{"tag":"human rights","articles":{"projects\/opinionated-queer-license":{"key":"projects\/opinionated-queer-license","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2021-09-13T18:39:26+02:00","publishedAt":"2021-09-13T18:39:26+02:00","group":null,"links":[{"icon":"gavel","colour":"primary","url":"https:\/\/oql.avris.it","displayUrl":null}],"category":"projects","subcategory":null,"slug":"opinionated-queer-license"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"opinionated-queer-license","title":"Opinionated Queer License","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022230.35072711719\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg 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 \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI create lots of things, mostly software, and I put them on the Internet for free.\nAs an author I have the right to decide under which conditions do I waive my copyrights.\nCommon practice is to just pick one of the permissive licenses,\nmany of which aim to maximise the user\u0027s freedom\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I don\u0027t care.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022460.70145423439\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg 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      \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI create lots of things, mostly software, and I put them on the Internet for free.\nAs an author I have the right to decide under which conditions do I waive my copyrights.\nCommon practice is to just pick one of the permissive licenses,\nmany of which aim to maximise the user\u0027s freedom\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I don\u0027t care.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole point of me giving away stuff for free is to make the world a slightly better place \u2013\nso if someone wants to use them for evil, then screw their freedom.\nI\u0027m queer, I\u0027m a member of minoritised communities \u2013 and I can\u0027t just blindly worship \u201cfreedom\u201d\nin a world where so many use their freedom to actively hurt the most vulnerable.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t want my work to be \u003Cem\u003Efreely\u003C\/em\u003E used \u2013 I want it used \u003Cem\u003Efor good\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, my license prohibits any use by big corporations, cops, military, or use in a bigoted or violent way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027re free to use it too, just keep in mind that I am not a lawyer.\nThis license is inspired by and based on\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/leftcopy.org\/\u0022\u003ELeftcopy\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/thesocialdomain.org\/\u0022\u003EThe Social Domain\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/firstdonoharm.dev\/\u0022\u003EThe Hippocratic License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/github.com\/jgrey4296\/acab\/blob\/main\/LICENSE\u0022\u003EACAB License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/paste.sr.ht\/~boringcactus\/ed023ccf9d7a5559612d6e60f0474d6c3375349d\u0022\u003Ethe fuck around and find out license\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/anticapitalist.software\/\u0022\u003EThe Anti-Capitalist Software License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/4.0\/deed.en\u0022\u003ECC-BY-NC-SA\u003C\/a\u003E,\nand \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/github.com\/jamiebuilds\/license\u0022\u003EJamie Kyle\u0027s MIT License\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["license","queer","human rights","bigotry","copyright","anticapitalism","acab"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022115.1753635586\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI create lots of things, mostly software, and I put them on the Internet for free.\nAs an author I have the right to decide under which conditions do I waive my copyrights.\nCommon practice is to just pick one of the permissive licenses,\nmany of which aim to maximise the user\u0027s freedom\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I don\u0027t care.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/oql_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022115.1753635586\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI create lots of things, mostly software, and I put them on the Internet for free.\nAs an author I have the right to decide under which conditions do I waive my copyrights.\nCommon practice is to just pick one of the permissive licenses,\nmany of which aim to maximise the user\u0027s freedom\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I don\u0027t care.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole point of me giving away stuff for free is to make the world a slightly better place \u2013\nso if someone wants to use them for evil, then screw their freedom.\nI\u0027m queer, I\u0027m a member of minoritised communities \u2013 and I can\u0027t just blindly worship \u201cfreedom\u201d\nin a world where so many use their freedom to actively hurt the most vulnerable.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u0027t want my work to be \u003Cem\u003Efreely\u003C\/em\u003E used \u2013 I want it used \u003Cem\u003Efor good\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, my license prohibits any use by big corporations, cops, military, or use in a bigoted or violent way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u0027re free to use it too, just keep in mind that I am not a lawyer.\nThis license is inspired by and based on\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/leftcopy.org\/\u0022\u003ELeftcopy\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/thesocialdomain.org\/\u0022\u003EThe Social Domain\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/firstdonoharm.dev\/\u0022\u003EThe Hippocratic License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/github.com\/jgrey4296\/acab\/blob\/main\/LICENSE\u0022\u003EACAB License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/paste.sr.ht\/~boringcactus\/ed023ccf9d7a5559612d6e60f0474d6c3375349d\u0022\u003Ethe fuck around and find out license\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/anticapitalist.software\/\u0022\u003EThe Anti-Capitalist Software License\u003C\/a\u003E,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/4.0\/deed.en\u0022\u003ECC-BY-NC-SA\u003C\/a\u003E,\nand \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/github.com\/jamiebuilds\/license\u0022\u003EJamie Kyle\u0027s MIT License\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":203,"readTime":null,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/lgb-always-with-t":{"key":"blog\/society\/lgb-always-with-t","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-03-01T18:11:38+01:00","publishedAt":"2020-03-01T18:11:38+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"lgb-always-with-t"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"lgb-always-with-t","title":"LGB always with T!","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. To be honest the way Gay \u0026 Lesbian issues have been slapped aside for gender identity theory pisses me off.\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022292.8\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. To be honest the way Gay \u0026 Lesbian issues have been slapped aside for gender identity theory pisses me off.\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022292.8\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELGBTQ+ \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E work. We go together, hand in hand. We fight for each other\u0027s rights. It\u0027s the \u201cT\u201d who threw the first bricks in Stonewall.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBlabbing about \u201cseparate issues\u201d is just you trying to mask that you\u0027re EMBARRASSED to be associated with trans people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/transphobia\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E transphobia\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. To be honest the way Gay \u0026 Lesbian issues have been slapped aside for gender identity theory pisses me off.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022366\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. To be honest the way Gay \u0026 Lesbian issues have been slapped aside for gender identity theory pisses me off.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022366\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JackChristy93\/status\/1233497726400258050\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/JackChristy93\/status\/1233497726400258050\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELGBTQ+ \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E work. We go together, hand in hand. We fight for each other\u0027s rights. It\u0027s the \u201cT\u201d who threw the first bricks in Stonewall.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBlabbing about \u201cseparate issues\u201d is just you trying to mask that you\u0027re EMBARRASSED to be associated with trans people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/transphobia\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E transphobia\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll letters in LGBTQ+ are about gender. About who society thinks you\u0027re allowed to be, to do, to wear, whom to love \u2013 all depending on the gender of people involved.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome people get discriminated against because of the gender of their partners, but some \u2013 because of their own.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s all about human rights. It\u0027s all about the same principles and values. It\u0027s all about letting people live the life they want, need and deserve. It\u0027s all about being a decent human being to each other.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["transphobia","terf","stonewall","privilege","trans","human rights"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. To be honest the way Gay \u0026 Lesbian issues have been slapped aside for gender identity theory pisses me off.\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022146.4\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELGBTQ+ \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E work. We go together, hand in hand. We fight for each other\u0027s rights. It\u0027s the \u201cT\u201d who threw the first bricks in Stonewall.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBlabbing about \u201cseparate issues\u201d is just you trying to mask that you\u0027re EMBARRASSED to be associated with trans people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/transphobia\u0022\u003E transphobia\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/terf-gay_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@JackChristy93 on Twitter: Something I probably shouldn\u0027t say as a gay man: I don\u0027t think LGBT works. Sexuality (LGB) and gender identity (T) are nothing like eachother. 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It\u0027s the \u201cT\u201d who threw the first bricks in Stonewall.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBlabbing about \u201cseparate issues\u201d is just you trying to mask that you\u0027re EMBARRASSED to be associated with trans people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/transphobia\u0022\u003E transphobia\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll letters in LGBTQ+ are about gender. About who society thinks you\u0027re allowed to be, to do, to wear, whom to love \u2013 all depending on the gender of people involved.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome people get discriminated against because of the gender of their partners, but some \u2013 because of their own.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s all about human rights. It\u0027s all about the same principles and values. It\u0027s all about letting people live the life they want, need and deserve. It\u0027s all about being a decent human being to each other.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":135,"readTime":null,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/i-have-gay-friends":{"key":"blog\/society\/i-have-gay-friends","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2018-03-21T14:26:48+01:00","publishedAt":"2018-03-21T14:26:00+01:00","group":"coming-out","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"i-have-gay-friends"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"i-have-gay-friends","title":"I have gay friends","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022I have gay friends\u0022 - scumbag Christian meme\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022480\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022I have gay friends\u0022 - scumbag Christian meme\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022480\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u2013 Morning! How was your weekend?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Morning! Well, we went do Poland to visit my boyfriend\u2019s family and we...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Oh, so you have a boyfriend? That\u2019s ok. You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... 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How was your weekend?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Morning! Well, we went do Poland to visit my boyfriend\u2019s family and we...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Oh, so you have a boyfriend? That\u2019s ok. You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... What\u2019s your point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESaying \u201cI have gay friends\u201d might seem like a good way to show someone that you\u2019re okay with them being gay. In reality, it mostly just shows that you\u2019re desperately trying to \u003Cstrong\u003Eshow off your tolerance\u003C\/strong\u003E. It shows that you treat homosexuality as something \u003Cem\u003Estrange, but tolerable\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut you know what kind of support do LGBTQ people \u003Cem\u003Ereally\u003C\/em\u003E need? We just want \u003Cstrong\u003Eto be treated like everyone else\u003C\/strong\u003E \u2013 that\u2019s it. 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We\u2019ll just say we are in love and that will be all that matters \u2013 \u003Cem\u003EEllen Degeneres\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter my wedding, I\u2019m proud to say, I realised I\u2019d finally reached the point where \u003Cstrong\u003Ecoming out is not an issue\u003C\/strong\u003E anymore. I won\u2019t ever come out again. Not that I ever did that movie-style \u201cI need to tell you something... [long pause] I\u2019m gay... [gasp]\u201d. As a matter of fact, in the last time I actually had simply talked about my boyfriend the way straight guys talk about their girlfriends \u2013 but it still felt like I\u2019m confessing some kind of a secret. Even after years of living outside of my homophobic homeland of Poland, the fear of being ridiculed, unaccepted, discriminated against or beaten up was still there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut getting married was the final milestone on the way to leaving all of that behind. 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What\u2019s your point?\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022I have gay friends\u0022 - scumbag Christian meme\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022http:\/\/www.quickmeme.com\/meme\/3qbd0j\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Equickmeme.com\/meme\/3qbd0j\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u2013 Morning! How was your weekend?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Morning! Well, we went do Poland to visit my boyfriend\u2019s family and we...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Oh, so you have a boyfriend? That\u2019s ok. You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... What\u2019s your point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESaying \u201cI have gay friends\u201d might seem like a good way to show someone that you\u2019re okay with them being gay. In reality, it mostly just shows that you\u2019re desperately trying to \u003Cstrong\u003Eshow off your tolerance\u003C\/strong\u003E. It shows that you treat homosexuality as something \u003Cem\u003Estrange, but tolerable\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut you know what kind of support do LGBTQ people \u003Cem\u003Ereally\u003C\/em\u003E need? We just want \u003Cstrong\u003Eto be treated like everyone else\u003C\/strong\u003E \u2013 that\u2019s it. Try replacing \u201cboyfriend\u201d with \u201cgirlfriend\u201d in the dialogue above. You might be surprised (\u201dOh, I thought you were single!\u201d), you might get interested in the other person\u2019s relationship (\u201dHow did you two meet?\u201d), you might just talk abobut the actual subject of the conversation (\u201dCool, did you have fun on your trip?\u201d) \u2013 but you wouldn\u2019t comment on the other person\u2019s heterosexuality, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s that simple \u2013 \u003Cstrong\u003Ewe\u2019re just people\u003C\/strong\u003E, with similar passions, similar problems, similar relationships and the same need for love.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne day we won\u2019t have to \u201ccome out of the closet\u201d. We\u2019ll just say we are in love and that will be all that matters \u2013 \u003Cem\u003EEllen Degeneres\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter my wedding, I\u2019m proud to say, I realised I\u2019d finally reached the point where \u003Cstrong\u003Ecoming out is not an issue\u003C\/strong\u003E anymore. I won\u2019t ever come out again. Not that I ever did that movie-style \u201cI need to tell you something... [long pause] I\u2019m gay... [gasp]\u201d. As a matter of fact, in the last time I actually had simply talked about my boyfriend the way straight guys talk about their girlfriends \u2013 but it still felt like I\u2019m confessing some kind of a secret. Even after years of living outside of my homophobic homeland of Poland, the fear of being ridiculed, unaccepted, discriminated against or beaten up was still there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut getting married was the final milestone on the way to leaving all of that behind. It made me feel that I actually do have \u003Cstrong\u003Eall the same rights\u003C\/strong\u003E and duties as any straight person does. It\u2019s not just \u201cok\u201d to be gay \u2013 it\u2019s perfectly normal. Even the registrar was openly mocking Poland\u2019s backwardness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u2019t hesitate for a second to share the good news with anyone. My husband is so wonderful, our love so beautiful, our relationship so strong. I\u2019m proud of him and I\u2019m proud of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd all we got was a positive, loving, touching response. Not a single person reacted differently than they would react to any other wedding \u2013 not even call it a \u201cgay marriage\u201d or anything. We didn\u2019t get \u201cgay married\u201d, we just got married.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u2019s the kind of society I want to live in. \ud83d\ude0c\u003C\/p\u003E","words":507,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}}}}