{"tag":"gender","articles":{"blog\/society\/nemo-the-code-as-nonbinary-anthem":{"key":"blog\/society\/nemo-the-code-as-nonbinary-anthem","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2024-04-01T12:09:47+02:00","publishedAt":"2024-04-01T12:09:47+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"nemo-the-code-as-nonbinary-anthem"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"nemo-the-code-as-nonbinary-anthem","title":"Nemo\u0027s \u201cThe Code\u201d as a Nonbinary Anthem","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022270\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg 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data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022540\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s a song that stole my heart and has been living in my head rent-free for the last few weeks.\nBefore hearing it, the thought \u201cenbies should pick their anthem\u201d had never really occurred to me \u2013\nbut now I can\u0027t think of a better contender to that title than \u201cThe Code\u201d by Nemo.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo is a 24 year old nonbinary rapper, singer and musician who will be representing Switzerland in the Eurovision Song Contest 2024,\nnext to \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.pronouns.page\/blog\/nonbinary-eurovision\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E three other countries\u003C\/a\u003E represented by amazing nonbinary artists.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E(Yes, I know that Israel taking part in Eurovision is a scandal, and I hate that too.\nBut this is an article about queer joy, not about them \u2013 please go be angry at Israel and EBU somewhere else.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo uses \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.pronouns.page\/blog\/they\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E they\/them\u003C\/a\u003E pronouns in English, but in their native German\nthey prefer to be \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/de.pronouns.page\/:Nemo\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E referred by name, without pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022text-center my-4\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe width=\u0022640\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kiGDvM14Kwg\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 allowfullscreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cThe Code\u201d is a song about discovering their identity as a nonbinary person;\nabout the struggles of the process itself, but more importantly about the reward that\u0027s waiting at the end of this road:\nbeing free from the cishetnormative expectations of the society, finally breaking its \u201ccode\u201d and being able to be truly oneself.\nIt\u0027s a beautiful and powerful song, definitely an earworm, definitely very challenging vocally.\nAnd \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/genius.com\/Nemo-che-the-code-lyrics\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E its lyrics\u003C\/a\u003E are speaking to my enby soul:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWelcome to the show, let everybody know\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027m done playin\u0027 the game, I\u0027ll break out of the chains\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI, I went to hell and back\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTo find myself on track\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI broke the code, wo-o-oah\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESomewhere between the 0s and 1s\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThat\u0027s where I found my kingdom come\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd while I\u0027ve been in love with this song ever since I\u0027d first heard it, it was only\nwhen I watched their performance live a few days ago that I realised we\u0027re witnessing something \u003Cem\u003Ehuge\u003C\/em\u003E.\nNemo is not just fabulously nonbinary on that stage. They\u0027re \u003Cem\u003Eflawless\u003C\/em\u003E. No note is too high for them,\nno beat too fast, not a single thing is off. They\u0027re impressive as fuck!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022text-center my-4\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe width=\u0022640\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bfhKBAt0aLg\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 allowfullscreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd now they\u0027re gonna be bringing that majestic queer energy to the biggest music stage in Europe!\nIn May hundreds of millions of people around the world will see their unapologetic gender-bending beauty,\ntheir powerful message about transcending restrictive social norms, and their flawless execution. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can see that Nemo really feels that song deep in their soul.\nIt\u0027s not a just banger produced to make money \u2013 it\u0027s personal.\nIt\u0027s a song they believe in and a song they\u0027re singing from their heart.\nHere\u0027s what Nemo had to say after the performance:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll of myself is in this song and when I perform it I become one with it.\nI don\u0027t even really know what\u0027s happening the 3 minutes just rushed by.\nIt\u0027s amazing to be allowed to perform this song live and that you all are enjoying it so much is even better.\n\u003Csup\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/eurovision\/comments\/1brtwem\/comment\/kxbhvlt\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E [credits for translation]\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo is one of the favourites to win the ESC \u2013 and I hope y\u0027all can see why!\n\u201cThe Code\u201d is a beautiful song, interesting musically, challenging vocally, with lyrics relatable to so many\nmarginalised people, and with a powerful message.\n\u003Cstrong\u003EWhen somebody asks me, what it feels like to be proudly nonbinary \u2013 now I can just show them Nemo\u0027s performance.\u003C\/strong\u003E\nThat\u0027s how. That\u0027s the power of rejecting patriarchy.\nI can barely imagine how many people questioning their gender will see that performance and see themselves in it,\nwill find the power to discover their identity and to proudly be themselves. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are many amazing songs by nonbinary artists about their experience of gender \u2013\nbut \u201cThe Code\u201d is the one that stole my heart. It checks all the boxes. And in my humble opinion,\nit absolutely deserves to be called the anthem of our community.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["eurovision","song","anthem","music","nonbinary","gender","switzerland"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022135\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s a song that stole my heart and has been living in my head rent-free for the last few weeks.\nBefore hearing it, the thought \u201cenbies should pick their anthem\u201d had never really occurred to me \u2013\nbut now I can\u0027t think of a better contender to that title than \u201cThe Code\u201d by Nemo.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/nemo-code_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022135\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s a song that stole my heart and has been living in my head rent-free for the last few weeks.\nBefore hearing it, the thought \u201cenbies should pick their anthem\u201d had never really occurred to me \u2013\nbut now I can\u0027t think of a better contender to that title than \u201cThe Code\u201d by Nemo.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo is a 24 year old nonbinary rapper, singer and musician who will be representing Switzerland in the Eurovision Song Contest 2024,\nnext to \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.pronouns.page\/blog\/nonbinary-eurovision\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E three other countries\u003C\/a\u003E represented by amazing nonbinary artists.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E(Yes, I know that Israel taking part in Eurovision is a scandal, and I hate that too.\nBut this is an article about queer joy, not about them \u2013 please go be angry at Israel and EBU somewhere else.)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo uses \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.pronouns.page\/blog\/they\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E they\/them\u003C\/a\u003E pronouns in English, but in their native German\nthey prefer to be \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/de.pronouns.page\/:Nemo\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E referred by name, without pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022text-center my-4\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe width=\u0022640\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kiGDvM14Kwg\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 allowfullscreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cThe Code\u201d is a song about discovering their identity as a nonbinary person;\nabout the struggles of the process itself, but more importantly about the reward that\u0027s waiting at the end of this road:\nbeing free from the cishetnormative expectations of the society, finally breaking its \u201ccode\u201d and being able to be truly oneself.\nIt\u0027s a beautiful and powerful song, definitely an earworm, definitely very challenging vocally.\nAnd \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/genius.com\/Nemo-che-the-code-lyrics\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E its lyrics\u003C\/a\u003E are speaking to my enby soul:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWelcome to the show, let everybody know\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI\u0027m done playin\u0027 the game, I\u0027ll break out of the chains\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI, I went to hell and back\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nTo find myself on track\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nI broke the code, wo-o-oah\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u00a0\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESomewhere between the 0s and 1s\u003Cbr \/\u003E\nThat\u0027s where I found my kingdom come\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd while I\u0027ve been in love with this song ever since I\u0027d first heard it, it was only\nwhen I watched their performance live a few days ago that I realised we\u0027re witnessing something \u003Cem\u003Ehuge\u003C\/em\u003E.\nNemo is not just fabulously nonbinary on that stage. They\u0027re \u003Cem\u003Eflawless\u003C\/em\u003E. No note is too high for them,\nno beat too fast, not a single thing is off. They\u0027re impressive as fuck!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cdiv class=\u0022text-center my-4\u0022\u003E\u003Ciframe width=\u0022640\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 src=\u0022https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bfhKBAt0aLg\u0022 frameborder=\u00220\u0022 allowfullscreen\u003E\u003C\/iframe\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd now they\u0027re gonna be bringing that majestic queer energy to the biggest music stage in Europe!\nIn May hundreds of millions of people around the world will see their unapologetic gender-bending beauty,\ntheir powerful message about transcending restrictive social norms, and their flawless execution. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can see that Nemo really feels that song deep in their soul.\nIt\u0027s not a just banger produced to make money \u2013 it\u0027s personal.\nIt\u0027s a song they believe in and a song they\u0027re singing from their heart.\nHere\u0027s what Nemo had to say after the performance:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll of myself is in this song and when I perform it I become one with it.\nI don\u0027t even really know what\u0027s happening the 3 minutes just rushed by.\nIt\u0027s amazing to be allowed to perform this song live and that you all are enjoying it so much is even better.\n\u003Csup\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/eurovision\/comments\/1brtwem\/comment\/kxbhvlt\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E [credits for translation]\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENemo is one of the favourites to win the ESC \u2013 and I hope y\u0027all can see why!\n\u201cThe Code\u201d is a beautiful song, interesting musically, challenging vocally, with lyrics relatable to so many\nmarginalised people, and with a powerful message.\n\u003Cstrong\u003EWhen somebody asks me, what it feels like to be proudly nonbinary \u2013 now I can just show them Nemo\u0027s performance.\u003C\/strong\u003E\nThat\u0027s how. That\u0027s the power of rejecting patriarchy.\nI can barely imagine how many people questioning their gender will see that performance and see themselves in it,\nwill find the power to discover their identity and to proudly be themselves. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are many amazing songs by nonbinary artists about their experience of gender \u2013\nbut \u201cThe Code\u201d is the one that stole my heart. It checks all the boxes. And in my humble opinion,\nit absolutely deserves to be called the anthem of our community.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":623,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"projects\/callmebymygender":{"key":"projects\/callmebymygender","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2023-05-07T17:52:06+02:00","publishedAt":"2023-05-07T17:52:06+02:00","group":null,"links":[{"icon":"globe-europe","colour":"primary","url":"https:\/\/callmebymygender.top\/","displayUrl":null}],"category":"projects","subcategory":null,"slug":"callmebymygender"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"callmebymygender","title":"callmebymygender","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/callmebymygender_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022251.30590339893\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan 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about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPatriarchy and heteronormativity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn pretty much every movie, book or TV series the heteronormative relationships look the same.\nThe girls is supposed to be submissive, delicate, while the guy is dominant and strong.\nHe\u0027s supposed to fight for her, impress her, ask her out, pay for her.\nShe\u0027s supposed to play hard to get, innocent\u2026\nHe makes money, she\u0027s a hausfrau.\nRoles are clearly defined and very asymmetrical.\nMost love stories don\u0027t look like love, but rather a conquest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeeing same-sex relationships was so fucking refreshing for me!\nNo stupid schemas, expectations, rectum-derived rules!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why straight people keep asking gays the iditoic question\n\u201cwho\u0027s the man and who\u0027s the woman in your relationship?\u201d.\nThey get that a guy might like men instead of women, but still cannot comprehend\nany other 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How ironic!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose boobs are fake. Those lips are fake. This voice is fake.\nThe plot is unrealistic. Getting a blowjob while still hanging from a basketball loop\nis probably not comfortable enough for people to actually do in real life.\nAnd don\u0027t even get me started on his dick springing out rock hard right away\nwith no mental or physical stimulation whatsoever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u0027s not an exception, the fakeness pretty much a common theme.\nThe strong makeup that\u0027s supposed to start dripping with her tears when she gets face-fucked by a colossal dick.\nThe almost absolute lack of interest in the girl\u0027s pleasure\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf that\u0027s what straight sex is like, I don\u0027t want it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept porn lied to me! Sex isn\u0027t like that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMonogamy\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, not monogamy \u003Cem\u003Eper se\u003C\/em\u003E, but forcing it as the default, or even the only, option.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen everyone in your life tells you you\u0027re supposed to find \u201cthe one and only\u201d and \u201ctill death tears us apart\u201d,\nit\u0027s easy to fall into the trap of feeling forced to choose.\nNot just the \u003Cem\u003Eperson\u003C\/em\u003E to spend your whole life with, but the entire \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFinding out that it\u0027s possible (and awesome!) to love more than one person at the same time\nhas also opened my eyes to endless other possibilities.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s way more, but those three things in particular I\u0027m very angry about.\nThe world keeps lying to us about how to be happy. It shows us just one possible way:\na patriarchal, monogamous relationship. Or, yeah, whatever those gays are doing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut turns out that queerness is vastly more colourful than any of that!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["sexuality","gender","sexual orientation","romantic orientation","patriarchy","porn","monogamy","polyamory","queer"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay.lite\u0022\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003ESometimes it takes people a long time to figure out their gender and sexuality (and it\u0027s perfectly okay!)\nI was 27 when \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay.lite\u0022\u003E I came out as pansexual\u003C\/a\u003E, and honestly it\u0027s not even that late.\nStill, it makes me feel sad about all time \u201cwasted\u201d not knowing who I am and being confused AF.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo today I\u0027d like to take a moment to rant about three of the awful things that contributed to that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPatriarchy and heteronormativity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn pretty much every movie, book or TV series the heteronormative relationships look the same.\nThe girls is supposed to be submissive, delicate, while the guy is dominant and strong.\nHe\u0027s supposed to fight for her, impress her, ask her out, pay for her.\nShe\u0027s supposed to play hard to get, innocent\u2026\nHe makes money, she\u0027s a hausfrau.\nRoles are clearly defined and very asymmetrical.\nMost love stories don\u0027t look like love, but rather a conquest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeeing same-sex relationships was so fucking refreshing for me!\nNo stupid schemas, expectations, rectum-derived rules!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why straight people keep asking gays the iditoic question\n\u201cwho\u0027s the man and who\u0027s the woman in your relationship?\u201d.\nThey get that a guy might like men instead of women, but still cannot comprehend\nany other model of the relationship than what popular culture taught them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd I did the opposite \u2013 I knew I don\u0027t want a patriarchal relationship,\nI just didn\u0027t realise I \u003Cem\u003Ecan\u003C\/em\u003E have that with a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMainstream porn\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003C!--\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/reality-kings_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022A screenshot of a porn scene from \u201cReality Kings\u201d studio\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022134.66666666667\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E--\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAs hard as it might be to believe,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/JFilmsxxx\/status\/1300307152783974400\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E this outrageously unrealistic porn scene\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Cspan class=\u0022badge badge-warning\u0022\u003ECW: porn\u003C\/span\u003E\nhas been released by a studio called \u201cReality Kings\u201d. How ironic!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThose boobs are fake. Those lips are fake. This voice is fake.\nThe plot is unrealistic. Getting a blowjob while still hanging from a basketball loop\nis probably not comfortable enough for people to actually do in real life.\nAnd don\u0027t even get me started on his dick springing out rock hard right away\nwith no mental or physical stimulation whatsoever.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u0027s not an exception, the fakeness pretty much a common theme.\nThe strong makeup that\u0027s supposed to start dripping with her tears when she gets face-fucked by a colossal dick.\nThe almost absolute lack of interest in the girl\u0027s pleasure\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf that\u0027s what straight sex is like, I don\u0027t want it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept porn lied to me! Sex isn\u0027t like that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EMonogamy\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, not monogamy \u003Cem\u003Eper se\u003C\/em\u003E, but forcing it as the default, or even the only, option.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen everyone in your life tells you you\u0027re supposed to find \u201cthe one and only\u201d and \u201ctill death tears us apart\u201d,\nit\u0027s easy to fall into the trap of feeling forced to choose.\nNot just the \u003Cem\u003Eperson\u003C\/em\u003E to spend your whole life with, but the entire \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFinding out that it\u0027s possible (and awesome!) to love more than one person at the same time\nhas also opened my eyes to endless other possibilities.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u0027s way more, but those three things in particular I\u0027m very angry about.\nThe world keeps lying to us about how to be happy. 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They\u0027re those words that we use instead of calling someone by their name every time we mention them. Most people use \u201che\/him\u201d and \u201cshe\/her\u201d, so we automatically assume which one to call them based on someone\u0027s looks. But it\u0027s actually not that simple\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGender is complicated. Some people \u201cdon\u0027t look like\u201d their gender. Some prefer being called in a different way from what you\u0027d assume. 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Yes, even if you\u0027re famous and everyone knows your gender already.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s why:\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not kidding, everyone should have pronouns in their bio, if it\u0027s safe for them to do so.\nYes, even if you\u0027re cis (= not trans). Yes, even if you\u0027re famous and everyone knows your gender already.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHere\u0027s why:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(\u003Cstrong\u003ENote:\u003C\/strong\u003E If you\u0027re trans and not yet ready to come out, don\u0027t feel pressured!\nThis post is for the cis allies \ud83d\ude09)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause addressing people the way they prefer is just basic decency.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou wouldn\u0027t call Ashley \u201cSamantha\u201d just because you like that name more or because \u201cshe looks like a Samantha to you\u201d.\nAnd even if it does say \u201cSamantha\u201d on her birth certificate, but she absolutely hates that name and prefers \u201cAshley\u201d,\nyou\u0027d respect that, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd it\u0027s the exact same story with pronouns \u2013 if you don\u0027t want to be rude towards someone, please address them properly.\nThe only difference is that we usually \u003Cem\u003Eknow\u003C\/em\u003E each other\u0027s names \u2013 but not pronouns.\nWe introduce ourselves with a name, but not with pronouns. Let\u0027s change that \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are people who look manly while being women (either cis on trans),\nthere are he\/him lesbians, there are nonbinary people using binary pronouns for different reasons, etc. etc.\nSeing a picture of someone\u0027s face doesn\u0027t automatically mean you\u0027ll be right when you assume their pronouns.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause of different languages and unisex names\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn English, \u201cCarol\u201d is a feminine name, while Polish the name \u201cKarol\u201d is given to boys.\nIn many languages \u201cAlex\u201d can be short for both \u201cAlexandra\u201d and \u201cAlexander\u201d.\nA person who doesn\u0027t speak Arabic probably won\u0027t know what gender \u201cFarrah\u201d is associated with.\nIf you introduce yourself with just a name (eg. in an email), for many people it might still not be clear how to address you,\nbecause they have no cultural knowledge about what pronouns usually go with that name.\nIt\u0027s easier to just be explicit and not expect them to guess.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it normalises doing so.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESharing their pronouns is very important for trans, nonbinary and gender nonconforming people.\nAlas, it also exposes us and singles us out.\nBut if cis people do the same, it means the world for us. It makes us feel more confortable, safe and welcome.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it shows support.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven if your friends or fans know very well that you\u0027re a cis man, adding that \u201che\/him\u201d to your profile\nstill gives them a very important information \u2013 that you support the trans community.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour support is important. Especially if you\u0027re well known and influential.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it reduces confusion.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre you talking to someone who looks androgynous\nand you don\u0027t know how to address them without offending them?\nNormalisation of giving pronouns and asking about pronous comes to rescue!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it\u0027s positive and harmless.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeriously, there are only upsides \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["gender","pronouns","trans","nonbinary","normalise"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not kidding, everyone should have pronouns in their bio, if it\u0027s safe for them to do so.\nYes, even if you\u0027re cis (= not trans). 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Let\u0027s change that \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary.lite\u0022\u003E gender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere are people who look manly while being women (either cis on trans),\nthere are he\/him lesbians, there are nonbinary people using binary pronouns for different reasons, etc. etc.\nSeing a picture of someone\u0027s face doesn\u0027t automatically mean you\u0027ll be right when you assume their pronouns.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause of different languages and unisex names\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn English, \u201cCarol\u201d is a feminine name, while Polish the name \u201cKarol\u201d is given to boys.\nIn many languages \u201cAlex\u201d can be short for both \u201cAlexandra\u201d and \u201cAlexander\u201d.\nA person who doesn\u0027t speak Arabic probably won\u0027t know what gender \u201cFarrah\u201d is associated with.\nIf you introduce yourself with just a name (eg. in an email), for many people it might still not be clear how to address you,\nbecause they have no cultural knowledge about what pronouns usually go with that name.\nIt\u0027s easier to just be explicit and not expect them to guess.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it normalises doing so.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESharing their pronouns is very important for trans, nonbinary and gender nonconforming people.\nAlas, it also exposes us and singles us out.\nBut if cis people do the same, it means the world for us. It makes us feel more confortable, safe and welcome.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it shows support.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven if your friends or fans know very well that you\u0027re a cis man, adding that \u201che\/him\u201d to your profile\nstill gives them a very important information \u2013 that you support the trans community.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYour support is important. Especially if you\u0027re well known and influential.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it reduces confusion.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAre you talking to someone who looks androgynous\nand you don\u0027t know how to address them without offending them?\nNormalisation of giving pronouns and asking about pronous comes to rescue!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBecause it\u0027s positive and harmless.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeriously, there are only upsides \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E","words":457,"readTime":2,"lang":"en"},"pl":{"slug":"czemu-ka\u017cdy-powinien-mie\u0107-zaimki-w-bio","title":"Czemu ka\u017cda cis osoba sojusznicza powinna mie\u0107 zaimki w bio","intro":"\u003Cp\u003ENie \u017cartuj\u0119. Ka\u017cdx, kto mo\u017ce bezpiecznie to zrobi\u0107, powininx mie\u0107 zaimki w bio.\nTak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b cis (= nie trans). Tak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i ka\u017cdy ju\u017c zna twoj\u0105 p\u0142e\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003ENie \u017cartuj\u0119. Ka\u017cdx, kto mo\u017ce bezpiecznie to zrobi\u0107, powininx mie\u0107 zaimki w bio.\nTak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b cis (= nie trans). Tak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i ka\u017cdy ju\u017c zna twoj\u0105 p\u0142e\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(\u003Cstrong\u003EUwaga:\u003C\/strong\u003E Je\u015bli jeste\u015b osob\u0105 trans i nie jeste\u015b jeszcze gotowx na coming out, nie czuj presji.\nTen artyku\u0142 jest skierowany do cis sojusznik\u00f3w \ud83d\ude09)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c zwracanie si\u0119 do ludzi tak, jak wol\u0105, jest podstawow\u0105 uprzejmo\u015bci\u0105.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie nazywa\u0142xby\u015b Moniki \u201cMart\u0105\u201d tylko dlatego, \u017ce bardziej ci si\u0119 podoba to imi\u0119,\nalbo dlatego, \u017ce \u201cdla ciebie ona wygl\u0105da jak Marta\u201d.\nNawet je\u015bli mia\u0142aby \u201cMarta\u201d w papierach, ale szczerze nienawidzi\u0142a tego imienia i zamiast niego wybra\u0142a sobie \u201cMonika\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZ zaimkami jest podobnie \u2013 je\u015bli nie chcesz by\u0107 wobec kogo\u015b niegrzecznx, zwracaj si\u0119 do ludzi tak, jak sobie tego \u017cycz\u0105.\nJedyn\u0105 r\u00f3\u017cnic\u0105 jest to, \u017ce przewa\u017cnie \u003Cem\u003Eznamy\u003C\/em\u003E imi\u0119, lecz nie zaimki.\nPrzestawiamy si\u0119 iminiem, ale nie zaimkami. Czas to zmieni\u0107 \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E p\u0142e\u0107 \u2260 wygl\u0105d \u2260 zaimki\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIsniej\u0105 ludzie wygl\u0105daj\u0105cy m\u0119sko mimo bycia kobietami (czy to cis czy trans),\nistniej\u0105 he lesbians, istniej\u0105 osoby niebinarne u\u017cywaj\u0105ce binarnych zaimk\u00f3w\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/genderneutralizacja-polszczyzny\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E zw\u0142aszcza w j\u0119zykach jak polski\u003C\/a\u003E), itp. itd.\nTo, \u017ce widzisz zdj\u0119cie czyjej\u015b twarzy, nie znaczy \u017ce b\u0119dzie w stanie poprawnie zgadn\u0105\u0107 ich zaimki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c istniej\u0105 inne j\u0119zyki oraz imiona unisex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201eKarol\u201d jest imieniem m\u0119skim, ale osoba angloj\u0119zyczna nosz\u0105ca imi\u0119 \u201eCarol\u201d najprawdopodobniej b\u0119dzie kobiet\u0105.\nW wielu j\u0119zykach imi\u0119 \u201eAlex\u201d mo\u017ce by\u0107 skr\u00f3con\u0105 form\u0105 zar\u00f3wno imienia \u201cAlexandra\u201d, jak i \u201cAlexander\u201d.\nOsoba nieznaj\u0105ca arabskiej zapewne nie b\u0119dzie wiedzia\u0142a, z kt\u00f3r\u0105 p\u0142ci\u0105 jest kojarzone imi\u0119 \u201eFarrah\u201d.\nJe\u015bli przedstawiasz si\u0119 wy\u0142\u0105cznie imieniem (np. w emailu), wiele os\u00f3b nie b\u0119dzie w stanie zgadn\u0105\u0107,\njakie zaimki przewa\u017cnie id\u0105 z tym imieniem w parze w Twoim j\u0119zyku i Twojej kulturze.\nPro\u015bciej jest po prostu przekaza\u0107 t\u0119 informacj\u0119 wprost, zamiast zmusza\u0107 rozm\u00f3wc\u00f3w do zgadywania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to normalizuje dzielenie si\u0119 zaimkami.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDzielenie si\u0119 swoimi zaimkami jest niezmiernie istotne dla os\u00f3b transp\u0142ciowych, niebinarnych i gender nonconforming.\nNiestety, to r\u00f3wnie\u017c nas eksponuje i wystawia na widok.\nLecz je\u015bli ludzie cis robi\u0105 to samo, jest to dla nas niezmiernie wa\u017cne.\nSprawia, \u017ce czujemy si\u0119 bardziej komfortowo i bezpiecznie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to pokazuje wsparcie.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENawet je\u015bli twoi znajomi i fani \u015bwietnie wiedz\u0105, \u017ce jeste\u015b cis facetem, to dodanie \u201con\/jego\u201d w profilu\ni tak daje im bardzo wa\u017cn\u0105 informacj\u0119 \u2013 \u017ce wspierasz osoby trans oraz tych, kt\u00f3rzy nie s\u0105 pewni swojej p\u0142ci.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETwoje wsparcie jest wa\u017cne. Zw\u0142aszcza, je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i wp\u0142ywowx.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to pomaga unikn\u0105\u0107 nieporozumie\u0144.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERozmawiasz z kim\u015b wygl\u0105daj\u0105cym androgynicznie i nie wiesz, jak si\u0119 do nix zwr\u00f3ci\u0107, by jex nie obrazi\u0107?\nNormalizacja podawania zaimk\u00f3w i pytania o zaimki na pewno w takich sytuacjach pomo\u017ce!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c jest to pozytywne i nieszkodliwe.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESerio, same zalety bez wad. \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["gender","p\u0142e\u0107","pronouns","zaimki","trans","nonbinary","niebinarno\u015b\u0107","normalizowanie"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003ENie \u017cartuj\u0119. Ka\u017cdx, kto mo\u017ce bezpiecznie to zrobi\u0107, powininx mie\u0107 zaimki w bio.\nTak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b cis (= nie trans). Tak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i ka\u017cdy ju\u017c zna twoj\u0105 p\u0142e\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003ENie \u017cartuj\u0119. Ka\u017cdx, kto mo\u017ce bezpiecznie to zrobi\u0107, powininx mie\u0107 zaimki w bio.\nTak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b cis (= nie trans). Tak, nawet je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i ka\u017cdy ju\u017c zna twoj\u0105 p\u0142e\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(\u003Cstrong\u003EUwaga:\u003C\/strong\u003E Je\u015bli jeste\u015b osob\u0105 trans i nie jeste\u015b jeszcze gotowx na coming out, nie czuj presji.\nTen artyku\u0142 jest skierowany do cis sojusznik\u00f3w \ud83d\ude09)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c zwracanie si\u0119 do ludzi tak, jak wol\u0105, jest podstawow\u0105 uprzejmo\u015bci\u0105.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie nazywa\u0142xby\u015b Moniki \u201cMart\u0105\u201d tylko dlatego, \u017ce bardziej ci si\u0119 podoba to imi\u0119,\nalbo dlatego, \u017ce \u201cdla ciebie ona wygl\u0105da jak Marta\u201d.\nNawet je\u015bli mia\u0142aby \u201cMarta\u201d w papierach, ale szczerze nienawidzi\u0142a tego imienia i zamiast niego wybra\u0142a sobie \u201cMonika\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZ zaimkami jest podobnie \u2013 je\u015bli nie chcesz by\u0107 wobec kogo\u015b niegrzecznx, zwracaj si\u0119 do ludzi tak, jak sobie tego \u017cycz\u0105.\nJedyn\u0105 r\u00f3\u017cnic\u0105 jest to, \u017ce przewa\u017cnie \u003Cem\u003Eznamy\u003C\/em\u003E imi\u0119, lecz nie zaimki.\nPrzestawiamy si\u0119 iminiem, ale nie zaimkami. Czas to zmieni\u0107 \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary.lite\u0022\u003E p\u0142e\u0107 \u2260 wygl\u0105d \u2260 zaimki\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIsniej\u0105 ludzie wygl\u0105daj\u0105cy m\u0119sko mimo bycia kobietami (czy to cis czy trans),\nistniej\u0105 he lesbians, istniej\u0105 osoby niebinarne u\u017cywaj\u0105ce binarnych zaimk\u00f3w\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/genderneutralizacja-polszczyzny.lite\u0022\u003E zw\u0142aszcza w j\u0119zykach jak polski\u003C\/a\u003E), itp. itd.\nTo, \u017ce widzisz zdj\u0119cie czyjej\u015b twarzy, nie znaczy \u017ce b\u0119dzie w stanie poprawnie zgadn\u0105\u0107 ich zaimki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c istniej\u0105 inne j\u0119zyki oraz imiona unisex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201eKarol\u201d jest imieniem m\u0119skim, ale osoba angloj\u0119zyczna nosz\u0105ca imi\u0119 \u201eCarol\u201d najprawdopodobniej b\u0119dzie kobiet\u0105.\nW wielu j\u0119zykach imi\u0119 \u201eAlex\u201d mo\u017ce by\u0107 skr\u00f3con\u0105 form\u0105 zar\u00f3wno imienia \u201cAlexandra\u201d, jak i \u201cAlexander\u201d.\nOsoba nieznaj\u0105ca arabskiej zapewne nie b\u0119dzie wiedzia\u0142a, z kt\u00f3r\u0105 p\u0142ci\u0105 jest kojarzone imi\u0119 \u201eFarrah\u201d.\nJe\u015bli przedstawiasz si\u0119 wy\u0142\u0105cznie imieniem (np. w emailu), wiele os\u00f3b nie b\u0119dzie w stanie zgadn\u0105\u0107,\njakie zaimki przewa\u017cnie id\u0105 z tym imieniem w parze w Twoim j\u0119zyku i Twojej kulturze.\nPro\u015bciej jest po prostu przekaza\u0107 t\u0119 informacj\u0119 wprost, zamiast zmusza\u0107 rozm\u00f3wc\u00f3w do zgadywania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to normalizuje dzielenie si\u0119 zaimkami.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDzielenie si\u0119 swoimi zaimkami jest niezmiernie istotne dla os\u00f3b transp\u0142ciowych, niebinarnych i gender nonconforming.\nNiestety, to r\u00f3wnie\u017c nas eksponuje i wystawia na widok.\nLecz je\u015bli ludzie cis robi\u0105 to samo, jest to dla nas niezmiernie wa\u017cne.\nSprawia, \u017ce czujemy si\u0119 bardziej komfortowo i bezpiecznie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to pokazuje wsparcie.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENawet je\u015bli twoi znajomi i fani \u015bwietnie wiedz\u0105, \u017ce jeste\u015b cis facetem, to dodanie \u201con\/jego\u201d w profilu\ni tak daje im bardzo wa\u017cn\u0105 informacj\u0119 \u2013 \u017ce wspierasz osoby trans oraz tych, kt\u00f3rzy nie s\u0105 pewni swojej p\u0142ci.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETwoje wsparcie jest wa\u017cne. Zw\u0142aszcza, je\u015bli jeste\u015b s\u0142awnx i wp\u0142ywowx.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c to pomaga unikn\u0105\u0107 nieporozumie\u0144.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERozmawiasz z kim\u015b wygl\u0105daj\u0105cym androgynicznie i nie wiesz, jak si\u0119 do nix zwr\u00f3ci\u0107, by jex nie obrazi\u0107?\nNormalizacja podawania zaimk\u00f3w i pytania o zaimki na pewno w takich sytuacjach pomo\u017ce!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPoniewa\u017c jest to pozytywne i nieszkodliwe.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESerio, same zalety bez wad. \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E","words":506,"readTime":3,"lang":"pl"}}},"blog\/life\/quirks-of-polish-names":{"key":"blog\/life\/quirks-of-polish-names","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-06-26T10:04:27+02:00","publishedAt":"2020-04-18T13:47:00+02:00","group":"names","category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"quirks-of-polish-names"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"quirks-of-polish-names","title":"Quirks of Polish names","intro":"\u003Cp\u003EHaving lived in three different countries and interacted with people from all around the world\nmade me realise that Polish names have some pretty unique quirks \u2013 to which, as a native speaker,\nI didn\u0027t give too much thought, while foreigners find them quite strange.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EHaving lived in three different countries and interacted with people from all around the world\nmade me realise that Polish names have some pretty unique quirks \u2013 to which, as a native speaker,\nI didn\u0027t give too much thought, while foreigners find them quite strange.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe most obviously tricky part is the pronunciation.\nMy name, \u201cAndrzej\u201d, is pronunced \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/andrzej\/pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E like this\u003C\/a\u003E, with the \u201crz\u201d as \/\u0290\/.\nBut hardly anyone outside of Poland knows that and has no problems pronouncing it and writing it down.\nThat\u0027s why I usually go by \u201cAndre\u201d, as a simplification. And recently also as \u201cAndrea\u201d, to make it gender-neutral.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut dificult pronunciation is almost a given when talking about other languages. What\u0027s quite specific to Polish then?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E(Doubly) diminutive-able first names\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMany languages have \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Diminutive\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E diminutives\u003C\/a\u003E.\nMany use them also for names (eg. English: Tim \u2192 Timmy, Richard \u2192 Dick, ...).\nSome languages even have a concept of double diminutive (Italian: casa \u2192 casetta \u2192 casettina).\nBut Polish just \u003Cem\u003Eloooves\u003C\/em\u003E its diminutives!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAccording to \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/ksiega-imion.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E ksiega-imion.pl\u003C\/a\u003E, my first name, Andrzej, can be tuned into:\nAndruszko, Andrzejek, J\u0119drek, J\u0119dru\u015b, J\u0119drzejek, Ondrzejek, Ondraszek, or Ondrysz.\nDiminutives of Katarzyna are: Kacha, Kachna, Kasia, Kasie\u0144ka, Kasiunia, Ka\u015bka, Katarzynka, Katka.\nOf Jan: Janek, Janosik, Jasiek, Jasio, Ja\u015b, Ja\u015bko. And so on, and so forth...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd the thing is: which one to use can depend on so many things... Most are regional forms.\nSome you can use more like a joke or a nickname rather than a diminutive of a name.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve noticed that many follow a three-level pattern. For instance:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EPiotr \u2192 Piotrek \u2192 Piotru\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGrzegorz \u2192 Grzesiek \u2192 Grzesiu\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMa\u0142gorzata \u2192 Go\u015bka \u2192 Gosia\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EWojciech \u2192 Wojtek \u2192 Wojtu\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EJan \u2192 Janek \u2192 Ja\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E...\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe first one is \u003Cem\u003Every\u003C\/em\u003E formal. That\u0027s what\u0027s in your documents. That\u0027s what you probably hardly ever use\noutside of formal situations \u2013 at least I wouldn\u0027t, if I had one of those names.\nI\u0027ve had friends and family members who would always go by \u201cWojtek\u201d and never \u201cWojciech\u201d, always \u201cGosia\u201d and never \u201cMa\u0142gorzata\u201d, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt sounds so formal that my sister Ma\u0142ogrzata, upon moving to the UK,\nwouldn\u0027t go by the English version of her name \u2013 Margaret -\nbut by an artificial anglicisation of the Polish diminutive \u201cGosia\u201d: so she\u0027s now known as \u201cGosha\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe second one is usually what you use informally, what friends call you, what the extended family calls you.\nThe third one is pretty intimate and quite infantile. You might call your romantic partners that, you might call children that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually. It all differs from name to name, it differs from person to person.\nSometimes it can get quite tricky to decide which form of one\u0027s name to use,\nin order not to sound too formal, or too familiar, or too childish...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why I\u0027m very glad that my name is not one of those \u201cthree-level\u201d names.\n\u201cAndrzej\u201d just doesn\u0027t sound \u003Cem\u003Eso formal\u003C\/em\u003E that it would be weird to call your friend that.\nOne can form a diminutive of it, if one wants, but \u201cAndrzej\u201d itself is pretty neutral.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd they did, btw. My parish priest, for example,\njokingly called be \u201cJ\u0119drek\u201d, because he\u0027s from the mountains where this form is popular.\nAnd my mother called me \u201cAdu\u015b\u201d, completely ignoring the fact that it\u0027s not in the slightest a diminutive of \u201cAndrzej\u201d.\nIt is a male-ified version of a diminutive of a female name \u201cAda\u201d.\nBut she also called my brother \u201cMaciu\u015b\u201d, even though it\u0027s a diminutive of \u201cMaciej\u201d, not \u201cMarcin\u201d,\nand she called his daughter \u201cMagda\u201d even though her name is \u201cWiktoria\u201d, so what does she know \ud83e\udd37\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESumming up: the Poles can get pretty inventive with their names, and chosing a proper form can get tricky sometimes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EDeclinable surnames\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then there\u0027s surnames. Most are quite straight-forward, but there\u0027s one category that behaves a bit unexpectedly.\nThose surnames, ending in -ski and -cki, are basically adjectives, which means they get declined.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolish, as a \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/genderneutralizacja-polszczyzny\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E stronly genderised\u003C\/a\u003E language,\ndistinguishes between male and female way more often than necessary.\nSo for example, my surname is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eski\u003C\/strong\u003E, but my sister\u0027s is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eska\u003C\/strong\u003E.\nThe family name is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Escy\u003C\/strong\u003E, but a subset of two or more women would be called Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eskie\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet\u0027s look at \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Wachowskis\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Lana \u0026amp; Lilly Wachowski\u003C\/a\u003E,\ncollectively known as \u201cThe Wachowskis\u201d or \u201cThe Wachowski sisters\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf they lived and transitioned in Poland (or treated their Polish heritage more to the letter),\nthey would probably change not only their first names, but also surnames.\nIt would be \u201cLana Wachowska\u201d and \u201cLilly Wachowska\u201d, and collectively \u201csiostry Wachowskie\u201d.\nAlso, the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/Wachowski\/pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E pronunciation\u003C\/a\u003E\nwould be vastly different from the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/Wachowski\/en\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E anglicised version\u003C\/a\u003E, just saying...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EName day\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd finally, something more loosely related to names:\npeople in Poland celebrate \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Name_day\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E name days\u003C\/a\u003E.\nIt\u0027s also popular in some other Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox countries,\nbut not as universal as birthdays, so worth mentioning, I guess...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBasically, if a person died and became a saint, there would be a \u201cmemory\u201d day put in the liturgical calendar,\nusually on the day of their death. That way the priest will know to read a short note about their life\nbefore the mass. Eventually, those names ended up in regular calendars,\nand people bearing those names started celebrating the feast day of their patron saint.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo in Poland you usually have two celebrations of your person every year \u2013\na birthday, usually celebrated with family,\nand a name day, usually celebrated by getting super drunk with your friends.\nUnless you\u0027re a child, then you only get a birthday, sorry.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["name","first name","last name","surname","declension","declination","gender","language","linguistics","poland","polish"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EHaving lived in three different countries and interacted with people from all around the world\nmade me realise that Polish names have some pretty unique quirks \u2013 to which, as a native speaker,\nI didn\u0027t give too much thought, while foreigners find them quite strange.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EHaving lived in three different countries and interacted with people from all around the world\nmade me realise that Polish names have some pretty unique quirks \u2013 to which, as a native speaker,\nI didn\u0027t give too much thought, while foreigners find them quite strange.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe most obviously tricky part is the pronunciation.\nMy name, \u201cAndrzej\u201d, is pronunced \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/andrzej\/pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E like this\u003C\/a\u003E, with the \u201crz\u201d as \/\u0290\/.\nBut hardly anyone outside of Poland knows that and has no problems pronouncing it and writing it down.\nThat\u0027s why I usually go by \u201cAndre\u201d, as a simplification. And recently also as \u201cAndrea\u201d, to make it gender-neutral.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut dificult pronunciation is almost a given when talking about other languages. What\u0027s quite specific to Polish then?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E(Doubly) diminutive-able first names\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMany languages have \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Diminutive\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E diminutives\u003C\/a\u003E.\nMany use them also for names (eg. English: Tim \u2192 Timmy, Richard \u2192 Dick, ...).\nSome languages even have a concept of double diminutive (Italian: casa \u2192 casetta \u2192 casettina).\nBut Polish just \u003Cem\u003Eloooves\u003C\/em\u003E its diminutives!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAccording to \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/ksiega-imion.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E ksiega-imion.pl\u003C\/a\u003E, my first name, Andrzej, can be tuned into:\nAndruszko, Andrzejek, J\u0119drek, J\u0119dru\u015b, J\u0119drzejek, Ondrzejek, Ondraszek, or Ondrysz.\nDiminutives of Katarzyna are: Kacha, Kachna, Kasia, Kasie\u0144ka, Kasiunia, Ka\u015bka, Katarzynka, Katka.\nOf Jan: Janek, Janosik, Jasiek, Jasio, Ja\u015b, Ja\u015bko. And so on, and so forth...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd the thing is: which one to use can depend on so many things... Most are regional forms.\nSome you can use more like a joke or a nickname rather than a diminutive of a name.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027ve noticed that many follow a three-level pattern. For instance:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EPiotr \u2192 Piotrek \u2192 Piotru\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EGrzegorz \u2192 Grzesiek \u2192 Grzesiu\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EMa\u0142gorzata \u2192 Go\u015bka \u2192 Gosia\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EWojciech \u2192 Wojtek \u2192 Wojtu\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003EJan \u2192 Janek \u2192 Ja\u015b\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E...\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe first one is \u003Cem\u003Every\u003C\/em\u003E formal. That\u0027s what\u0027s in your documents. That\u0027s what you probably hardly ever use\noutside of formal situations \u2013 at least I wouldn\u0027t, if I had one of those names.\nI\u0027ve had friends and family members who would always go by \u201cWojtek\u201d and never \u201cWojciech\u201d, always \u201cGosia\u201d and never \u201cMa\u0142gorzata\u201d, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt sounds so formal that my sister Ma\u0142ogrzata, upon moving to the UK,\nwouldn\u0027t go by the English version of her name \u2013 Margaret -\nbut by an artificial anglicisation of the Polish diminutive \u201cGosia\u201d: so she\u0027s now known as \u201cGosha\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe second one is usually what you use informally, what friends call you, what the extended family calls you.\nThe third one is pretty intimate and quite infantile. You might call your romantic partners that, you might call children that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually. It all differs from name to name, it differs from person to person.\nSometimes it can get quite tricky to decide which form of one\u0027s name to use,\nin order not to sound too formal, or too familiar, or too childish...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s why I\u0027m very glad that my name is not one of those \u201cthree-level\u201d names.\n\u201cAndrzej\u201d just doesn\u0027t sound \u003Cem\u003Eso formal\u003C\/em\u003E that it would be weird to call your friend that.\nOne can form a diminutive of it, if one wants, but \u201cAndrzej\u201d itself is pretty neutral.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd they did, btw. My parish priest, for example,\njokingly called be \u201cJ\u0119drek\u201d, because he\u0027s from the mountains where this form is popular.\nAnd my mother called me \u201cAdu\u015b\u201d, completely ignoring the fact that it\u0027s not in the slightest a diminutive of \u201cAndrzej\u201d.\nIt is a male-ified version of a diminutive of a female name \u201cAda\u201d.\nBut she also called my brother \u201cMaciu\u015b\u201d, even though it\u0027s a diminutive of \u201cMaciej\u201d, not \u201cMarcin\u201d,\nand she called his daughter \u201cMagda\u201d even though her name is \u201cWiktoria\u201d, so what does she know \ud83e\udd37\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESumming up: the Poles can get pretty inventive with their names, and chosing a proper form can get tricky sometimes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EDeclinable surnames\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then there\u0027s surnames. Most are quite straight-forward, but there\u0027s one category that behaves a bit unexpectedly.\nThose surnames, ending in -ski and -cki, are basically adjectives, which means they get declined.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolish, as a \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/genderneutralizacja-polszczyzny.lite\u0022\u003E stronly genderised\u003C\/a\u003E language,\ndistinguishes between male and female way more often than necessary.\nSo for example, my surname is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eski\u003C\/strong\u003E, but my sister\u0027s is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eska\u003C\/strong\u003E.\nThe family name is Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Escy\u003C\/strong\u003E, but a subset of two or more women would be called Prusinow\u003Cstrong\u003Eskie\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet\u0027s look at \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Wachowskis\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Lana \u0026amp; Lilly Wachowski\u003C\/a\u003E,\ncollectively known as \u201cThe Wachowskis\u201d or \u201cThe Wachowski sisters\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf they lived and transitioned in Poland (or treated their Polish heritage more to the letter),\nthey would probably change not only their first names, but also surnames.\nIt would be \u201cLana Wachowska\u201d and \u201cLilly Wachowska\u201d, and collectively \u201csiostry Wachowskie\u201d.\nAlso, the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/Wachowski\/pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E pronunciation\u003C\/a\u003E\nwould be vastly different from the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/forvo.com\/search\/Wachowski\/en\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E anglicised version\u003C\/a\u003E, just saying...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EName day\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd finally, something more loosely related to names:\npeople in Poland celebrate \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Name_day\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E name days\u003C\/a\u003E.\nIt\u0027s also popular in some other Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox countries,\nbut not as universal as birthdays, so worth mentioning, I guess...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBasically, if a person died and became a saint, there would be a \u201cmemory\u201d day put in the liturgical calendar,\nusually on the day of their death. That way the priest will know to read a short note about their life\nbefore the mass. Eventually, those names ended up in regular calendars,\nand people bearing those names started celebrating the feast day of their patron saint.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo in Poland you usually have two celebrations of your person every year \u2013\na birthday, usually celebrated with family,\nand a name day, usually celebrated by getting super drunk with your friends.\nUnless you\u0027re a child, then you only get a birthday, sorry.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":904,"readTime":4,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/life\/gender-is-over":{"key":"blog\/life\/gender-is-over","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-03-24T21:09:31+01:00","publishedAt":"2020-04-04T16:32:00+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"gender-is-over"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"gender-is-over","title":"Gender is over","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_small.jpg\u0022 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to culture and from time to time.\n\u201cAsian woman\u201d, \u201cWestern woman\u201d, \u201cMedieval European woman\u201d, etc. etc.\nare all made to follow different set of rules.\nPink used to be a colour associated with boys not girls (because of being close to bloody red).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/gender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Dictionaries define gender\u003C\/a\u003E\nas \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\nBut I would go one step further: it\u0027s not just the \u201ctraits\u201d that are \u201cassociated\u201d.\nIt\u0027s rules that are enforced.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBe it by getting physically beaten up for \u201clooking like a faggot\u201d,\nbe it by being publicly riddiculed for \u201cbeing too butch\u201d,\nor be it by simply being quietly frowned upon \u2013\nthe society has its ways to make people look and behave the way their designated box says they should.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yes, I know, there\u0027s plenty of people being very comfortable in their box.\nAnd there\u0027s many who know they\u0027ll be happy and fitting once they transition to the other box.\nBut wouldn\u0027t it be simpler if we just \u003Cem\u003Egot rid of the boxes\u003C\/em\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust let people be people. Let us be ourselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver since I put the \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E label on my gender,\never since I started \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender_bender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gender bending\u003C\/a\u003E,\never since I started experimenting with my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/pansexuality\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E pansexuality\u003C\/a\u003E,\nI started realising how \u003Cem\u003Emade up\u003C\/em\u003E gender is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe don\u0027t choose our partners based solely on the mere existence of a penis or a vagina, right?\nWe like them for their character, skills, sense of humour,\nwe\u0027re physically attracted to their body type, body hair, muscles, face, hair, makeup, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur appearance and behaviour, our romantic and sexual attraction\n\u2013 are way more complex than just those simple binary categories: man and woman, gay, straight and bi...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, it\u0027s a decent approximation, and I still use them to describe myself and other people.\nAnd I\u0027m not trying to invalidate anyone\u0027s identity.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just wanted to share how much liberty it gave me when I started to just\n\u003Cem\u003Ecare about those labels less\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not enforcing gender rules on anyone. I\u0027m not trying to follow them myself.\nIn my mind \u2013 gender is over \ud83d\udcaa\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["gender","nonbinary","agender","genderfuck","gender bender","pansexual","pansexuality","lgbtq"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor me, gender is over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot in a sad, \u201cGame Over\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn a happy, \u201cMission accomplished\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor me, gender is over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot in a sad, \u201cGame Over\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn a happy, \u201cMission accomplished\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause for me gender is just a set of rules and regulations,\nbased on someone\u0027s perception of what kind of genitals you might have.\nIf people think that you have this or that in your pants,\nthey\u0027ll also expect you to get a specific type of job,\nwear a specific amount of makup, have specific amount of body hair in specific places,\nwear specific clothes, behave in a specfic manner, play with specific toys...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe know it\u0027s all made up rules,\nfor instance because it differs from culture to culture and from time to time.\n\u201cAsian woman\u201d, \u201cWestern woman\u201d, \u201cMedieval European woman\u201d, etc. etc.\nare all made to follow different set of rules.\nPink used to be a colour associated with boys not girls (because of being close to bloody red).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/gender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Dictionaries define gender\u003C\/a\u003E\nas \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\nBut I would go one step further: it\u0027s not just the \u201ctraits\u201d that are \u201cassociated\u201d.\nIt\u0027s rules that are enforced.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBe it by getting physically beaten up for \u201clooking like a faggot\u201d,\nbe it by being publicly riddiculed for \u201cbeing too butch\u201d,\nor be it by simply being quietly frowned upon \u2013\nthe society has its ways to make people look and behave the way their designated box says they should.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yes, I know, there\u0027s plenty of people being very comfortable in their box.\nAnd there\u0027s many who know they\u0027ll be happy and fitting once they transition to the other box.\nBut wouldn\u0027t it be simpler if we just \u003Cem\u003Egot rid of the boxes\u003C\/em\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust let people be people. Let us be ourselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver since I put the \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/nonbinary\u0022\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E label on my gender,\never since I started \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender_bender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E gender bending\u003C\/a\u003E,\never since I started experimenting with my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/pansexuality\u0022\u003E pansexuality\u003C\/a\u003E,\nI started realising how \u003Cem\u003Emade up\u003C\/em\u003E gender is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe don\u0027t choose our partners based solely on the mere existence of a penis or a vagina, right?\nWe like them for their character, skills, sense of humour,\nwe\u0027re physically attracted to their body type, body hair, muscles, face, hair, makeup, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur appearance and behaviour, our romantic and sexual attraction\n\u2013 are way more complex than just those simple binary categories: man and woman, gay, straight and bi...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, it\u0027s a decent approximation, and I still use them to describe myself and other people.\nAnd I\u0027m not trying to invalidate anyone\u0027s identity.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just wanted to share how much liberty it gave me when I started to just\n\u003Cem\u003Ecare about those labels less\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not enforcing gender rules on anyone. 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przyk\u0142ad\ntrend powrotu do u\u017cywania \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Feminatywum\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E feminatyw\u00f3w\u003C\/a\u003E.\nI cho\u0107 jest to \u015bwietne dla reprezentacji kobiet w przestrzeni publicznej,\nto do neutralnej p\u0142ciowo polszczyzny jeszcze daleka droga.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Osobom niebinarnym\u003C\/a\u003E ci\u0119\u017cko jest si\u0119 odnale\u017a\u0107 w binarnym do b\u00f3lu j\u0119zyku polskim.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EDlaczego warto?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBo p\u0142e\u0107 nie powinna mie\u0107 znaczenia. Nie \u017cyjemy w \u015bredniowieczu ani pod prawem szariatu.\n\u017bona nie jest w\u0142asno\u015bci\u0105 m\u0119\u017ca. Kobieta mo\u017ce robi\u0107 karier\u0119, g\u0142osowa\u0107,\nma prawo zarabia\u0107 tyle samo co m\u0119\u017cczyzna na tym samym stanowisku.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem nasz j\u0119zyk w wielu przypadkach preferuje rodzaj m\u0119ski jako domy\u015blny.\nTo m\u0119ska wersja jest form\u0105 podstawow\u0105, a feminatyw si\u0119 tylko od niej tworzy.\n\u017beby opisa\u0107 kobiet\u0119 bieg\u0142\u0105 w prawie, zaczynamy od s\u0142owa \u201eprawnik\u201d i musimy do niej doda\u0107 sufiks \u201e-czka\u201d.\nTak jakby w zawodzie prawnika by\u0142o co\u015b nieod\u0142\u0105cznie m\u0119skiego, a kobieta-prawniczka by\u0142a jak\u0105\u015b aberracj\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGrup\u0119 informatyk\u00f3w i informatyczek nazwiemy m\u0119skoosobowo: \u201einformatykami\u201d.\nOsoby zapisane do partii to jej \u201ecz\u0142onkowie\u201d \u2013 i ma\u0142o kto pami\u0119ta, \u017ceby wspomnie\u0107 tak\u017ce o cz\u0142onkiniach.\nIstnieje s\u0142owo \u201es\u0119dzina\u201d, ale nie oznacza kobiety sprawuj\u0105cej urz\u0105d s\u0119dziowski, lecz\u2026 \u017con\u0119 s\u0119dziego.\nPolszczyzna przez wieki opisywa\u0142a kobiety g\u0142\u00f3wnie przez pryzmat ich ma\u0142\u017conk\u00f3w czy ojc\u00f3w:\nw\u00f3jtowa by\u0142a \u017con\u0105 w\u00f3jta, m\u0142ynarz\u00f3wna \u2013 c\u00f3rk\u0105 m\u0142ynarza\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJ\u0119zyk, kt\u00f3rego u\u017cywamy, wp\u0142ywa na to, jak my\u015blimy\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hipoteza_Sapira-Whorfa\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Hipoteza Sapira-Whorfa\u003C\/a\u003E).\nCi\u0119\u017cko nam zatem b\u0119dzie traktowa\u0107 wszystkich r\u00f3wno\u015bciowo, je\u017celi nasza pod\u015bwiadomo\u015b\u0107\nb\u0119dzie dzieli\u0142a wszystkich napotkanych ludzi na dwie kategorie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i \u017ceby jeszcze by\u0142y tylko dwie kategorie\u2026 Niekt\u00f3rzy ludzie nie nale\u017c\u0105 do \u017cadnej z tych dw\u00f3ch opcji\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/youtu.be\/0j74jcxSunY?t=141\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u201cand if that surprises you, you need to get out more\u201d \u2013 Tom Scott\u003C\/a\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDla nich j\u0119zyk polski jest jeszcze mniej \u0142askawy ni\u017c dla kobiet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EJak to robi\u0105 inne j\u0119zyki?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolski ma to nieszcz\u0119\u015bcie, \u017ce jest fleksyjny i silnie zgenderyzowany.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW niekt\u00f3rych innych j\u0119zykach wystarczy zmieni\u0107 zaimek (ang. \u003Cem\u003Ehe\/she\u003C\/em\u003E \u2192 np. \u003Cem\u003Ethey\u003C\/em\u003E)\noraz nieliczne s\u0142owa okre\u015blaj\u0105ce p\u0142e\u0107 (np. \u003Cem\u003Ehusband\/wife \u2192 spouse\u003C\/em\u003E, podczas gdy wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 innych jest neutralnych p\u0142ciowo, np. \u003Cem\u003Epolitician\u003C\/em\u003E to zar\u00f3wno \u201epolityk\u201d, jak i \u201epolityczka\u201d)\ni par\u0119 zwrot\u00f3w grzeczno\u015bciowych (nid. \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.volkskrant.nl\/economie\/dames-en-heren-wordt-bij-ns-voortaan-beste-reizigers~bf5345f9c\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u003Cem\u003EDames en heren\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201epanie i panowie\u201d) \u2192 \u003Cem\u003EBeste reizigers\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201eDrodzy podr\u00f3\u017cni\u201d)\u003C\/a\u003E),\nby zacz\u0105\u0107 pos\u0142ugiwa\u0107 si\u0119 (niemal) zupe\u0142nie neutralnym p\u0142ciowo j\u0119zykiem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW angielskim od dawna istnieje \u201csingular they\u201d \u2013 mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 u\u017cycia liczby mnogiej do okre\u015blenia jednej osoby,\nje\u017celi nie znamy jej p\u0142ci b\u0105d\u017a nie ma ona znaczenia\n(\u201cA neighbour left us a note, they want us to come and collect a package.\u201d).\nOd niedawna natomiast ta sama forma \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/words-at-play\/singular-nonbinary-they\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E jest u\u017cywana r\u00f3wnie\u017c przez osoby niebinarne\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOpr\u00f3cz \u201cthey\u201d zosta\u0142y stworzone r\u00f3wnie\u017c tzw. \u201cneopronouns\u201d \u2013 zupe\u0142nie nowe, wymy\u015blone zaimki, takie jak \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/ze\/hir\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u003Cem\u003Eze\/hir\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/ze\/zir\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u003Cem\u003Eze\/zir\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/xey\/xem\/xyr\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u003Cem\u003Exey\/xem\/xyr\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, etc.,\nale z tego co widz\u0119, s\u0105 mniej popularne ni\u017c \u201cthey\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemiecki nie ma luksusu wyboru, musi si\u0119 ubiega\u0107 do \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com\/language\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E neopronouns\u003C\/a\u003E,\njak \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/annaheger.de\/pronomen\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E stworzony przez Illi Ann\u0119 Heger \u003Cem\u003Exier\/xieser\/xiem\/xien\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\nZmiana zaimka na inny nie wymaga jednak na szcz\u0119\u015bcie dostosowania odmiany zwi\u0105zanego z nim czasownika, jak to jest w j\u0119zyku polskim\n(\u003Cem\u003Eer ist\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Esie ist\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Exier ist\u003C\/em\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemiecki ma wiele rzeczownik\u00f3w okre\u015blaj\u0105cych p\u0142e\u0107 (\u003Cem\u003EFreund\/Freundin\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201eprzyjaciel\/przyjaci\u00f3\u0142ka\u201d), \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fcler\/Sch\u00fclerin\u003C\/em\u003E (ucze\u0144\/uczennica)),\ndlatego gdy m\u00f3wi si\u0119 o grupie obejmuj\u0105cej osoby wszystkich p\u0142ci, zamiast \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fclern und Sch\u00fclerinnen\u003C\/em\u003E cz\u0119sto u\u017cywa si\u0119 nowej formy \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fclerInnen\u003C\/em\u003E (z wielkim \u201eI\u201d po\u015brodku wyrazu),\nalbo w wariancie \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.welt.de\/regionales\/hamburg\/article204746218\/Empoerung-ueber-Leitfaden-zur-geschlechtsneutralen-Sprache.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E urz\u0119dowo u\u017cywanym w Lubece\u003C\/a\u003E:\n\u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fcler:innen\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003EL\u00fcbecker:innen\u003C\/em\u003E, \u2026 Niekt\u00f3re takie s\u0142owa mo\u017cna te\u017c zast\u0105pi\u0107 imies\u0142owami:\nnp. \u003Cem\u003EStudenten\u003C\/em\u003E \u2192 \u003Cem\u003EStudierenden\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201estudenci\/studentki\u201d \u2192 \u201estudiuj\u0105cy\u201d).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem j\u0119zyk polski wymaga okre\u015blenia p\u0142ci nie tylko, gdy m\u00f3wi si\u0119 o kim\u015b w trzeciej osobie (\u003Cem\u003Eon\/ona\u003C\/em\u003E),\nlecz tak\u017ce w pierwszej i drugiej (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142em\/zrobi\u0142am\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142e\u015b\/zrobi\u0142a\u015b\u003C\/em\u003E).\nNie tylko w liczbie pojedynczej, ale tak\u017c\u0119 i mnogiej (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobili\u015bmy\/zrobi\u0142y\u015bmy\u003C\/em\u003E),\ni w czasie przesz\u0142ym (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142em\/zrobi\u0142am\u003C\/em\u003E), i przysz\u0142ym (\u003Cem\u003Eb\u0119d\u0119 robi\u0142\/b\u0119d\u0119 robi\u0142a\u003C\/em\u003E),\ni w trybie przypuszczaj\u0105cym (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142bym\/zrobi\u0142abym\u003C\/em\u003E).\nNie tylko w przypadku czasownik\u00f3w, ale te\u017c i przymiotnik\u00f3w (\u003Cem\u003E\u0142adny\/\u0142adna\u003C\/em\u003E).\nRzeczowniki okre\u015blaj\u0105ce zawody itp. s\u0105 silnie zgenderyzowane (\u003Cem\u003Epolityk\/polityczka\u003C\/em\u003E)\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKr\u00f3tko m\u00f3wi\u0105c: odgenderyzowanie polszczyzny to twardy orzech do zgryzienia.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EJak sobie z tym radz\u0105 osoby niebinarne?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAutorka blog \u003Cem\u003EPrzemy\u015blenia Maniaka\u003C\/em\u003E stworzy\u0142a\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.przemyslenia-maniaka.pl\/2019\/11\/maniak-marudzi-27-niebinarne-tumaczenia.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u015bwietny przegl\u0105d\u003C\/a\u003E\nsposob\u00f3w, na kt\u00f3re mo\u017cna t\u0142umaczy\u0107 z innych j\u0119zyk\u00f3w kwestie dotycz\u0105ce niebinarnych postaci w filmach.\nSzczerze polecam lektur\u0119!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW skr\u00f3cie: sposob\u00f3w jest od groma. Niekt\u00f3rzy u\u017cywaj\u0105 tzw. \u201edukaizm\u00f3w\u201d, jak w ksi\u0105\u017cce \u003Cem\u003EPerfekcyjna niedoskona\u0142o\u015b\u0107\u003C\/em\u003E Jacka Dukaja.\nInni wol\u0105 form ze znakami specjalnymi albo \u0142\u0105czonymi literami.\nInni, zamiast tworzy\u0107 neogramatyk\u0119, u\u017cywaj\u0105 tej istniej\u0105cej \u2013 cho\u0107 rzadko u\u017cywanej wobec ludzi \u2013 formy nijakiej.\nAlbo formy mnogiej. Albo zamiennie u\u017cywaj\u0105 wobec siebie formy m\u0119skiej i \u017ce\u0144skiej.\nAlbo po prostu u\u017cywaj\u0105 binarnych zaimk\u00f3w (bo \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E p\u0142e\u0107 \u2260 zaimki\u003C\/a\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E(Niepe\u0142ny) przegl\u0105d pomys\u0142\u00f3w na genderneutralizacj\u0119\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUzna\u0142em zatem, \u017ce fajnie by by\u0142o te wszystkie pomys\u0142y na genderneutralizacj\u0119 polszczyzny\nzebra\u0107 w jedno miejsce i usystematyzowa\u0107 w tabelkach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKto wie, mo\u017ce w takiej formie \u0142atwiej b\u0119dzie zauwa\u017cy\u0107 prawid\u0142owo\u015bci, potencjalne problemy,\nmo\u017cliwo\u015bci rozwoju, a mo\u017ce nawet zbudowania \u003Cstrong\u003Esp\u00f3jnego i wszechstronnego systemu\u003C\/strong\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENa pewno nie zbior\u0119 ich wszystkich, ale pr\u00f3bowa\u0107 warto. A przynajmniej nie zbior\u0119 ich wszystkich sama.\nDlatego je\u015bli znasz jak\u0105\u015b alternatywn\u0105 form\u0119, kt\u00f3r\u0105 warto by tu by\u0142o uwzgl\u0119dni\u0107,\nalbo jak\u0105\u015b problematyczn\u0105 konstrukcj\u0119 j\u0119zykow\u0105, dla kt\u00f3rej warto by znale\u017a\u0107 alternatywy,\nto zapraszam do \u003Ca href=\u0022\/#contact\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E skontaktowania si\u0119\u003C\/a\u003E ze mn\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EUpdate:\u003C\/strong\u003E uda\u0142o mi si\u0119 przeku\u0107 te tableki w ciekawy projekt, kt\u00f3ry\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1286400337465802752\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse 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Wiele ma sens tylko w pi\u015bmie, nie w mowie.\nWiele, zw\u0142aszcza w\u015br\u00f3d rzeczownik\u00f3w, wci\u0105\u017c jest bardzo binarnych \u2013 cho\u0107 w\u0142\u0105czaj\u0105 i kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzn,\nto nie obejmuj\u0105 nikogo pomi\u0119dzy.\nNawet je\u015bli dana propozycja dzia\u0142a nie\u017ale w jednej kategorii, ci\u0119\u017cko znale\u017a\u0107 jej odpowiednik dla innych cz\u0119\u015bci mowy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA przede wszystkim: wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 brzmi \u003Cem\u003E\u201enienaturalnie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E. 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Nie \u017cyjemy w \u015bredniowieczu ani pod prawem szariatu.\n\u017bona nie jest w\u0142asno\u015bci\u0105 m\u0119\u017ca. Kobieta mo\u017ce robi\u0107 karier\u0119, g\u0142osowa\u0107,\nma prawo zarabia\u0107 tyle samo co m\u0119\u017cczyzna na tym samym stanowisku.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem nasz j\u0119zyk w wielu przypadkach preferuje rodzaj m\u0119ski jako domy\u015blny.\nTo m\u0119ska wersja jest form\u0105 podstawow\u0105, a feminatyw si\u0119 tylko od niej tworzy.\n\u017beby opisa\u0107 kobiet\u0119 bieg\u0142\u0105 w prawie, zaczynamy od s\u0142owa \u201eprawnik\u201d i musimy do niej doda\u0107 sufiks \u201e-czka\u201d.\nTak jakby w zawodzie prawnika by\u0142o co\u015b nieod\u0142\u0105cznie m\u0119skiego, a kobieta-prawniczka by\u0142a jak\u0105\u015b aberracj\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGrup\u0119 informatyk\u00f3w i informatyczek nazwiemy m\u0119skoosobowo: \u201einformatykami\u201d.\nOsoby zapisane do partii to jej \u201ecz\u0142onkowie\u201d \u2013 i ma\u0142o kto pami\u0119ta, \u017ceby wspomnie\u0107 tak\u017ce o cz\u0142onkiniach.\nIstnieje s\u0142owo \u201es\u0119dzina\u201d, ale nie oznacza kobiety sprawuj\u0105cej urz\u0105d s\u0119dziowski, lecz\u2026 \u017con\u0119 s\u0119dziego.\nPolszczyzna przez wieki opisywa\u0142a kobiety g\u0142\u00f3wnie przez pryzmat ich ma\u0142\u017conk\u00f3w czy ojc\u00f3w:\nw\u00f3jtowa by\u0142a \u017con\u0105 w\u00f3jta, m\u0142ynarz\u00f3wna \u2013 c\u00f3rk\u0105 m\u0142ynarza\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJ\u0119zyk, kt\u00f3rego u\u017cywamy, wp\u0142ywa na to, jak my\u015blimy\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pl.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hipoteza_Sapira-Whorfa\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Hipoteza Sapira-Whorfa\u003C\/a\u003E).\nCi\u0119\u017cko nam zatem b\u0119dzie traktowa\u0107 wszystkich r\u00f3wno\u015bciowo, je\u017celi nasza pod\u015bwiadomo\u015b\u0107\nb\u0119dzie dzieli\u0142a wszystkich napotkanych ludzi na dwie kategorie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i \u017ceby jeszcze by\u0142y tylko dwie kategorie\u2026 Niekt\u00f3rzy ludzie nie nale\u017c\u0105 do \u017cadnej z tych dw\u00f3ch opcji\n(\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/youtu.be\/0j74jcxSunY?t=141\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u201cand if that surprises you, you need to get out more\u201d \u2013 Tom Scott\u003C\/a\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDla nich j\u0119zyk polski jest jeszcze mniej \u0142askawy ni\u017c dla kobiet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EJak to robi\u0105 inne j\u0119zyki?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolski ma to nieszcz\u0119\u015bcie, \u017ce jest fleksyjny i silnie zgenderyzowany.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW niekt\u00f3rych innych j\u0119zykach wystarczy zmieni\u0107 zaimek (ang. \u003Cem\u003Ehe\/she\u003C\/em\u003E \u2192 np. \u003Cem\u003Ethey\u003C\/em\u003E)\noraz nieliczne s\u0142owa okre\u015blaj\u0105ce p\u0142e\u0107 (np. \u003Cem\u003Ehusband\/wife \u2192 spouse\u003C\/em\u003E, podczas gdy wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 innych jest neutralnych p\u0142ciowo, np. \u003Cem\u003Epolitician\u003C\/em\u003E to zar\u00f3wno \u201epolityk\u201d, jak i \u201epolityczka\u201d)\ni par\u0119 zwrot\u00f3w grzeczno\u015bciowych (nid. \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.volkskrant.nl\/economie\/dames-en-heren-wordt-bij-ns-voortaan-beste-reizigers~bf5345f9c\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u003Cem\u003EDames en heren\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201epanie i panowie\u201d) \u2192 \u003Cem\u003EBeste reizigers\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201eDrodzy podr\u00f3\u017cni\u201d)\u003C\/a\u003E),\nby zacz\u0105\u0107 pos\u0142ugiwa\u0107 si\u0119 (niemal) zupe\u0142nie neutralnym p\u0142ciowo j\u0119zykiem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW angielskim od dawna istnieje \u201csingular they\u201d \u2013 mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 u\u017cycia liczby mnogiej do okre\u015blenia jednej osoby,\nje\u017celi nie znamy jej p\u0142ci b\u0105d\u017a nie ma ona znaczenia\n(\u201cA neighbour left us a note, they want us to come and collect a package.\u201d).\nOd niedawna natomiast ta sama forma \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/words-at-play\/singular-nonbinary-they\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E jest u\u017cywana r\u00f3wnie\u017c przez osoby niebinarne\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOpr\u00f3cz \u201cthey\u201d zosta\u0142y stworzone r\u00f3wnie\u017c tzw. \u201cneopronouns\u201d \u2013 zupe\u0142nie nowe, wymy\u015blone zaimki, takie jak \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/ze\/hir\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u003Cem\u003Eze\/hir\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/ze\/zir\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u003Cem\u003Eze\/zir\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/pronoun.is\/xey\/xem\/xyr\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u003Cem\u003Exey\/xem\/xyr\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, etc.,\nale z tego co widz\u0119, s\u0105 mniej popularne ni\u017c \u201cthey\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemiecki nie ma luksusu wyboru, musi si\u0119 ubiega\u0107 do \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com\/language\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E neopronouns\u003C\/a\u003E,\njak \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/annaheger.de\/pronomen\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E stworzony przez Illi Ann\u0119 Heger \u003Cem\u003Exier\/xieser\/xiem\/xien\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\nZmiana zaimka na inny nie wymaga jednak na szcz\u0119\u015bcie dostosowania odmiany zwi\u0105zanego z nim czasownika, jak to jest w j\u0119zyku polskim\n(\u003Cem\u003Eer ist\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Esie ist\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Exier ist\u003C\/em\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemiecki ma wiele rzeczownik\u00f3w okre\u015blaj\u0105cych p\u0142e\u0107 (\u003Cem\u003EFreund\/Freundin\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201eprzyjaciel\/przyjaci\u00f3\u0142ka\u201d), \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fcler\/Sch\u00fclerin\u003C\/em\u003E (ucze\u0144\/uczennica)),\ndlatego gdy m\u00f3wi si\u0119 o grupie obejmuj\u0105cej osoby wszystkich p\u0142ci, zamiast \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fclern und Sch\u00fclerinnen\u003C\/em\u003E cz\u0119sto u\u017cywa si\u0119 nowej formy \u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fclerInnen\u003C\/em\u003E (z wielkim \u201eI\u201d po\u015brodku wyrazu),\nalbo w wariancie \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.welt.de\/regionales\/hamburg\/article204746218\/Empoerung-ueber-Leitfaden-zur-geschlechtsneutralen-Sprache.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E urz\u0119dowo u\u017cywanym w Lubece\u003C\/a\u003E:\n\u003Cem\u003ESch\u00fcler:innen\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003EL\u00fcbecker:innen\u003C\/em\u003E, \u2026 Niekt\u00f3re takie s\u0142owa mo\u017cna te\u017c zast\u0105pi\u0107 imies\u0142owami:\nnp. \u003Cem\u003EStudenten\u003C\/em\u003E \u2192 \u003Cem\u003EStudierenden\u003C\/em\u003E (\u201estudenci\/studentki\u201d \u2192 \u201estudiuj\u0105cy\u201d).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem j\u0119zyk polski wymaga okre\u015blenia p\u0142ci nie tylko, gdy m\u00f3wi si\u0119 o kim\u015b w trzeciej osobie (\u003Cem\u003Eon\/ona\u003C\/em\u003E),\nlecz tak\u017ce w pierwszej i drugiej (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142em\/zrobi\u0142am\u003C\/em\u003E, \u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142e\u015b\/zrobi\u0142a\u015b\u003C\/em\u003E).\nNie tylko w liczbie pojedynczej, ale tak\u017c\u0119 i mnogiej (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobili\u015bmy\/zrobi\u0142y\u015bmy\u003C\/em\u003E),\ni w czasie przesz\u0142ym (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142em\/zrobi\u0142am\u003C\/em\u003E), i przysz\u0142ym (\u003Cem\u003Eb\u0119d\u0119 robi\u0142\/b\u0119d\u0119 robi\u0142a\u003C\/em\u003E),\ni w trybie przypuszczaj\u0105cym (\u003Cem\u003Ezrobi\u0142bym\/zrobi\u0142abym\u003C\/em\u003E).\nNie tylko w przypadku czasownik\u00f3w, ale te\u017c i przymiotnik\u00f3w (\u003Cem\u003E\u0142adny\/\u0142adna\u003C\/em\u003E).\nRzeczowniki okre\u015blaj\u0105ce zawody itp. s\u0105 silnie zgenderyzowane (\u003Cem\u003Epolityk\/polityczka\u003C\/em\u003E)\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKr\u00f3tko m\u00f3wi\u0105c: odgenderyzowanie polszczyzny to twardy orzech do zgryzienia.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EJak sobie z tym radz\u0105 osoby niebinarne?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAutorka blog \u003Cem\u003EPrzemy\u015blenia Maniaka\u003C\/em\u003E stworzy\u0142a\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.przemyslenia-maniaka.pl\/2019\/11\/maniak-marudzi-27-niebinarne-tumaczenia.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u015bwietny przegl\u0105d\u003C\/a\u003E\nsposob\u00f3w, na kt\u00f3re mo\u017cna t\u0142umaczy\u0107 z innych j\u0119zyk\u00f3w kwestie dotycz\u0105ce niebinarnych postaci w filmach.\nSzczerze polecam lektur\u0119!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW skr\u00f3cie: sposob\u00f3w jest od groma. Niekt\u00f3rzy u\u017cywaj\u0105 tzw. \u201edukaizm\u00f3w\u201d, jak w ksi\u0105\u017cce \u003Cem\u003EPerfekcyjna niedoskona\u0142o\u015b\u0107\u003C\/em\u003E Jacka Dukaja.\nInni wol\u0105 form ze znakami specjalnymi albo \u0142\u0105czonymi literami.\nInni, zamiast tworzy\u0107 neogramatyk\u0119, u\u017cywaj\u0105 tej istniej\u0105cej \u2013 cho\u0107 rzadko u\u017cywanej wobec ludzi \u2013 formy nijakiej.\nAlbo formy mnogiej. Albo zamiennie u\u017cywaj\u0105 wobec siebie formy m\u0119skiej i \u017ce\u0144skiej.\nAlbo po prostu u\u017cywaj\u0105 binarnych zaimk\u00f3w (bo \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/there-are-no-rules-to-being-nonbinary.lite\u0022\u003E p\u0142e\u0107 \u2260 zaimki\u003C\/a\u003E).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E(Niepe\u0142ny) przegl\u0105d pomys\u0142\u00f3w na genderneutralizacj\u0119\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUzna\u0142em zatem, \u017ce fajnie by by\u0142o te wszystkie pomys\u0142y na genderneutralizacj\u0119 polszczyzny\nzebra\u0107 w jedno miejsce i usystematyzowa\u0107 w tabelkach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKto wie, mo\u017ce w takiej formie \u0142atwiej b\u0119dzie zauwa\u017cy\u0107 prawid\u0142owo\u015bci, potencjalne problemy,\nmo\u017cliwo\u015bci rozwoju, a mo\u017ce nawet zbudowania \u003Cstrong\u003Esp\u00f3jnego i wszechstronnego systemu\u003C\/strong\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENa pewno nie zbior\u0119 ich wszystkich, ale pr\u00f3bowa\u0107 warto. A przynajmniej nie zbior\u0119 ich wszystkich sama.\nDlatego je\u015bli znasz jak\u0105\u015b alternatywn\u0105 form\u0119, kt\u00f3r\u0105 warto by tu by\u0142o uwzgl\u0119dni\u0107,\nalbo jak\u0105\u015b problematyczn\u0105 konstrukcj\u0119 j\u0119zykow\u0105, dla kt\u00f3rej warto by znale\u017a\u0107 alternatywy,\nto zapraszam do \u003Ca href=\u0022\/#contact\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E skontaktowania si\u0119\u003C\/a\u003E ze mn\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EUpdate:\u003C\/strong\u003E uda\u0142o mi si\u0119 przeku\u0107 te tableki w ciekawy projekt, kt\u00f3ry\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1286400337465802752\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E spotka\u0142 si\u0119 z bardzo pozytywnym przyj\u0119ciem\u003C\/a\u003E,\ntak\u017ce zapraszam na \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/zaimki.pl\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E 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Wiele ma sens tylko w pi\u015bmie, nie w mowie.\nWiele, zw\u0142aszcza w\u015br\u00f3d rzeczownik\u00f3w, wci\u0105\u017c jest bardzo binarnych \u2013 cho\u0107 w\u0142\u0105czaj\u0105 i kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzn,\nto nie obejmuj\u0105 nikogo pomi\u0119dzy.\nNawet je\u015bli dana propozycja dzia\u0142a nie\u017ale w jednej kategorii, ci\u0119\u017cko znale\u017a\u0107 jej odpowiednik dla innych cz\u0119\u015bci mowy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA przede wszystkim: wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 brzmi \u003Cem\u003E\u201enienaturalnie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E. S\u0105 neologizmami i \u201eneogramatyk\u0105\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPami\u0119tacie oburzenie na feminatywy, gdy pos\u0142anki Lewicy chcia\u0142y by\u0107 nazywane \u201epos\u0142ankami\u201d?\nTo wyobra\u017acie sobie sobie, \u017ce m\u00f3wicie publicznie, \u017ce \u201eonu za\u015bpiewa\u0142u\u201d. \ud83d\ude31\nWyobra\u017acie sobie, czego musz\u0105 wys\u0142uchiwa\u0107 osoby niebinarne u\u017cywaj\u0105ce form neutralnych\u2026\n(btw, osoby, kt\u00f3re nie s\u0105 w stanie cho\u0107by pr\u00f3bowa\u0107 u\u017cywa\u0107 twoich poprawnych zaimk\u00f3w,\nby\u0107 mo\u017ce nie s\u0105 osobami, kt\u00f3re warto mie\u0107 w swoim \u017cyciu, just saying\u2026)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGenderneutralizowanie polszczyzny jest zadaniem z g\u00f3ry skazanym na spore antagonizmy.\nNa oskar\u017cenia o \u201eideologizacj\u0119\u201d i \u201epsucie\u201d j\u0119zyka.\nTyle \u017ce \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/ralindel\/status\/1223682379635724288\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E j\u0119zyka nie da si\u0119 \u201ezepsu\u0107\u201d\u003C\/a\u003E.\nTo \u017cywy organizm, kt\u00f3ry dostosowuje si\u0119 do tego, jak go u\u017cytkownicy u\u017cywaj\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA u\u017cywaj\u0105. M\u00f3j twitterowy znajomy, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/VaultAusir\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Ausir\u003C\/a\u003E, stworzy\u0142\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/docs.google.com\/document\/d\/1ddgYxlZk0S6sDx7eVCMMXHQEvtXpDztpYQxomALXBXM\/edit\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E list\u0119 literatury\u003C\/a\u003E\nu\u017cywaj\u0105cej niebinarnych form w j\u0119zyku polskim. I jest ona d\u0142uga!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJ\u0119zyk nieustannie si\u0119 zmienia.\nZmienia si\u0119 wprawdzie powolutku, ale liczy si\u0119 ka\u017cda drobna zmiana w dobrym kierunku.\nZmienia si\u0119 wtedy, gdy go u\u017cywamy. 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data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022A picture of myself\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022696\u0022 height=\u0022696\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/IAmNonbinary\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E #IAmNonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E is trending on Twitter.\nNext to beautiful pictures and inspiring stories of nonbinary folks,\nthere\u2019s also tons of hateful replies. Apart from the usual phobic comments, there\u2019s also some idiotic requirements.\nHaters reproach people that they aren\u2019t andogynous enough, or that they aren\u2019t using \u201cthey\/them\u201d pronouns, etc, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh for fuck\u2019s sake. You\u2019re missing the entire point.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENonbinary isn\u2019t about creating a third box, next to \u201cmale\u201d and \u201cfemale\u201d. It\u2019s about getting out of the box.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s in the name: \u201cnonbinary\u201d = beyond the binary, beyond the two usual \u201coptions\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to get it wrong as well. I thought that this word only applies to\nthose people that you see on the street and can\u2019t help but wonder, if they\u2019re a boy or a girl.\nThat it\u2019s only for people like Jonathan Van Ness,\nwho dare to rock high heels and gender bend the hell out of their wardrobe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s just about looking at what the society considers \u201cmale\u201d and \u201cfemale\u201d, and feeling that you\u2019re neither.\nThat\u2019s all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EToday I realised that on my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/fuck-you-facebook\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-computer-speaker\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E inactive Facebook account\u003C\/a\u003E\nI\u2019ve put gender \u201cdoesn\u2019t matter\u201d and pronoun \u201cneutral\u201d many, many years ago.\nBut only a few months ago I\u2019ve finally \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E dared to call myself \u201cnonbinary\u201d\u003C\/a\u003E.\nHow stupid of me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/Potathoe44\/status\/1215722043481690112\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E be AFAB and wear makeup\u003C\/a\u003E,\nyou can \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/talcotts\/status\/1215755342006620166\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E be AMAB and have a beard\u003C\/a\u003E.\nYou \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/just_misha00\/status\/1215397522451107841\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E dont\u2019 have to be adrongynous\u003C\/a\u003E,\nyou \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/nonbinarythings\/status\/1215410195435835392\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E don\u2019t have to use them\/they pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\nNo worries, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/confusedophan\/status\/1216063380072673281\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E other enbies won\u2019t think of you as any less nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EGender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe call people \u201cthey\u201d, even in singular, when we either don\u2019t know their gender or if it isn\u2019t important.\nThat doesn\u2019t mean we think they\u2019re nonbinary.\nWe call ships \u201cshe\u201d (well, some people do, I think it\u2019s stupid),\nwhich doesn\u2019t mean that ships are female.\nWhen a woman wears pants (unthinkable two centuries ago), she doesn\u2019t become a man.\nWhen a clergyman wears a cassock (basically a dress), he doesn\u2019t become a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou know why? Yes, because gender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo please stop telling nonbinary people how to be nonbinary. Nobody is \u201cnot nonbinary enough\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd while we\u2019re at it: stop telling women how to be women and stop telling men how to be men.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe\u2019re all valid. We\u2019re all \u003Cem\u003Eenough\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["nonbinary","non-binary","gender","norms","rules","pronouns","phobia","hate"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022A picture of myself\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/IAmNonbinary\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E #IAmNonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E is trending on Twitter.\nNext to beautiful pictures and inspiring stories of nonbinary folks,\nthere\u2019s also tons of hateful replies. Apart from the usual phobic comments, there\u2019s also some idiotic requirements.\nHaters reproach people that they aren\u2019t andogynous enough, or that they aren\u2019t using \u201cthey\/them\u201d pronouns, etc, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh for fuck\u2019s sake. You\u2019re missing the entire point.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/rules-nonbinary_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022A picture of myself\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/IAmNonbinary\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E #IAmNonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E is trending on Twitter.\nNext to beautiful pictures and inspiring stories of nonbinary folks,\nthere\u2019s also tons of hateful replies. Apart from the usual phobic comments, there\u2019s also some idiotic requirements.\nHaters reproach people that they aren\u2019t andogynous enough, or that they aren\u2019t using \u201cthey\/them\u201d pronouns, etc, etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh for fuck\u2019s sake. You\u2019re missing the entire point.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENonbinary isn\u2019t about creating a third box, next to \u201cmale\u201d and \u201cfemale\u201d. It\u2019s about getting out of the box.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s in the name: \u201cnonbinary\u201d = beyond the binary, beyond the two usual \u201coptions\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to get it wrong as well. I thought that this word only applies to\nthose people that you see on the street and can\u2019t help but wonder, if they\u2019re a boy or a girl.\nThat it\u2019s only for people like Jonathan Van Ness,\nwho dare to rock high heels and gender bend the hell out of their wardrobe.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s not.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s just about looking at what the society considers \u201cmale\u201d and \u201cfemale\u201d, and feeling that you\u2019re neither.\nThat\u2019s all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EToday I realised that on my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/fuck-you-facebook.lite\u0022\u003E inactive Facebook account\u003C\/a\u003E\nI\u2019ve put gender \u201cdoesn\u2019t matter\u201d and pronoun \u201cneutral\u201d many, many years ago.\nBut only a few months ago I\u2019ve finally \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary.lite\u0022\u003E dared to call myself \u201cnonbinary\u201d\u003C\/a\u003E.\nHow stupid of me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/Potathoe44\/status\/1215722043481690112\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E be AFAB and wear makeup\u003C\/a\u003E,\nyou can \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/talcotts\/status\/1215755342006620166\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E be AMAB and have a beard\u003C\/a\u003E.\nYou \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/just_misha00\/status\/1215397522451107841\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E dont\u2019 have to be adrongynous\u003C\/a\u003E,\nyou \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/nonbinarythings\/status\/1215410195435835392\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E don\u2019t have to use them\/they pronouns\u003C\/a\u003E.\nNo worries, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/confusedophan\/status\/1216063380072673281\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E other enbies won\u2019t think of you as any less nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EGender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe call people \u201cthey\u201d, even in singular, when we either don\u2019t know their gender or if it isn\u2019t important.\nThat doesn\u2019t mean we think they\u2019re nonbinary.\nWe call ships \u201cshe\u201d (well, some people do, I think it\u2019s stupid),\nwhich doesn\u2019t mean that ships are female.\nWhen a woman wears pants (unthinkable two centuries ago), she doesn\u2019t become a man.\nWhen a clergyman wears a cassock (basically a dress), he doesn\u2019t become a woman.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou know why? Yes, because gender \u2260 expression \u2260 pronouns.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo please stop telling nonbinary people how to be nonbinary. Nobody is \u201cnot nonbinary enough\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd while we\u2019re at it: stop telling women how to be women and stop telling men how to be men.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe\u2019re all valid. We\u2019re all \u003Cem\u003Eenough\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":408,"readTime":2,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/toxic-masculinity":{"key":"blog\/society\/toxic-masculinity","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-01-09T10:18:13+01:00","publishedAt":"2020-01-09T10:18:13+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"toxic-masculinity"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"toxic-masculinity","title":"Toxic masculinity","intro":"\u003Cp\u003EToxic masculinity always has misogyny in it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can\u2019t be scared shitless about seeming even just a bit feminine\nwithout secretly thinking that being a woman is somehow worse than being a man.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EToxic masculinity always has misogyny in it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can\u2019t be scared shitless about seeming even just a bit feminine\nwithout secretly thinking that being a woman is somehow worse than being a man.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["toxic masculinity","masculinity","femininity","gender","misogyny"],"hasMore":false,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EToxic masculinity always has misogyny in it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can\u2019t be scared shitless about seeming even just a bit feminine\nwithout secretly thinking that being a woman is somehow worse than being a man.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EToxic masculinity always has misogyny in it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou can\u2019t be scared shitless about seeming even just a bit feminine\nwithout secretly thinking that being a woman is somehow worse than being a man.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":34,"readTime":null,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/a-real-man":{"key":"blog\/society\/a-real-man","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-11-10T20:09:31+01:00","publishedAt":"2019-11-10T20:06:00+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"a-real-man"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"a-real-man","title":"A real man","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Diederik de Groot: Vind jij jezelf een \u2018echte man\u2019?\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022262.31647634584\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Diederik de Groot: Vind jij jezelf een \u2018echte man\u2019?\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022262.31647634584\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo such thing as a \u201creal man\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s just a social construct. It changes over time, it differs from country to country, from social group to social group. It\u2019s super arbitrary.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll men are \u003Cem\u003Ereal\u003C\/em\u003E men.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Diederik de Groot: Vind jij jezelf een \u2018echte man\u2019?\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022613\u0022 height=\u0022335\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Diederik de Groot: Vind jij jezelf een \u2018echte man\u2019?\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022613\u0022 height=\u0022335\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/diederikdegroot\/status\/1193522668697464833\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/diederikdegroot\/status\/1193522668697464833\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo such thing as a \u201creal man\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s just a social construct. It changes over time, it differs from country to country, from social group to social group. It\u2019s super arbitrary.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAll men are \u003Cem\u003Ereal\u003C\/em\u003E men.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["gender","gender roles","male","man","real man"],"hasMore":false,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/echte-man_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Diederik de Groot: Vind jij jezelf een \u2018echte man\u2019?\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022131.15823817292\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo such thing as a \u201creal man\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s just a social construct. 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I wanna know \ud83d\ude05\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne thing is, in general, I don\u2019t think gender should be \u003Cem\u003Ea thing\u003C\/em\u003E. It\u2019s just some set of stupid arbitrary rules telling you what are you allowed to do and what not depending on which genitals you were born with. I don\u2019t want to follow those rules. I \u003Cem\u003Erefuse\u003C\/em\u003E to follow them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen used to have no right to vote. Women used to not be allowed to wear pants. But they refused to play by those rules \u2013 and now, surprise surprise, turns out having a penis is not a requirement to vote or to wear pants anymore! Who would have thought!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI went to a Pride Week showing of \u201cThe Danish Girl\u201d this Monday, followed by a panel discussion with three transgender people who told the audience about their experience of being trans in the Netherlands. What struck me is how much their lives would\u2019ve been easier if only our society didn\u2019t have those strange gender rules. No one would mock that trans guy as a child for having a \u201cboy haircut\u201d or riding a \u201cboy bike\u201d if there was no such thing as a \u201cboy haircut\u201d or \u201cboy bike\u201d. Our society has put gender labels on mundane things like toys, books, movies or haircuts and now it hates people who don\u2019t comply. That\u2019s crazy and hurtful!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESumming up, I really believe that breaking all the idiotic gender-related rules that our society has made up is a right thing to do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut \u003Cem\u003Edo\u003C\/em\u003E I break them?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, that\u2019s why I\u2019m not sure if calling myself nonbinary would be \u003Cem\u003Eokay\u003C\/em\u003E... I just look like a guy. That\u2019s all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean, I have a friend that looks a different gender in each picture of their dating profile. I see Jonathan van Ness rocking their heels and long hair... And then there\u2019s me \u2013 a guy that looks like a guy. I sometimes feel that if I did call myself nonbinary, I\u2019d be all like \u003Cem\u003Ehow dare I\u003C\/em\u003E do that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut also, I don\u2019t always look 100% like a guy. I paint my nails every once in a while when I feel like it \u2013 and I\u2019m gradually getting more and more comfortable wearing shiny pink nail polish in public. On some occasions (mostly Pride) I wear some makeup on my face as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-nail-polish_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022525\u0022 height=\u0022700\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-nail-polish_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022525\u0022 height=\u0022700\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn the other hand, I don\u2019t shop in the \u201cwomen\u2019s\u201d part of stores, I don\u2019t wear heels or shirts or dresses. I \u003Cem\u003Eam\u003C\/em\u003E planning to buy some, but I probably won\u2019t dare to wear them in public for quite a while anyway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI use the \u201cmen\u2019s\u201d locker room at the gym and the \u201cmen\u2019s\u201d restroom at work, no matter how inclusive for gender nonconforming people that restroom might be. I don\u2019t think I\u2019m ready for the confusion \/ confrontation it might possibly spark... Does it make me conforming after all?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/cic-gender_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022941\u0022 height=\u0022680\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/cic-gender_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022941\u0022 height=\u0022680\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPeople refer to me as he\/him, but I honestly wouldn\u2019t mind she\/her or they\/them. I really, really, don\u2019t care. In my native Polish, which distinguishes gender in many more ways than English, I started using artificial, gender-neutral forms or words (\u201dchcia\u0142\u2090bym\u201d instead of male \u201cchcia\u0142bym\u201d or femal \u201cchcia\u0142abym\u201d, \u201czrobi\u0142\u00e6m\u201d instead of male \u201czrobi\u0142em\u201d or female \u201czrobi\u0142am\u201d). Oh, and I also use female emojis \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t do that because I don\u2019t feel like a man anymore or because I feel like a woman, or even anywhere in between.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI do that because I truly hate the very distinction of \u201cfemininity\u201d and \u201cmasculinity\u201d. Skirts should be just yet another type of clothing one could wear, and not a political statement or a reason to be beaten up in the street. Makeup should be just a time-consuming way to look better \u2013 not something reserved to a particular half of the population depending on the contents of their underwear.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t care about being or not being a particular gender. I care about being \u003Cem\u003Efree\u003C\/em\u003E from caring about those stupid rules.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd you know what? Is a person not gay if they\u2019re still in the closet? Are they not gay if they are still a virgin? Of course not! Then why do I care so much if I am non-conforming \u003Cem\u003Eenough\u003C\/em\u003E to call myself so?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am angry at the world for attempting to put us all into binary categories \u2013 and I don\u2019t wanna stay in one of them anymore.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo yes, I will be putting \u201cenby\u201d in my bio \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["dress","enby","femininity","gender","labels","makeup","masculinity","nail polish","non-binary","nonbinary","skirt","social norms"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-in-rainbows_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-in-rainbows_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-in-rainbows_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo, honestly, am I? I wanna know \ud83d\ude05\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-in-rainbows_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-in-rainbows_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo, honestly, am I? I wanna know \ud83d\ude05\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne thing is, in general, I don\u2019t think gender should be \u003Cem\u003Ea thing\u003C\/em\u003E. It\u2019s just some set of stupid arbitrary rules telling you what are you allowed to do and what not depending on which genitals you were born with. I don\u2019t want to follow those rules. I \u003Cem\u003Erefuse\u003C\/em\u003E to follow them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWomen used to have no right to vote. Women used to not be allowed to wear pants. But they refused to play by those rules \u2013 and now, surprise surprise, turns out having a penis is not a requirement to vote or to wear pants anymore! Who would have thought!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI went to a Pride Week showing of \u201cThe Danish Girl\u201d this Monday, followed by a panel discussion with three transgender people who told the audience about their experience of being trans in the Netherlands. What struck me is how much their lives would\u2019ve been easier if only our society didn\u2019t have those strange gender rules. No one would mock that trans guy as a child for having a \u201cboy haircut\u201d or riding a \u201cboy bike\u201d if there was no such thing as a \u201cboy haircut\u201d or \u201cboy bike\u201d. Our society has put gender labels on mundane things like toys, books, movies or haircuts and now it hates people who don\u2019t comply. That\u2019s crazy and hurtful!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESumming up, I really believe that breaking all the idiotic gender-related rules that our society has made up is a right thing to do.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut \u003Cem\u003Edo\u003C\/em\u003E I break them?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, that\u2019s why I\u2019m not sure if calling myself nonbinary would be \u003Cem\u003Eokay\u003C\/em\u003E... I just look like a guy. That\u2019s all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI mean, I have a friend that looks a different gender in each picture of their dating profile. I see Jonathan van Ness rocking their heels and long hair... And then there\u2019s me \u2013 a guy that looks like a guy. I sometimes feel that if I did call myself nonbinary, I\u2019d be all like \u003Cem\u003Ehow dare I\u003C\/em\u003E do that?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut also, I don\u2019t always look 100% like a guy. I paint my nails every once in a while when I feel like it \u2013 and I\u2019m gradually getting more and more comfortable wearing shiny pink nail polish in public. On some occasions (mostly Pride) I wear some makeup on my face as well.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-nail-polish_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/me-nail-polish_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOn the other hand, I don\u2019t shop in the \u201cwomen\u2019s\u201d part of stores, I don\u2019t wear heels or shirts or dresses. I \u003Cem\u003Eam\u003C\/em\u003E planning to buy some, but I probably won\u2019t dare to wear them in public for quite a while anyway.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI use the \u201cmen\u2019s\u201d locker room at the gym and the \u201cmen\u2019s\u201d restroom at work, no matter how inclusive for gender nonconforming people that restroom might be. I don\u2019t think I\u2019m ready for the confusion \/ confrontation it might possibly spark... Does it make me conforming after all?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/cic-gender_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/cic-gender_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022173.43251859724\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPeople refer to me as he\/him, but I honestly wouldn\u2019t mind she\/her or they\/them. I really, really, don\u2019t care. In my native Polish, which distinguishes gender in many more ways than English, I started using artificial, gender-neutral forms or words (\u201dchcia\u0142\u2090bym\u201d instead of male \u201cchcia\u0142bym\u201d or femal \u201cchcia\u0142abym\u201d, \u201czrobi\u0142\u00e6m\u201d instead of male \u201czrobi\u0142em\u201d or female \u201czrobi\u0142am\u201d). Oh, and I also use female emojis \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t do that because I don\u2019t feel like a man anymore or because I feel like a woman, or even anywhere in between.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI do that because I truly hate the very distinction of \u201cfemininity\u201d and \u201cmasculinity\u201d. Skirts should be just yet another type of clothing one could wear, and not a political statement or a reason to be beaten up in the street. Makeup should be just a time-consuming way to look better \u2013 not something reserved to a particular half of the population depending on the contents of their underwear.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t care about being or not being a particular gender. I care about being \u003Cem\u003Efree\u003C\/em\u003E from caring about those stupid rules.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd you know what? Is a person not gay if they\u2019re still in the closet? Are they not gay if they are still a virgin? Of course not! Then why do I care so much if I am non-conforming \u003Cem\u003Eenough\u003C\/em\u003E to call myself so?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI am angry at the world for attempting to put us all into binary categories \u2013 and I don\u2019t wanna stay in one of them anymore.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo yes, I will be putting \u201cenby\u201d in my bio \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E","words":768,"readTime":4,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/toilets-locker-rooms":{"key":"blog\/society\/toilets-locker-rooms","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-07-13T11:53:18+02:00","publishedAt":"2017-07-13T11:50:00+02:00","group":"nudism","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"toilets-locker-rooms"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"toilets-locker-rooms","title":"Gender specific toilets and locker rooms make no sense","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022378.19672131148\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAACQAAAAcCAYAAAAJKR1YAAAACXBIWXMAAA7EAAAOxAGVKw4bAAAIP0lEQVRIiU2X24\/dVRXHP2vtfS4zbadzqb1IoSUEi4JBaIkCghdMCA2Q6ItGLsUnH33SRyMxQoxCjPwFJgKJ8mI0IC9EoomJilgEKfY205am006nnc7lnN\/57b2WD3ufqXMyOed3fvu3z9rf9V3f9V3y4N49jjhBFXcAcDPcnXqJ4+AgCIKBA+5kKyu83EYQggAyfg6SOzbeR4VsRnLHEQQnO6SyIeZCdCnPS91IKBfj4MpjjrgjIogH3Lx8qw5e7pf1DiJIDcYcTEBcEBFcQLTecMdEcHHUylGDQgwq9YSOIqhICQhHRcpmOOYGKJiBlsDdy7uZ1MPUl4Dh5HFQDiJeoROylMB1cw\/fRDSqCFa2RWowVEBFtGzujqGoCxIUBbD6lDmqhqA1tQIKQZTgAm5kd1zGmRaiOO5S9vUCREHUieLQCYK7IlIQUlGyO6rlOhIAJyBjeiAV1exONsOsnFEkoFoQSxVC+T8eRlUYDDGzgo4IjhUOCkTPBqKospkuBFp31mIXpARq9fBekXd33Bx3RzrjM9aUaS2IcU7dMIeUjSjClhBokpX7ZuCGo4CgLpDNCChRlKCKitCYMzRozGkRsghfO3yY0ClBbt02xTeffgoNgRADjzz2OHfdcwgNAVQRUR74yle5af\/NhXsIKqGQfkwLp6TLS9DgqItXeA2jVI8IqCqdTiTGiIgyNTXFw48c5pZbbyGEwF0HD3Lv\/Q9y592HmJzcyucOHuLeLz5Aa6nIgSifvuMOgsaKXOGjitLW0jdKJhzBRRFVooZArKi4ClkK8UwE1VBKXYQnnnmG+770EHM7d\/HdI0\/zw+d+yrapKXbs3MnPf\/JjHn70cZqm4c0\/vsHxYx\/xo+ef57bbb+elF16EWslSNAVFMNGidyhWC8pRNGogqNYfLssRKfri1EpTPnXgNkSE6elpdu3Zw8Lp4wBcvrRIp9NhNGpo25aDh+5hbscO5k+fpt\/v870ffJ\/ZuTlyNlI2RslJ2UjmZBFsU7MKtXUsf9SSdK\/sHStlLf+zCwsArK6uc+XyZd5+6y3OnzvDm6+\/zn+PHePDDz5gdm6WP\/\/pbb715JP88hcv8Z0njvCH37\/BU08fYWM4ZNi0jFICrTwSEC37qwRCiCWxXv9VFFXdJF4IgiiEIPzmlZe5fGmR1159hXY04qP\/fMiV5WUWTs8zGAy4uHiB3732W06cOEHsdFnf2ODdfx3l7JmzbOn3Ee2ytjFiddAiCJ0YiSEQQiDEiMaIaiSONcPRIvOFeQTRwiMp+nLlyjI5t6yurmBmmFlVl\/LZct78\/OrLv+ZnL77AqVOnuHnffp599jlMevS3TRA1QF4BFZRIRDHLOKAxIIcP3OwGiCqqUhVVaYCBRlSlQKlw4037WLq0xNR04N77DvCPv59n4fQ5Ru2IiYlJUjYuLl7EgaZp2T49w9LlZbq9LYROj2xFbD\/BBgJo6JAR2pxq2iBGFVSFqBHXImyo4OaspoyYYOaEEDh54iQiwrePfJl9+6dZurSM+wy7d29nYX6Jj88tc8ede\/n30TOknFm6tAQIo8EaOhyQAQ2KbukDSmdiG9GdNBxgbUPOmegUbfCxVtZuHapWGY57JuUMCN1uoNcLfHzuKo994y5275lmsDHk8tI6MSqn5i\/w6Nfv5pVf\/YX33juLWamP4LlUVBZk6xYcYXLLdlJuGZnRjIaY5dpcrfyYm6BaOm82I5sjorWbF\/vR6\/V49515cs4c\/edZmrYlZ8PNSSlzbW2dYZuYnOoiCpYzgtbGqag5wRIK5JWlIi2jDbqecIyYU0tOGRGhGyMhxqIElsFrz1KhuAfl2rUB588ptx44QK\/f5f2j7zMzO0Nvosdg2NCOFpno9zk3fxLxQBBHVMk5Y+5FSHKDeCatDXCUnFJprw4xp0xOhgpkkdKNRbBs5EypBlO63S7uTkqJlatX+ejYMS5euMD0zAxn568xMzfDyZOnCJ0+a2trrK6uEWJxZLPbp7h6bZ1mlBCHnDNBwNwwMm7FMbpAtNqxHcHcaC2jWrwKKO5CiIHPf+EeLBtN0zA52cfMmZ2e5vz589ywdw9ra2vMzs7S6fbo93toCHz2MwcYDhtmp7fz17+9w4VLyyCKmTPyjBkErZ7Uwd2Qh27c5W6GIEWoYun4Gwax0yutg+u2tJi3sWe+bkHcnaYZsT5oNl3gZKdHtoQBTc40KSPAVE\/xXLVHhSYbuW4ac87FqooUgRtliBEFDva31oY4NurVoJkzvfeTTO+7gY2VFbbv3MHVxSXMHFFh6fgCqxeX6HUiiDBILeujltTJmAiLPmJEcYvUHkqt6mhSZwkvvlmB3CaGKbEy2VTTRulv4znEYf3j8yyvrdI2DWeOn6TTm6AZNKRmRBoMMXNSm+h0IyN3kheP7e7kDINUqKE4rfn1yeX+3XOOF7cYFGK1sdmchNMJEVEZ20REFK8+OVYBzebkXLTqum8ux25yrv0R2pwxNzoaro9cOE22TTJErTNWEOhqoB8CyQ1RIRSfhdZARSAK4Ip5NfkCGSe7oCFWd1zEth+U9VZoaxVZCJgXgyYS6iQjJBeSF3MYoxYbGYLSDaWfqSlBy6JshrvQWiYGJVerGUSJqowsoQIai\/hJRbvMMYUG44Fz\/OfuSB1ORQTJZYBwgbht1y4EQ7zA4dnwCnNXBXEv9qSOK0JBrMxqEPpOwFHVYu6AWHoQAJ2cGaXEKJV0WnbUjGS2af4me2WN4cQrV68RVAof3LFxPj0TO100KFK54u51TBoPeWWiTSkX08XY9tbhRQrvkmdyhjy2giJICJsB9TodJCVGKfE\/0H3RlufhSjsAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022378.19672131148\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? 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It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven more when I started realising I was gay. Since I fancy other guys, and since girls might fancy me, should I be always given a private locker room and bathroom, so that nobody sees anyone they might fancy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShowers in the male locker room at my gym were in renovation for over two weeks. Having to go back home all sweaty and stinky \u2013 not the best experience, trust me... The solution could be really simple \u2013 just temporarily let the guys use female showers. Nothing would happen. I have no problem not raping or assaulting anyone, no matter how hot and muscular they are, and I\u2019m sure straight guys wouldn\u2019t do that either, if they saw hot naked girls. It\u2019s not a darkroom, it\u2019s just basic hygiene, grow up!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAssuming we only strip to our underwear in the school locker room\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, how is that different from just enjoying a beach in our swimsuits? We don\u2019t separate those by gender (not anymore, at least). Did the world collapse? Did the beaches become dens of iniquity? Did we stop controlling ourselves just because we can see almost-naked persons of the opposite sex? No.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd what\u2019s the deal about the toilets? We have to unnecessarily build separate public toilets for two genders, because what? Because urinals? Man, if someone were inappropriately looking at my junk while I\u2019m pissing in a public restroom\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, I would be pissed \u2013 totally regardless of whether it\u2019s a female or male pervert. And except for pissing in a urinal, it\u2019s not like we do anything intimate in front of other people. Why would I care at all, what gender is the person in a next stall?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe separation of restrooms and locker rooms is not just idiotic and baseless, but can often become problematic, if you don\u2019t easily fit into binary gender division. And I\u2019m not talking only about the transgender, transsexual and nonbinary people. You can encounter some problems even if you\u2019re a cis, straight person. In which locker room should a mother help her little son change, so that none of them feels uncomfortable? To which toilet should a father take his little daughter, not to be regarded a pervert?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole thing with the gender division makes \u003Cstrong\u003Eno sense on any level\u003C\/strong\u003E. Can someone explain to me, why are we still doing that?\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Why the hell do people prefer to keep stinking with sweat for the rest of the day rather than just take their pants off and take a shower, is a separate topic. Hint: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/homophobia\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E homophobia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, except if it happened like in a gay bar or something \ud83d\ude09\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["bathroom","gender","lgbtq","nudity","patriarchy","prudery","restroom","shame","toilet","transgender","transsexual"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022189.09836065574\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022189.09836065574\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.tvnz.co.nz\/one-news\/new-zealand\/whatever-just-please-wash-your-hands-dunedin-theatre-installs-quirky-inclusive-signs\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etvnz.co.nz\/one-news\/new-zealand\/whatever-just-please-wash-your-hands-dunedin-theatre-installs-quirky-inclusive-signs\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven more when I started realising I was gay. Since I fancy other guys, and since girls might fancy me, should I be always given a private locker room and bathroom, so that nobody sees anyone they might fancy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShowers in the male locker room at my gym were in renovation for over two weeks. Having to go back home all sweaty and stinky \u2013 not the best experience, trust me... The solution could be really simple \u2013 just temporarily let the guys use female showers. Nothing would happen. I have no problem not raping or assaulting anyone, no matter how hot and muscular they are, and I\u2019m sure straight guys wouldn\u2019t do that either, if they saw hot naked girls. It\u2019s not a darkroom, it\u2019s just basic hygiene, grow up!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAssuming we only strip to our underwear in the school locker room\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, how is that different from just enjoying a beach in our swimsuits? We don\u2019t separate those by gender (not anymore, at least). Did the world collapse? Did the beaches become dens of iniquity? Did we stop controlling ourselves just because we can see almost-naked persons of the opposite sex? No.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd what\u2019s the deal about the toilets? We have to unnecessarily build separate public toilets for two genders, because what? Because urinals? Man, if someone were inappropriately looking at my junk while I\u2019m pissing in a public restroom\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, I would be pissed \u2013 totally regardless of whether it\u2019s a female or male pervert. And except for pissing in a urinal, it\u2019s not like we do anything intimate in front of other people. Why would I care at all, what gender is the person in a next stall?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe separation of restrooms and locker rooms is not just idiotic and baseless, but can often become problematic, if you don\u2019t easily fit into binary gender division. And I\u2019m not talking only about the transgender, transsexual and nonbinary people. You can encounter some problems even if you\u2019re a cis, straight person. In which locker room should a mother help her little son change, so that none of them feels uncomfortable? To which toilet should a father take his little daughter, not to be regarded a pervert?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole thing with the gender division makes \u003Cstrong\u003Eno sense on any level\u003C\/strong\u003E. Can someone explain to me, why are we still doing that?\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Why the hell do people prefer to keep stinking with sweat for the rest of the day rather than just take their pants off and take a shower, is a separate topic. Hint: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/homophobia\u0022\u003E homophobia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, except if it happened like in a gay bar or something \ud83d\ude09\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E","words":544,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/life\/i-love-being-gay":{"key":"blog\/life\/i-love-being-gay","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-05-10T17:54:09+02:00","publishedAt":"2017-05-12T10:00:00+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"i-love-being-gay"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"i-love-being-gay","title":"I love being gay!","intro":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. I cried after the massacre in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/orlando\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Orlando\u003C\/a\u003E as if I\u2019d lost really close friends \u2013 even though I didn\u2019t know those people. After my biological family rejected me, it\u2019s the misfits of the LGBTQ community that made me feel at home again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EOnline dating\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor a shy guy like me online dating is quite a big deal. Remember all the jokes in the sitcoms about couples being ashamed that they\u2019ve met online and coming up with some fake \u201chow we met\u201d stories? This shows a stigma around the topic. As if it was a \u003Cem\u003Eworse\u003C\/em\u003E way to meet someone. If anything, it\u2019s better in many ways. Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["chores","community","dating","equality","expression","family","freedom","gay","gender","lesbian","lgbtq","online dating","porn","relationship","sex"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew.lite\u0022\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. I cried after the massacre in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/orlando\u0022\u003E Orlando\u003C\/a\u003E as if I\u2019d lost really close friends \u2013 even though I didn\u2019t know those people. After my biological family rejected me, it\u2019s the misfits of the LGBTQ community that made me feel at home again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EOnline dating\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor a shy guy like me online dating is quite a big deal. Remember all the jokes in the sitcoms about couples being ashamed that they\u2019ve met online and coming up with some fake \u201chow we met\u201d stories? This shows a stigma around the topic. As if it was a \u003Cem\u003Eworse\u003C\/em\u003E way to meet someone. If anything, it\u2019s better in many ways. Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag.lite\u0022\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E","words":1481,"readTime":6,"lang":"en"}}}}}