates, and most people are (inexplicably) ashamed of it.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EThey didn\u2019t attach ANY proof whatsoever. Not a piece of a video, not a single URL from browser history, not a screenshot. Not even naming my OS or browser. I have no idea, which of my computers they claim to have attacked \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ESending an email from my own address to myself is given as a \u201cproof\u201d that they control my computer. The thing is, via SMTP you can send an email with ANY valid email in the \u201cFrom\u201d field. Most clients will deem it unreliable though and put it in spam \u2013 exactly as has happened here.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EThey claim to have been \u201cobserving me for a couple of months\u201d. Well, to get enough porn \u0026amp; masturbation blackmail material on me, they wouldn\u2019t need more than a day \ud83e\udd2d\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u201cMalware was undetectable by the antivirus, because driver\u201d is a BS talk for people who don\u2019t know shit about computers. They\u2019ve been watching me for months, they should know I know my shit about computers \ud83d\ude06\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMost importantly: the deadline is over already. And nothing? \u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDespite so many red flags people seem to be buying this bullshit, apparently. Those criminals \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.blockchain.com\/btc\/address\/17YKd1iJBxu616JEVo15PsXvk1mnQyEFVt\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E have received 4,5 BTC\u003C\/a\u003E already (~14k\u20ac). Within A WEEK!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPlease, educate yourself about cybersecurity, people... And don\u2019t panic! \ud83d\ude42\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EUpdate\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just got a report of a scam attempt that \u003Cem\u003Edid\u003C\/em\u003E include a \u201cproof\u201d, so let\u0027s take a look at it:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker-2_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lame-hacker-2_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022119.80707395498\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYes, the attacker knows your password. But they don\u0027t tell you to which service\nthis password grants access to, which is pretty weird...\nIf I were an asshole and had that information, I\u0027d use it:\nat least to further prove to you that I know private shit about you,\nat worse to log in to that account, take it over and demand money for giving it back.\nAnd yet, they didn\u0027t. Suspicious.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut anyways... if you go to the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/haveibeenpwned.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u0027;--have i been pwned?\u003C\/a\u003E website\nand enter your email, you\u0027ll see the list of data breaches over the years where your email was found.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis guy\u0027s email was in 18 of them. Some were connected to the same reused password.\nSo here\u0027s how the attacker knew his password: he didn\u0027t hack his computer or gain access to his camera,\nhe just found it (or bought it) on some shady website.\nThe attacker probably doesn\u0027t even know what service was this password for or whether it\u0027s even still valid.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGood news about this attack: as of today, not a single cent was sent to\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.blockchain.com\/btc\/address\/bc1qrpmrkdwh2uhnmrsj0803hg909m66rp6ax7y7je\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E that BTC address\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83c\udf89\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo what\u0027s the takeaway?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EEven if someone knows your password, it doesn\u0027t automatically prove their other claims.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003ESign up for email updates from \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/haveibeenpwned.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u0027;--have i been pwned?\u003C\/a\u003E\nand whenever they notify you about a breach, go to that website and change your password.\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDon\u0027t reuse passwords! The best way to stay secure is to use a different, strong, random password for each service\nand store them in a password manager, like \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/keepass.info\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E KeePass\u003C\/a\u003E or even a browser.\nIf someone told me, they know that my password is \u003Ccode\u003EhiVxV788S2dm8rK6P5qH\u003C\/code\u003E?\nBitch, even \u003Cem\u003EI\u003C\/em\u003E don\u0027t know that\u0027s my password \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EDon\u0027t panic! 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Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. 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Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["chores","community","dating","equality","expression","family","freedom","gay","gender","lesbian","lgbtq","online dating","porn","relationship","sex"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew.lite\u0022\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. I cried after the massacre in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/orlando\u0022\u003E Orlando\u003C\/a\u003E as if I\u2019d lost really close friends \u2013 even though I didn\u2019t know those people. After my biological family rejected me, it\u2019s the misfits of the LGBTQ community that made me feel at home again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EOnline dating\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor a shy guy like me online dating is quite a big deal. Remember all the jokes in the sitcoms about couples being ashamed that they\u2019ve met online and coming up with some fake \u201chow we met\u201d stories? This shows a stigma around the topic. As if it was a \u003Cem\u003Eworse\u003C\/em\u003E way to meet someone. If anything, it\u2019s better in many ways. Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag.lite\u0022\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E","words":1481,"readTime":6,"lang":"en"}}}}}