{"tag":"lgbtq","articles":{"blog\/society\/are-polyamorists-part-of-lgbtq":{"key":"blog\/society\/are-polyamorists-part-of-lgbtq","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-08-08T19:08:30+02:00","publishedAt":"2020-08-29T21:00:00+02:00","group":"polyamory","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"are-polyamorists-part-of-lgbtq"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"are-polyamorists-part-of-lgbtq","title":"Are polyamorists part of LGBTQ+?","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022303.6914600551\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022303.6914600551\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAparently, this question is getting asked more and more often nowadays,\nso let me put in my two cents worth. Are polyamorists part of LGBTQ+?\nAnd I don\u0027t mean those who, like myself, are both pansexual and poly,\nor both trans and poly, because of course we are.\nI mean: does polyamory itself make you part of the community?\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022607.38292011019\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022607.38292011019\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAparently, this question is getting asked more and more often nowadays,\nso let me put in my two cents worth. Are polyamorists part of LGBTQ+?\nAnd I don\u0027t mean those who, like myself, are both pansexual and poly,\nor both trans and poly, because of course we are.\nI mean: does polyamory itself make you part of the community?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EIs it in the name?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me start by saying that I\u0027m not the biggest fan of the acronym \u201cLGBTQ+\u201d.\nAs much is it makes it easy to explain to allocishets what\u0027s the deal,\nI\u0027m not a fan, because it\u0027s very specific in terms of listing its members.\nWhich leaves it open for endless fights about who\u0027s in and who\u0027s out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich letters did we forget to include? Isn\u0027t that too many letters to remember and pronounce?\nShould we maybe get rid of the T \u201cbEcAuSe ItS nOt An OrIeNtAtIoN\u201d?\nDoes \u201cA\u201d stand for asexual, aromantic, agender, or maybe even ally?\nWhat\u0027s hiding under the plus? All those fights are so counterproductive\u2026 \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven though I don\u0027t use it too often (as hardly anyone knows this acronym),\nI really prefer for instance \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=GSRM\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E \u003Cstrong\u003EGSRM\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt stands for \u201cGender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities\u201d.\nIt includes everyone that is minoritised because of those reasons. That\u0027s it.\nDoesn\u0027t matter if you\u0027re discriminated because of \u003Cem\u003Eyour own\u003C\/em\u003E gender,\nor the gender of \u003Cem\u003Epeople you love\u003C\/em\u003E or sleep with, or the \u003Cem\u003Eway\u003C\/em\u003E you show that affection\u2026\nYou\u0027re in. This acronym doesn\u0027t \u003Cem\u003Elist\u003C\/em\u003E groups that can join.\nIt \u003Cem\u003Edescribes\u003C\/em\u003E the type of issues that bring us together.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnother word I like and use in lieu of LGBTQ+ \u2013 despite its history as a reclaimed slur \u2013 is \u003Cstrong\u003E\u201cqueer\u201d\u003C\/strong\u003E.\nIt also \u003Cem\u003Edescribes\u003C\/em\u003E us in a simple way: we\u0027re the \u201cstrange ones\u201d, the ones that don\u0027t fit in\nin the patriarchal, cishetnormative society and its rules.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd obviously, polyamorists fit both of those. We\u0027re a romantic \u0026amp; sexual minority.\nWe\u0027re different, we\u0027re strange, we\u0027re \u003Cem\u003Equeer\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHonestly, looking at so many cishetnormative relationships around me,\nI feel like desiring relationships that are based on honesty and love\ninstead of just exclusivity and outdated gender norms, is \u003Cem\u003Ethe queerest\u003C\/em\u003E thing imaginable.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAre we facing similar discrimination?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s a simple one: yes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe main issue that LGBTQ+ activists are fighting for all around the world\nis the right to marry whichever consenting adult we want.\nSure, the main focus is on the \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E of the partners,\nbut why wouldn\u0027t the same ideal apply to the \u003Cem\u003Enumber\u003C\/em\u003E of partners?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf I\u0027m in a loving, committed relationship,\nbut can\u0027t possibly get married to that person if we wanted to,\njust because we both have the same type of genitals\n\u2013 that\u0027s a blatant discrimination, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd if I\u0027m in a loving, committed relationship,\nbut can\u0027t possibly get married to that person if we wanted to,\njust because\u2026 I\u0027m also in \u003Cem\u003Eanother\u003C\/em\u003E loving, committed relationship?\nHow is that not discrimination, huh?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd no, the countries \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E listed on wiki\u003C\/a\u003E\nas recognising polygamous marriages, aren\u0027t what I have in mind.\nIt\u0027s a totally different approach to marriage:\nreligious, based on a misogynystic culture of treating women as submissive.\nNot a single polyamorous person I know would feel liberated if they emigrated to one of those countries.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EApart from the lack of legal recognition, polyamorous people are also facing adversity elsewhere.\nBecause it\u0027s not \u003Cem\u003Enormal\u003C\/em\u003E in our societies, isn it? We look like \u003Cem\u003Echeaters\u003C\/em\u003E, don\u0027t we?\nWe\u0027re some sort of \u003Cem\u003Esex freaks\u003C\/em\u003E, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe\u0027re far from being mainstream. We\u0027re misunderstood, slut-shamed, kink-shamed\u2026\nWe don\u0027t get much representation in movies, series or books\u2026\nOur coming outs as polyamorous are not that different from gay people\u0027s coming outs as gay.\nThe world is just as couple-normative, as it is heteronormative, cisnormative and allonormative.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBut is it an identity?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe tend to think of polyamory in terms of \u201chaving multiple partners at the moment\u201d, don\u0027t we?\nCan a \u003Cem\u003Esingle\u003C\/em\u003E person be poly? Can a person in a \u003Cem\u003Emonogamous relationship\u003C\/em\u003E be poly?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDoesn\u0027t that remind you of what bi people go through?\n\u201cOh this bi girl is dating a guy now, so I guess she \u003Cem\u003Echose\u003C\/em\u003E to be straight\u201d\u2026 Yeah, no.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-definition-of-polyamory\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E My definition of polyamory\u003C\/a\u003E puts the spotlight not on the \u003Cem\u003Ecurrent situation\u003C\/em\u003E,\nbut on the \u003Cem\u003Edesire\u003C\/em\u003E not to be limited to one person,\non the \u003Cem\u003Eapproach\u003C\/em\u003E to relationships that\u0027s based on honesty and openness \u2013 and not exclusivity.\nJust like a gay virgin is still gay.\nJust like a trans person before transition is still trans.\nJust like a bisexual man in a relationship with a guy doesn\u0027t suddenly become gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolyamory is not temporary. It\u0027s not a fluke. It\u0027s not a nuisance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s who we are.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe best thing about the LGBTQ+ community is its \u003Cstrong\u003Einclusivity\u003C\/strong\u003E. So it\u0027s time to show it.\nWe see a group of people whose romantic and sexual identity makes them marginalised,\nwho undergo struggles similar in so many ways to what other queers experience.\nIt\u0027s time to welcome them with open arms.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["polyamory","relationship","minority","definition","lgbtq","queer","inclusivity"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022151.84573002755\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAparently, this question is getting asked more and more often nowadays,\nso let me put in my two cents worth. Are polyamorists part of LGBTQ+?\nAnd I don\u0027t mean those who, like myself, are both pansexual and poly,\nor both trans and poly, because of course we are.\nI mean: does polyamory itself make you part of the community?\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/legality-of-polygamy_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022Wikipedia page: Legality of polygamy\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022151.84573002755\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Een.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAparently, this question is getting asked more and more often nowadays,\nso let me put in my two cents worth. Are polyamorists part of LGBTQ+?\nAnd I don\u0027t mean those who, like myself, are both pansexual and poly,\nor both trans and poly, because of course we are.\nI mean: does polyamory itself make you part of the community?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EIs it in the name?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me start by saying that I\u0027m not the biggest fan of the acronym \u201cLGBTQ+\u201d.\nAs much is it makes it easy to explain to allocishets what\u0027s the deal,\nI\u0027m not a fan, because it\u0027s very specific in terms of listing its members.\nWhich leaves it open for endless fights about who\u0027s in and who\u0027s out.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich letters did we forget to include? Isn\u0027t that too many letters to remember and pronounce?\nShould we maybe get rid of the T \u201cbEcAuSe ItS nOt An OrIeNtAtIoN\u201d?\nDoes \u201cA\u201d stand for asexual, aromantic, agender, or maybe even ally?\nWhat\u0027s hiding under the plus? All those fights are so counterproductive\u2026 \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven though I don\u0027t use it too often (as hardly anyone knows this acronym),\nI really prefer for instance \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=GSRM\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E \u003Cstrong\u003EGSRM\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt stands for \u201cGender, Sexual, and Romantic Minorities\u201d.\nIt includes everyone that is minoritised because of those reasons. That\u0027s it.\nDoesn\u0027t matter if you\u0027re discriminated because of \u003Cem\u003Eyour own\u003C\/em\u003E gender,\nor the gender of \u003Cem\u003Epeople you love\u003C\/em\u003E or sleep with, or the \u003Cem\u003Eway\u003C\/em\u003E you show that affection\u2026\nYou\u0027re in. This acronym doesn\u0027t \u003Cem\u003Elist\u003C\/em\u003E groups that can join.\nIt \u003Cem\u003Edescribes\u003C\/em\u003E the type of issues that bring us together.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnother word I like and use in lieu of LGBTQ+ \u2013 despite its history as a reclaimed slur \u2013 is \u003Cstrong\u003E\u201cqueer\u201d\u003C\/strong\u003E.\nIt also \u003Cem\u003Edescribes\u003C\/em\u003E us in a simple way: we\u0027re the \u201cstrange ones\u201d, the ones that don\u0027t fit in\nin the patriarchal, cishetnormative society and its rules.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd obviously, polyamorists fit both of those. We\u0027re a romantic \u0026amp; sexual minority.\nWe\u0027re different, we\u0027re strange, we\u0027re \u003Cem\u003Equeer\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHonestly, looking at so many cishetnormative relationships around me,\nI feel like desiring relationships that are based on honesty and love\ninstead of just exclusivity and outdated gender norms, is \u003Cem\u003Ethe queerest\u003C\/em\u003E thing imaginable.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAre we facing similar discrimination?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat\u0027s a simple one: yes.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe main issue that LGBTQ+ activists are fighting for all around the world\nis the right to marry whichever consenting adult we want.\nSure, the main focus is on the \u003Cem\u003Egender\u003C\/em\u003E of the partners,\nbut why wouldn\u0027t the same ideal apply to the \u003Cem\u003Enumber\u003C\/em\u003E of partners?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf I\u0027m in a loving, committed relationship,\nbut can\u0027t possibly get married to that person if we wanted to,\njust because we both have the same type of genitals\n\u2013 that\u0027s a blatant discrimination, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd if I\u0027m in a loving, committed relationship,\nbut can\u0027t possibly get married to that person if we wanted to,\njust because\u2026 I\u0027m also in \u003Cem\u003Eanother\u003C\/em\u003E loving, committed relationship?\nHow is that not discrimination, huh?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd no, the countries \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Legality_of_polygamy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E listed on wiki\u003C\/a\u003E\nas recognising polygamous marriages, aren\u0027t what I have in mind.\nIt\u0027s a totally different approach to marriage:\nreligious, based on a misogynystic culture of treating women as submissive.\nNot a single polyamorous person I know would feel liberated if they emigrated to one of those countries.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EApart from the lack of legal recognition, polyamorous people are also facing adversity elsewhere.\nBecause it\u0027s not \u003Cem\u003Enormal\u003C\/em\u003E in our societies, isn it? We look like \u003Cem\u003Echeaters\u003C\/em\u003E, don\u0027t we?\nWe\u0027re some sort of \u003Cem\u003Esex freaks\u003C\/em\u003E, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe\u0027re far from being mainstream. We\u0027re misunderstood, slut-shamed, kink-shamed\u2026\nWe don\u0027t get much representation in movies, series or books\u2026\nOur coming outs as polyamorous are not that different from gay people\u0027s coming outs as gay.\nThe world is just as couple-normative, as it is heteronormative, cisnormative and allonormative.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBut is it an identity?\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe tend to think of polyamory in terms of \u201chaving multiple partners at the moment\u201d, don\u0027t we?\nCan a \u003Cem\u003Esingle\u003C\/em\u003E person be poly? Can a person in a \u003Cem\u003Emonogamous relationship\u003C\/em\u003E be poly?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDoesn\u0027t that remind you of what bi people go through?\n\u201cOh this bi girl is dating a guy now, so I guess she \u003Cem\u003Echose\u003C\/em\u003E to be straight\u201d\u2026 Yeah, no.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-definition-of-polyamory.lite\u0022\u003E My definition of polyamory\u003C\/a\u003E puts the spotlight not on the \u003Cem\u003Ecurrent situation\u003C\/em\u003E,\nbut on the \u003Cem\u003Edesire\u003C\/em\u003E not to be limited to one person,\non the \u003Cem\u003Eapproach\u003C\/em\u003E to relationships that\u0027s based on honesty and openness \u2013 and not exclusivity.\nJust like a gay virgin is still gay.\nJust like a trans person before transition is still trans.\nJust like a bisexual man in a relationship with a guy doesn\u0027t suddenly become gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPolyamory is not temporary. It\u0027s not a fluke. It\u0027s not a nuisance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s who we are.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESumming up.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe best thing about the LGBTQ+ community is its \u003Cstrong\u003Einclusivity\u003C\/strong\u003E. So it\u0027s time to show it.\nWe see a group of people whose romantic and sexual identity makes them marginalised,\nwho undergo struggles similar in so many ways to what other queers experience.\nIt\u0027s time to welcome them with open arms.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":831,"readTime":4,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/politics\/i-tak-nie-zag\u0142osuj\u0119":{"key":"blog\/politics\/i-tak-nie-zag\u0142osuj\u0119","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-06-23T16:26:43+02:00","publishedAt":"2020-06-24T19:26:43+02:00","group":"wybory2020","category":"blog","subcategory":"politics","slug":"i-tak-nie-zag\u0142osuj\u0119"},"content":{"pl":{"slug":"i-tak-nie-g\u0142osuj\u0119-na-homofob\u00f3w","title":"I tak nie g\u0142osuj\u0119 na homofob\u00f3w \ud83e\udd37","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022255.78684429642\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022255.78684429642\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b osobie czarnosk\u00f3rej, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na rasist\u0119, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b ofierze gwa\u0142tu, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na gwa\u0142ciciela, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWi\u0119c nie m\u00f3w ofiarom homofobii, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003Emusz\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego,\nbo jak nie to PiS im zrobi z Polski stref\u0119 woln\u0105 od LGBT.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022511.57368859284\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022511.57368859284\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/latarnikwyborczy.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        latarnikwyborczy.pl\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b osobie czarnosk\u00f3rej, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na rasist\u0119, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b ofierze gwa\u0142tu, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na gwa\u0142ciciela, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWi\u0119c nie m\u00f3w ofiarom homofobii, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003Emusz\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego,\nbo jak nie to PiS im zrobi z Polski stref\u0119 woln\u0105 od LGBT.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego nie zag\u0142osuj\u0119 na Trzaskowskiego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo Trzaskowski jest homofobem\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWielu ludzi my\u015bli, \u017ce poprzeczka \u201cnie bycia homofobem\u201d jest zawieszona bardzo nisko.\n\u017be jak nie masz odruchu wymiotnego na my\u015bl o dw\u00f3ch facetach w jednym \u0142\u00f3\u017cku,\ni jak nigdy nie da\u0142e\u015b po mordzie \u017cadnemu peda\u0142owi, to mo\u017cesz si\u0119 chwali\u0107 na lewo i prawo swoj\u0105 progresywno\u015bci\u0105 i otwarto\u015bci\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDla mnie poprzeczka bycia sojusznikiem LGBTQ+ jest na poziomie:\n\u201cwszyscy ludzie zas\u0142uguj\u0105 na r\u00f3wne prawa, niezale\u017cnie od p\u0142ci czy orientacji.\ng\u0142osz\u0119 to otwarcie i wyra\u017anie, s\u0142ucham co mniejszo\u015bci maj\u0105 w swojej sprawie do powiedzenia\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli po twoim \u201cjestem tolerancyjnx\u201d nast\u0119puje jakie\u015b \u201cale\u201d, to nie jeste\u015b tolerancyjnx \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/siedlecka.blog.polityka.pl\/2020\/05\/06\/trzaskowski-lgbt-minus\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E deklaracji zawartych w karcie LGBT nie spe\u0142nia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d jako prezydent Warszawy\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/siedlecka.blog.polityka.pl\/2020\/05\/06\/trzaskowski-lgbt-minus\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E otwarcie stan\u0105\u0142 na drodze polskiego obywatela, dziecka dw\u00f3ch kobiet, do uzyskania PESELu\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d \u015bwiadomie i dobrowolnie jest cz\u0142onkiem i reprezentantem partii,\nkt\u00f3ra wielokrotnie obiecawszy osobom w zwi\u0105zkach jednop\u0142ciowych mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 zalegalizowania tych\u017ce zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w,\nb\u0119d\u0105c u w\u0142adzy przez osiem lat, nie zrobi\u0142a w tym kierunku nic. A ustaw\u0119 o uzgodnieniu p\u0142ci przez dwa lata trzyma\u0142a w zamra\u017carce.\nDok\u0142adniejsza lista \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/everyday_loser\/status\/1282709162665947136\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E jest dost\u0119pna tutaj\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d \u015bwiadomie i dobrowolnie jest cz\u0142onkiem i reprezentantem partii,\nkt\u00f3ra nie widzi problemu w tym, \u017ce jej cz\u0142onkowie jako prezydenci miast usi\u0142owali zablokowa\u0107 Marsze R\u00f3wno\u015bci,\npokojowe demonstracje gwarantowane prawem do zgromadze\u0144.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d swojemu zast\u0119pcy, gejowi,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/warszawa.wyborcza.pl\/warszawa\/7,54420,24551440,nawet-trzaskowski-upomina-rabieja-ze-zagalopowal-sie-ze-slowami.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E zakaza\u0142 wypowiadania si\u0119 w kwestii walki o r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144sk\u0105.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1274759321453244416\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E pytany o polsk\u0105 homofobi\u0119 opowiada o ameryka\u0144skiej broni nuklearnej\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83e\udd26\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d podczas kampanii szczucia na osoby LGBTQ+ i odcz\u0142owieczania ich,\nuzna\u0142, \u017ce swoj\u0105 kampani\u0119 wyborcz\u0105 oprze o \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/OskWars\/status\/1275438275247800320\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E pokazywanie Polakom\u003C\/a\u003E\nwr\u0119cz w ilo\u015bciach hurtowych, jaki to on nie jest hetero, z \u201cnormalnej\u201d rodziny.\nJe\u015bli kto\u015b si\u0119 kiedy\u015b \u201cobnosi\u0142\u201d ze swoj\u0105 orientacj\u0105, to Trzaskowski w tej kampanii.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo to nie tylko LGBTQ+\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo nie jest tak, \u017ce stosunek kandydata do LGBTQ+ dotyczy wy\u0142\u0105cznie LGBTQ+.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStosunek do r\u00f3wno\u015bci ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skiej, praw antydyskryminacyjnych, uzgodnienia p\u0142ci, itp.\njest papierkiem lakmusowym tego, czy kandydat b\u0119dzie prezydentem wszystkich Polak\u00f3w.\nCzy b\u0119dzie dzieli\u0142 ich na lepszych i gorszych. Na wa\u017cniejszych i nieistotnych.\nCzy ma prawa cz\u0142owieka w sercu, czy w dupie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/latarnikwyborczy.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Latarnik Wyborczy\u003C\/a\u003E poprosi\u0142 kandydat\u00f3w o ustosunkowanie si\u0119 do stwierdzenia\n\u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOdpowied\u017a inna ni\u017c \u201cnie zgadzam si\u0119\u201d oznacza \u201czamierzam traktowa\u0107 cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 swoich wsp\u00f3\u0142obywateli jako gorszych, drugiej kategorii\u201d\ni powinna dyskwalifikowa\u0107 kandydata.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJedynie Biedro\u0144 opowiedzia\u0142 si\u0119 za prawami cz\u0142owieka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie szanuje wyborc\u00f3w\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJak Latarnikowi odpowiedzia\u0142 Trzaskowski (i Duda zreszt\u0105 te\u017c?)?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWcale.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo takie powiedzenie wyborcom \u201cchuj ci\u0119 moje pogl\u0105dy obchodz\u0105, g\u0142osuj na mnie i nie marud\u017a\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZagl\u0105dam na \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/trzaskowski2020.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E stron\u0119 kampanii Trzaskowskiego\u003C\/a\u003E w poszukiwaniu programu wyborczego.\nZnajduj\u0119 tylko plakaty.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECzemu mia\u0142ubym zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na kandydata, kt\u00f3ry ukrywa swoje pogl\u0105dy i nie publikuje programu?\nKt\u00f3rego jedynym atutem jest niebycie Dud\u0105?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EEdit:\u003C\/strong\u003E ech\u2026 chyba wywo\u0142a\u0142um wilka z lasu. \ud83d\ude05\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/wiadomosci.radiozet.pl\/Polityka\/Wybory-prezydenckie-2020\/Wybory-2020.-Rafal-Trzaskowski-pokazal-program-wyborczy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E W czwartek wieczorem\u003C\/a\u003E,\nna trzy dni przed wyborami, sztab Rafa\u0142a Trzaskowskiego opublikowa\u0142 \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/trzaskowski2020.pl\/program\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E program wyborczy\u003C\/a\u003E.\nLepiej p\u00f3\u017ano ni\u017c wcale, no nie? \ud83d\ude44 Program obiecuje zwi\u0105zki partnerskie, wi\u0119c\u2026 hurra, it\u0027s something!\nNamiastka r\u00f3wno\u015bci po raz kolejny obiecana!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie zas\u0142u\u017cy\u0142 na m\u00f3j g\u0142os\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAni w przypadku Trzaskowskiego, ani w przypadku Kidawy-B\u0142o\u0144skiej, nie us\u0142ysza\u0142em ani jednego argumentu,\nkt\u00f3ry zach\u0119ci\u0142by mnie do g\u0142osowania na kandydata PO.\nZamiast \u003Cem\u003Epostara\u0107\u003C\/em\u003E si\u0119 o m\u00f3j g\u0142os \u003Cem\u003Eoczekuj\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E go tylko za to, \u017ce nie s\u0105 PiS-em.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo dla mnie za ma\u0142o.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo wybory maj\u0105 dwie tury\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOkay, da si\u0119 przedstawi\u0107 sensown\u0105 argumentacj\u0119, dlaczego w drugiej turze g\u0142osowanie na \u201cmniejsze z\u0142o\u201d robi sens.\nNie zgodz\u0119 si\u0119 z t\u0105 argumentacj\u0105, ale rozumiem, co mo\u017cna w niej widzie\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast spory problem jest w tym, jak wielu ludzi udaje, jakby pierwsza tura nie istnia\u0142a.\nJakby wyb\u00f3r by\u0142 mi\u0119dzy Dud\u0105 a Trzaskowskim. Nie jest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWyb\u00f3r jest mi\u0119dzy jedenastoma kandydatami. Cokolwiek nie twierdz\u0105 sonda\u017ce, ten wrz\u00f3d na dupie demokracji,\njeszcze wszystko si\u0119 mo\u017ce zdarzy\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0119, \u017ce nie wolno nikogo przekonywa\u0107 argumentem \u201cmniejszego z\u0142a\u201d.\nAle czy mo\u017cemy z tym poczeka\u0107, a\u017c wyb\u00f3r serio b\u0119dzie mi\u0119dzy dwoma kandydatami?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie znosz\u0119 \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=queersplaining\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E queersplainingu\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/NewsweekPolska\/status\/1274358417373700098\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Ostatnio\u003C\/a\u003E\ndwaj uprzywilejowani, biali, heteroseksualni cis m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani debatowali w telewizji nad tym,\nco \u201c\u015brodowiska gejowskie\u201d powinny zrobi\u0107, by sprzeciwi\u0107 si\u0119 fali hejtu ze strony PiS-u i Dudy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo LGBTQ+ nale\u017c\u0105 te\u017c inne mniejszo\u015bci, nazywanie nas \u201c\u015brodowiskami gejowskimi\u201d brzmi pogardliwie i wykluczaj\u0105co.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA w kwestii naszej reakcji na hejt \u2013 mo\u017ce wypada\u0142o by spyta\u0107\u2026 \u003Cem\u003Enas\u003C\/em\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOwszem, s\u0105 w\u015br\u00f3d nas tak\u017ce i dzieci, kt\u00f3re jak najbardziej mog\u0105 by\u0107 LGBTQ+,\nale nie traktujcie ca\u0142ej spo\u0142eczno\u015bci \u201cjak dzieci\u201d. Zauwa\u017ccie nasz\u0105 woln\u0105 wol\u0119 i sprawczo\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, cz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry nigdy w \u017cyciu nie do\u015bwiadczy\u0142 dyskryminacji, nie wie, co jest dla nas najlepsze.\nMy wiemy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDlatego cishet\u00f3w m\u00f3wi\u0105cych, \u017ce mam zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego, bo on b\u0119dzie dla t\u0119czowych lepszy,\nzwyczajnie olewam.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo prawa cz\u0142owieka nie s\u0105 kompromisem ani tematem do dyskusji\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cNie mog\u0119 przesta\u0107 bi\u0107 mojego niewolnika, bo to r\u00f3wnia pochy\u0142a, zaraz zacznie \u017c\u0105da\u0107 wolno\u015bci, a potem nawet praw wyborczych\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cNie jestem rasist\u0105, nawet bym czarnym da\u0142 wolno\u015b\u0107, ale wara im od naszych kart wyborczych\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo absurd no.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAle jak ju\u017c kto\u015b powie \u201cnie jestem homofobem, jestem za zwi\u0105zkami, mo\u017ce i nawet ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwami, ale wara im od naszych dzieci\u201d,\nto wszyscy traktuj\u0105 go najzupe\u0142niej powa\u017cnie? Wolne \u017carty!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie jeste\u015bmy gorszymi lud\u017ami. Nie jeste\u015bmy gorszymi rodzicami. Zas\u0142ugujemy na r\u00f3wne prawa.\nZatrzymywanie si\u0119 na p\u00f3\u0142\u015brodkach to homofobia. Praw cz\u0142owieka nie da si\u0119 wspiera\u0107 tak troszeczk\u0119.\nNie ma \u201cr\u00f3\u017cnych stopni r\u00f3wno\u015bci\u201d \u2013 albo jeste\u015bmy r\u00f3wnx, albo nie\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo fani jednoczenia opozycji pod wodz\u0105 PO s\u0105 toksyczni\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESzczerze m\u00f3wi\u0105c, wol\u0119 otwart\u0105 homofobi\u0119 PiS-u czy Konfederacji od wilk\u00f3w w owczej sk\u00f3rze spod sztandaru #SilnychRazem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOtwarta homofobia przynajmniej jest prosta. Nienawi\u015b\u0107, niezrozumienie, to chleb powszedni ka\u017cdej elgiebety.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUdawane sojusznictwo na pokaz jest jak ko\u0144 troja\u0144ski. Jak bro\u0144 psychologiczna. Usypia czujno\u015b\u0107, obni\u017ca standardy,\nsprawia, \u017ce nawet osoby dyskryminowane zaczynaj\u0105 wierzy\u0107, \u017ce zadowolenie si\u0119 och\u0142apami praw cz\u0142owieka to wszystko na co mog\u0105 liczy\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni widzia\u0142em #SilnychRazem atakuj\u0105cych aktywist\u00f3w LGBTQ+ za akcj\u0119\nta\u0144czenia pod Pa\u0142acem Prezydenckim w odpowiedzi na haniebne s\u0142owa Dudy \u2013\nponiewa\u017c \u201czaraz TVP zrobi paski, \u017ce to \u015bwi\u0119tokradztwo w Bo\u017ce Cia\u0142o\u201d.\nA tu\u017c przed t\u0105 akcj\u0105 k\u0142ami\u0105cych, \u017ce \u201cto tylko kibolska ustawka, nie legitne wydarzenie\u201d,\naby nas zastraszy\u0107 i obni\u017cy\u0107 frekwencj\u0119.\nTo nie otwarcie homofobiczni konserwaty\u015bci zacz\u0119li publiczn\u0105 nagonk\u0119 na T\u0119czowe Disco pod Pa\u0142acem.\nTo pseudosojusznicy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1275733925600600064\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E oburzy\u0142 si\u0119 na mnie\u003C\/a\u003E\ncz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry podawa\u0142 si\u0119 za sojusznika, a nie potrafi\u0142 nawet przyzna\u0107 si\u0119 do b\u0142\u0119du,\ngdy u\u017cy\u0142 zwrotu obra\u017caj\u0105cego osoby trans. Przywi\u0105zanie do s\u0142owa jest dla niego wa\u017cniejsze ni\u017c szacunek do os\u00f3b,\nkt\u00f3re niby wspiera.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1271340081350160384\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E musia\u0142um krytykowa\u0107\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=Gaslighting\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gaslighting\u003C\/a\u003E\nze strony ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy twierdz\u0105, \u017ce w Polsce \u017cadnej homofobii nie ma, \u017ce to kraj otwarty i tolerancyjny,\n\u017ce jak oni nie widzieli na w\u0142asne oczy nikogo dostaj\u0105cego po mordzie za t\u0119czow\u0105 przypink\u0119, to homofobia nie istnieje,\na jak zjedli \u015bniadanie, to na \u015bwiecie nie ma g\u0142odu. Wmawiaj\u0105 nam, \u017ce nie mamy do\u015bwiadcze\u0144, kt\u00f3re mamy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMotywem przewodnim wszystkich moich ostatnich interakcji z #SilnymiRazem jest \u003Cem\u003Eszanta\u017c emocjonalny\u003C\/em\u003E.\nJak nie zag\u0142osujesz na PO, to jeste\u015b jak Legierski. To jeste\u015b za Dud\u0105. To jeste\u015b winnx wszystkich problem\u00f3w w tym kraju.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, moi drodzy, tak si\u0119 nie bawimy. To klasyczny victim shaming. Ofiara homofobii mia\u0142aby by\u0107 winna homofobii,\nbo nie zamierza wybiera\u0107 sobie prezydenta spo\u015br\u00f3d homofob\u00f3w?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tak, wiem, g\u0142osuje si\u0119 na kandydata, nie na jego toksycznych fan\u00f3w.\nAle nikt mi nie wm\u00f3wi, \u017ce takie toksyczne postawy bior\u0105 si\u0119 znik\u0105d.\n\u017be tacy ludzie lgn\u0105 do Platformy bez powodu.\n\u017be Platforma takich postaw nie wspiera.\n\u017be mam jakikolwiek obowi\u0105zek znosi\u0107 z\u0142o\u015bliwe u\u015bmieszki #SilnychRazem zadowolonych,\n\u017ce ich zatrwa\u017caj\u0105co nisko zawieszona poprzeczka nie-homofobii wystarczy\u0142a, by geja przymusi\u0107 do g\u0142osu.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EEdit:\u003C\/strong\u003E publikacja tego wpisu \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1276122932700499968\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E obna\u017cy\u0142a\u003C\/a\u003E te\u017c\npodw\u00f3jne standardy zwolennik\u00f3w Trzaskowskiego. Bo ja nie powinnam m\u00f3wi\u0107 g\u0142o\u015bno o swoich pogl\u0105dach i planach wyborczych,\nbo to pogl\u0105dy szkodliwe dla \u015brodowiska LGBTQ+, ale ju\u017c\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/julieen13\/status\/1276120136722808833\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E agresywne komentarze\u003C\/a\u003E w kierunku zwolennik\u00f3w Biedronia\nto oj tam oj tam, oceniajmy kandydata, a nie zwolennik\u00f3w, czy parti\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJak gej na blogu uzasadni publicznie sw\u00f3j wyb\u00f3r, to \u017ale, ale jak w geja rzuc\u0105 kurwami, to dobrze, no nie? \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo Platforma nie zrobi nam ani troch\u0119 lepiej, a PiS nie zrobi wiele gorzej\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStrasz\u0105 mnie, co b\u0119dzie jak Duda wygra. Mimo \u017ce, ech, g\u0142upia sprawa, on ju\u017c kiedy\u015b wygra\u0142.\nPrzecie\u017c prezydentury nie znalaz\u0142 w chipsach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPiS rz\u0105dzi od lat, Duda siedzi w pa\u0142acu od lat.\nNie wyprowadzili nas z Unii, nie zacz\u0119li wsadza\u0107 do wi\u0119zie\u0144 za homoseksualno\u015b\u0107.\nOwszem, jest gorzej ni\u017c by\u0142o kiedy\u015b, ale ich akcje pokazuj\u0105,\n\u017ce tak naprawd\u0119 maj\u0105 w dupie prze\u015bladowanie mniejszo\u015bci.\nPostrasz\u0105 nami, gdy b\u0119d\u0105 potrzebowa\u0107 tematu zast\u0119pczego,\nnazw\u0105 \u201cideologi\u0105\u201d, gdy trzeba b\u0119dzie nas odcz\u0142owieczy\u0107,\nale szkoda im b\u0119dzie czasu i unijnych pieni\u0119dzy na jakiekolwiek drastyczniejsze kroki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak, wiem, wygodnie mi si\u0119 to m\u00f3wi z perspektywy emigranta\u2026\nAle nie chodzi mi tu o \u201cuciek\u0142em z kraju i ju\u017c si\u0119 ich nie boj\u0119\u201d, tylko o ch\u0142odn\u0105 analiz\u0119 sceny politycznej:\nto nie jest tak, \u017ce PiS potrzebuje \u003Cem\u003Ewi\u0119cej czasu\u003C\/em\u003E na zrobienie elgiebetom piek\u0142a na ziemi.\nMieli ju\u017c do\u015b\u0107 czasu, gdyby chcieli zrobi\u0107 du\u017co gorzej, to ju\u017c by dawno zrobili.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast pokazywanie PO jako odtrutki na PiS-owsk\u0105 homofobi\u0119 nie przekonuje mnie ani troch\u0119.\nMieli swoje osiem lat. Sejm, senat, prezydenta. Obiecywali zwi\u0105zki partnerskie \u2013 i za ka\u017cdym razem g\u0142osowali przeciw nim.\nAnna Grodzka z\u0142o\u017cy\u0142a projekt ustawy o uzgodnieniu p\u0142ci \u2013 w\u0142o\u017cyli go do sejmowej zamra\u017calki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo my\u015blenie, \u017ce trzeba zdobywa\u0107 prawa cz\u0142owieka po troszeczku i nie wkurza\u0107 za bardzo homofob\u00f3w, jest tak bardzo polskie...\ndopiero lata mieszkania na zachodzie nauczy\u0142y mnie, jak absurdalne jest takie podej\u015bcie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie jeste\u015bmy gorsi, wi\u0119c nie mo\u017cemy by\u0107 traktowani gorzej. Kropka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW argument, \u017ce \u201cprawa cz\u0142owieka trzeba zdobywa\u0107 stopniowo, najpierw zwi\u0105zki, potem ewentualnie reszta, viva realpolitik!\u201d\nmo\u017ce i bym uwierzy\u0142u, gdybym nie s\u0142ysza\u0142u go nieustannie odk\u0105d pierwszy raz w\u0142\u0105czy\u0142um telewizor za dzieciaka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemcy wprowadza\u0142y r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144sk\u0105 na moich oczach, a kilkadziesi\u0105t kilometr\u00f3w na wsch\u00f3d od kilkudziesi\u0119ciu lat\nniemo\u017cliwym jest zagwarantowanie cho\u0107by najbardziej elementarnych praw, cho\u0107by namiastki r\u00f3wno\u015bci?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli kto\u015b ma mnie przekonywa\u0107, \u017ce trzeba krok po kroku, to na pewno nie partia, kt\u00f3ra mia\u0142a osiem lat na robienie ich,\na nie zdecydowa\u0142a si\u0119 nawet na pierwszy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI je\u015bli kto\u015b ma dosta\u0107 m\u00f3j g\u0142os w wyborach prezydenckich, to nie cz\u0142owiek reprezentuj\u0105cy tak\u0105 parti\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo jest libera\u0142em\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak mi si\u0119 przynajmniej wydaje \u2013 nie zaprezentowa\u0142 przecie\u017c programu wyborczego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWymaganie od socjalisty\/ki, by g\u0142osowa\u0142x na libera\u0142a?\nTak jakby pogl\u0105dy kandydata i wyborc\u00f3w nie mia\u0142y najmniejszego znaczenia?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie zgadzamy si\u0119 pogl\u0105dami.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa, kt\u00f3re troszczy si\u0119 o najubo\u017cszych i opodatkowuje najbogatszych\n\u2013 Platforma skupia si\u0119 na polityce ciep\u0142ej wody w kranie.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa \u015bwieckiego\n\u2013 Platforma siedzi w kieszeni Ko\u015bcio\u0142a niemal tak samo g\u0142\u0119boko co PiS.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa gwarantuj\u0105cego prawo do bezpiecznej aborcji, eutanazji, troszcz\u0105cego si\u0119 o \u015brodowisko, klimat...\n\u2013 Platforma stoi w centroprawicowym rozkroku.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJestem lewaczk\u0105. Nie g\u0142osuj\u0119 na ludzi z przeciwnej strony sceny politycznej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPodsumowuj\u0105c\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, nie zag\u0142osuj\u0119 na Trzaskowskiego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAni w pierwszej, ani w drugiej turze.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHomofob bez programu wyborczego mo\u017ce mnie w dzyndzelek po\u0142echta\u0107, a nie oczekiwa\u0107 mojego g\u0142osu.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEdit:\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZarzucono mi, \u017ce jako emigrantka mieszkaj\u0105ca z dala od polskiej homofobii\nnie mog\u0119 czepia\u0107 si\u0119 Lisa za queersplainowanie problem\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rych nie do\u015bwiadczamy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMieszka\u0142um w PL przez 22 lata, wci\u0105\u017c mam tam przyjaci\u00f3\u0142, znosi\u0142um wszystkie przejawy polskiej homofobii\u2026\nWi\u0119c nie, nie mo\u017cesz mi zarzuci\u0107, \u017ce nie mam poj\u0119cia o realiach i o dyskryminacji. W przeciwie\u0144stwie do Lisa.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA, no i bardzo ch\u0119tnie g\u0142osowa\u0142ubym tam gdzie mieszkam. Ale nie mog\u0119. Jak b\u0119d\u0119 m\u00f3g\u0142, to zaczn\u0119 \ud83e\udd37\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZarzucono mi, \u017ce jako emigrant mog\u0119 sobie wybrzydza\u0107 i dzia\u0142a\u0107 na szkod\u0119 polskich elgiebet,\nm\u00f3wi\u0105c im, \u017ce maj\u0105 nie g\u0142osowa\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEch\u2026 sorry za ten egocentryzm, ale ten wpis jest \u003Cem\u003Ewy\u0142\u0105cznie o mnie\u003C\/em\u003E.  Nie m\u00f3wi\u0119 nikomu, co ma robi\u0107. #SilniRazem\nmaj\u0105 wi\u0119cej do powiedzenia na temat mojego g\u0142osu ni\u017c ja, dlatego zebra\u0142um w jedno miejsce\nwszystkie uzasadnienia dla nich, dlaczego zdecydowa\u0142um tak, a nie inaczej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast na kogo Ty zag\u0142osujesz, to wy\u0142\u0105cznie Twoja sprawa.\nMnie osobi\u015bcie brzydzi\u0142oby postawienie krzy\u017cyka przy nazwisku homofoba, niezale\u017cnie od alternatyw.\nCiebie nie musi. I nic w tym z\u0142ego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli jeste\u015b cz\u0119\u015bci\u0105 dyskryminowanej mniejszo\u015bci, a po przeczytaniu tego wpisu\nwci\u0105\u017c zag\u0142osujesz na Trzaskowskiego, ale ze \u015bwiadomo\u015bci\u0105, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003Ezas\u0142ugujesz na wi\u0119cej\u003C\/em\u003E, to ja si\u0119 z tego bardzo uciesz\u0119! \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli jeste\u015b nasz\u0105 sojuszniczk\u0105\/naszym sojusznikiem, to \u015bpiesz\u0119 uspokoi\u0107\n\u2013 nie s\u0105dz\u0119, \u017ce samo g\u0142osowanie na kandydata, kt\u00f3ry jest homofobiczny-light czyni Ci\u0119 homofobk\u0105\/em.\nJe\u015bli mimo niezgody z jego homofobi\u0105-light g\u0142osujesz na niego z innych powod\u00f3w, to Twoje \u015bwi\u0119te prawo.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWiadomo, \u017ce mi\u0142o by nam by\u0142o, gdyby nasi sojusznicy wpierali kandydat\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rzy walcz\u0105 o nasze prawa,\nale to oczywiste, \u017ce nie jeste\u015bmy p\u0119pkiem \u015bwiata, \u017ce istniej\u0105 inne problemy w kraju,\ni nie dla ka\u017cdego r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144ska musi by\u0107 priorytetem\n(aczkolwiek nie wiem, jakie to inne sprawy mia\u0142yby kogo\u015b przekona\u0107 do kandydata,\nkt\u00f3ry nie opublikowa\u0142 programu wyborczego ani nie odpowiedzia\u0142 Latarnikowi).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPisa\u0142um ten artyku\u0142, by pokaza\u0107 dlaczego \u003Cem\u003Eja\u003C\/em\u003E nie zamierzam na niego zag\u0142osowa\u0107\n(i czemu wkurzaj\u0105 mnie ludzie, kt\u00f3rzy tego ode mnie oczekuj\u0105),\na nie po to, \u017ceby innym m\u00f3wi\u0107, na kogo maj\u0105 g\u0142osowa\u0107 \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0119 \u201cej, elgiebety, oto jak musicie g\u0142osowa\u0107\u201d. M\u00f3wi\u0119: \u201cej, SilniRazem, przesta\u0144cie mi m\u00f3wi\u0107, jak mam g\u0142osowa\u0107\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["homoseksualno\u015b\u0107","lgbtq","polska","wybory","homofobia","victim shaming","gaslighting","queersplaining","polityka"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022127.89342214821\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b osobie czarnosk\u00f3rej, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na rasist\u0119, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b ofierze gwa\u0142tu, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na gwa\u0142ciciela, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWi\u0119c nie m\u00f3w ofiarom homofobii, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003Emusz\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego,\nbo jak nie to PiS im zrobi z Polski stref\u0119 woln\u0105 od LGBT.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/latarnik-r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Pytanie latarnika wyborczego: \u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d. Wszyscy kandydaci z wyj\u0105tkiem Biedronia si\u0119 z nim zgodzili, podczas gdy Duda i Trzaskowski nie odpowiedzieli wcale.\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022127.89342214821\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/latarnikwyborczy.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Elatarnikwyborczy.pl\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b osobie czarnosk\u00f3rej, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na rasist\u0119, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0142xby\u015b ofierze gwa\u0142tu, by g\u0142osowa\u0142a na gwa\u0142ciciela, bo jak nie, to\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWi\u0119c nie m\u00f3w ofiarom homofobii, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003Emusz\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego,\nbo jak nie to PiS im zrobi z Polski stref\u0119 woln\u0105 od LGBT.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOto dlaczego nie zag\u0142osuj\u0119 na Trzaskowskiego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo Trzaskowski jest homofobem\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWielu ludzi my\u015bli, \u017ce poprzeczka \u201cnie bycia homofobem\u201d jest zawieszona bardzo nisko.\n\u017be jak nie masz odruchu wymiotnego na my\u015bl o dw\u00f3ch facetach w jednym \u0142\u00f3\u017cku,\ni jak nigdy nie da\u0142e\u015b po mordzie \u017cadnemu peda\u0142owi, to mo\u017cesz si\u0119 chwali\u0107 na lewo i prawo swoj\u0105 progresywno\u015bci\u0105 i otwarto\u015bci\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDla mnie poprzeczka bycia sojusznikiem LGBTQ+ jest na poziomie:\n\u201cwszyscy ludzie zas\u0142uguj\u0105 na r\u00f3wne prawa, niezale\u017cnie od p\u0142ci czy orientacji.\ng\u0142osz\u0119 to otwarcie i wyra\u017anie, s\u0142ucham co mniejszo\u015bci maj\u0105 w swojej sprawie do powiedzenia\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli po twoim \u201cjestem tolerancyjnx\u201d nast\u0119puje jakie\u015b \u201cale\u201d, to nie jeste\u015b tolerancyjnx \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/siedlecka.blog.polityka.pl\/2020\/05\/06\/trzaskowski-lgbt-minus\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E deklaracji zawartych w karcie LGBT nie spe\u0142nia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d jako prezydent Warszawy\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/siedlecka.blog.polityka.pl\/2020\/05\/06\/trzaskowski-lgbt-minus\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E otwarcie stan\u0105\u0142 na drodze polskiego obywatela, dziecka dw\u00f3ch kobiet, do uzyskania PESELu\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d \u015bwiadomie i dobrowolnie jest cz\u0142onkiem i reprezentantem partii,\nkt\u00f3ra wielokrotnie obiecawszy osobom w zwi\u0105zkach jednop\u0142ciowych mo\u017cliwo\u015b\u0107 zalegalizowania tych\u017ce zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w,\nb\u0119d\u0105c u w\u0142adzy przez osiem lat, nie zrobi\u0142a w tym kierunku nic. A ustaw\u0119 o uzgodnieniu p\u0142ci przez dwa lata trzyma\u0142a w zamra\u017carce.\nDok\u0142adniejsza lista \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/everyday_loser\/status\/1282709162665947136\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E jest dost\u0119pna tutaj\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d \u015bwiadomie i dobrowolnie jest cz\u0142onkiem i reprezentantem partii,\nkt\u00f3ra nie widzi problemu w tym, \u017ce jej cz\u0142onkowie jako prezydenci miast usi\u0142owali zablokowa\u0107 Marsze R\u00f3wno\u015bci,\npokojowe demonstracje gwarantowane prawem do zgromadze\u0144.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d swojemu zast\u0119pcy, gejowi,\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/warszawa.wyborcza.pl\/warszawa\/7,54420,24551440,nawet-trzaskowski-upomina-rabieja-ze-zagalopowal-sie-ze-slowami.html\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E zakaza\u0142 wypowiadania si\u0119 w kwestii walki o r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144sk\u0105.\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1274759321453244416\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E pytany o polsk\u0105 homofobi\u0119 opowiada o ameryka\u0144skiej broni nuklearnej\u003C\/a\u003E \ud83e\udd26\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERafa\u0142 Trzaskowski \u201cjest tolerancyjny, ale\u201d podczas kampanii szczucia na osoby LGBTQ+ i odcz\u0142owieczania ich,\nuzna\u0142, \u017ce swoj\u0105 kampani\u0119 wyborcz\u0105 oprze o \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/OskWars\/status\/1275438275247800320\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E pokazywanie Polakom\u003C\/a\u003E\nwr\u0119cz w ilo\u015bciach hurtowych, jaki to on nie jest hetero, z \u201cnormalnej\u201d rodziny.\nJe\u015bli kto\u015b si\u0119 kiedy\u015b \u201cobnosi\u0142\u201d ze swoj\u0105 orientacj\u0105, to Trzaskowski w tej kampanii.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo to nie tylko LGBTQ+\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo nie jest tak, \u017ce stosunek kandydata do LGBTQ+ dotyczy wy\u0142\u0105cznie LGBTQ+.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStosunek do r\u00f3wno\u015bci ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skiej, praw antydyskryminacyjnych, uzgodnienia p\u0142ci, itp.\njest papierkiem lakmusowym tego, czy kandydat b\u0119dzie prezydentem wszystkich Polak\u00f3w.\nCzy b\u0119dzie dzieli\u0142 ich na lepszych i gorszych. Na wa\u017cniejszych i nieistotnych.\nCzy ma prawa cz\u0142owieka w sercu, czy w dupie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/latarnikwyborczy.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Latarnik Wyborczy\u003C\/a\u003E poprosi\u0142 kandydat\u00f3w o ustosunkowanie si\u0119 do stwierdzenia\n\u201cMa\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo powinno by\u0107 zastrze\u017cone dla zwi\u0105zk\u00f3w kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOdpowied\u017a inna ni\u017c \u201cnie zgadzam si\u0119\u201d oznacza \u201czamierzam traktowa\u0107 cz\u0119\u015b\u0107 swoich wsp\u00f3\u0142obywateli jako gorszych, drugiej kategorii\u201d\ni powinna dyskwalifikowa\u0107 kandydata.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJedynie Biedro\u0144 opowiedzia\u0142 si\u0119 za prawami cz\u0142owieka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie szanuje wyborc\u00f3w\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJak Latarnikowi odpowiedzia\u0142 Trzaskowski (i Duda zreszt\u0105 te\u017c?)?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWcale.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo takie powiedzenie wyborcom \u201cchuj ci\u0119 moje pogl\u0105dy obchodz\u0105, g\u0142osuj na mnie i nie marud\u017a\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZagl\u0105dam na \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/trzaskowski2020.pl\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E stron\u0119 kampanii Trzaskowskiego\u003C\/a\u003E w poszukiwaniu programu wyborczego.\nZnajduj\u0119 tylko plakaty.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECzemu mia\u0142ubym zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na kandydata, kt\u00f3ry ukrywa swoje pogl\u0105dy i nie publikuje programu?\nKt\u00f3rego jedynym atutem jest niebycie Dud\u0105?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EEdit:\u003C\/strong\u003E ech\u2026 chyba wywo\u0142a\u0142um wilka z lasu. \ud83d\ude05\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/wiadomosci.radiozet.pl\/Polityka\/Wybory-prezydenckie-2020\/Wybory-2020.-Rafal-Trzaskowski-pokazal-program-wyborczy\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E W czwartek wieczorem\u003C\/a\u003E,\nna trzy dni przed wyborami, sztab Rafa\u0142a Trzaskowskiego opublikowa\u0142 \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/trzaskowski2020.pl\/program\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E program wyborczy\u003C\/a\u003E.\nLepiej p\u00f3\u017ano ni\u017c wcale, no nie? \ud83d\ude44 Program obiecuje zwi\u0105zki partnerskie, wi\u0119c\u2026 hurra, it\u0027s something!\nNamiastka r\u00f3wno\u015bci po raz kolejny obiecana!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie zas\u0142u\u017cy\u0142 na m\u00f3j g\u0142os\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAni w przypadku Trzaskowskiego, ani w przypadku Kidawy-B\u0142o\u0144skiej, nie us\u0142ysza\u0142em ani jednego argumentu,\nkt\u00f3ry zach\u0119ci\u0142by mnie do g\u0142osowania na kandydata PO.\nZamiast \u003Cem\u003Epostara\u0107\u003C\/em\u003E si\u0119 o m\u00f3j g\u0142os \u003Cem\u003Eoczekuj\u0105\u003C\/em\u003E go tylko za to, \u017ce nie s\u0105 PiS-em.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo dla mnie za ma\u0142o.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo wybory maj\u0105 dwie tury\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOkay, da si\u0119 przedstawi\u0107 sensown\u0105 argumentacj\u0119, dlaczego w drugiej turze g\u0142osowanie na \u201cmniejsze z\u0142o\u201d robi sens.\nNie zgodz\u0119 si\u0119 z t\u0105 argumentacj\u0105, ale rozumiem, co mo\u017cna w niej widzie\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast spory problem jest w tym, jak wielu ludzi udaje, jakby pierwsza tura nie istnia\u0142a.\nJakby wyb\u00f3r by\u0142 mi\u0119dzy Dud\u0105 a Trzaskowskim. Nie jest.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWyb\u00f3r jest mi\u0119dzy jedenastoma kandydatami. Cokolwiek nie twierdz\u0105 sonda\u017ce, ten wrz\u00f3d na dupie demokracji,\njeszcze wszystko si\u0119 mo\u017ce zdarzy\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie m\u00f3wi\u0119, \u017ce nie wolno nikogo przekonywa\u0107 argumentem \u201cmniejszego z\u0142a\u201d.\nAle czy mo\u017cemy z tym poczeka\u0107, a\u017c wyb\u00f3r serio b\u0119dzie mi\u0119dzy dwoma kandydatami?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo nie znosz\u0119 \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=queersplaining\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E queersplainingu\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/NewsweekPolska\/status\/1274358417373700098\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Ostatnio\u003C\/a\u003E\ndwaj uprzywilejowani, biali, heteroseksualni cis m\u0119\u017cczy\u017ani debatowali w telewizji nad tym,\nco \u201c\u015brodowiska gejowskie\u201d powinny zrobi\u0107, by sprzeciwi\u0107 si\u0119 fali hejtu ze strony PiS-u i Dudy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDo LGBTQ+ nale\u017c\u0105 te\u017c inne mniejszo\u015bci, nazywanie nas \u201c\u015brodowiskami gejowskimi\u201d brzmi pogardliwie i wykluczaj\u0105co.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA w kwestii naszej reakcji na hejt \u2013 mo\u017ce wypada\u0142o by spyta\u0107\u2026 \u003Cem\u003Enas\u003C\/em\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOwszem, s\u0105 w\u015br\u00f3d nas tak\u017ce i dzieci, kt\u00f3re jak najbardziej mog\u0105 by\u0107 LGBTQ+,\nale nie traktujcie ca\u0142ej spo\u0142eczno\u015bci \u201cjak dzieci\u201d. Zauwa\u017ccie nasz\u0105 woln\u0105 wol\u0119 i sprawczo\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, cz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry nigdy w \u017cyciu nie do\u015bwiadczy\u0142 dyskryminacji, nie wie, co jest dla nas najlepsze.\nMy wiemy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDlatego cishet\u00f3w m\u00f3wi\u0105cych, \u017ce mam zag\u0142osowa\u0107 na Trzaskowskiego, bo on b\u0119dzie dla t\u0119czowych lepszy,\nzwyczajnie olewam.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo prawa cz\u0142owieka nie s\u0105 kompromisem ani tematem do dyskusji\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cNie mog\u0119 przesta\u0107 bi\u0107 mojego niewolnika, bo to r\u00f3wnia pochy\u0142a, zaraz zacznie \u017c\u0105da\u0107 wolno\u015bci, a potem nawet praw wyborczych\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cNie jestem rasist\u0105, nawet bym czarnym da\u0142 wolno\u015b\u0107, ale wara im od naszych kart wyborczych\u201d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo absurd no.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAle jak ju\u017c kto\u015b powie \u201cnie jestem homofobem, jestem za zwi\u0105zkami, mo\u017ce i nawet ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwami, ale wara im od naszych dzieci\u201d,\nto wszyscy traktuj\u0105 go najzupe\u0142niej powa\u017cnie? Wolne \u017carty!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie jeste\u015bmy gorszymi lud\u017ami. Nie jeste\u015bmy gorszymi rodzicami. Zas\u0142ugujemy na r\u00f3wne prawa.\nZatrzymywanie si\u0119 na p\u00f3\u0142\u015brodkach to homofobia. Praw cz\u0142owieka nie da si\u0119 wspiera\u0107 tak troszeczk\u0119.\nNie ma \u201cr\u00f3\u017cnych stopni r\u00f3wno\u015bci\u201d \u2013 albo jeste\u015bmy r\u00f3wnx, albo nie\u2026\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo fani jednoczenia opozycji pod wodz\u0105 PO s\u0105 toksyczni\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESzczerze m\u00f3wi\u0105c, wol\u0119 otwart\u0105 homofobi\u0119 PiS-u czy Konfederacji od wilk\u00f3w w owczej sk\u00f3rze spod sztandaru #SilnychRazem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOtwarta homofobia przynajmniej jest prosta. Nienawi\u015b\u0107, niezrozumienie, to chleb powszedni ka\u017cdej elgiebety.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUdawane sojusznictwo na pokaz jest jak ko\u0144 troja\u0144ski. Jak bro\u0144 psychologiczna. Usypia czujno\u015b\u0107, obni\u017ca standardy,\nsprawia, \u017ce nawet osoby dyskryminowane zaczynaj\u0105 wierzy\u0107, \u017ce zadowolenie si\u0119 och\u0142apami praw cz\u0142owieka to wszystko na co mog\u0105 liczy\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni widzia\u0142em #SilnychRazem atakuj\u0105cych aktywist\u00f3w LGBTQ+ za akcj\u0119\nta\u0144czenia pod Pa\u0142acem Prezydenckim w odpowiedzi na haniebne s\u0142owa Dudy \u2013\nponiewa\u017c \u201czaraz TVP zrobi paski, \u017ce to \u015bwi\u0119tokradztwo w Bo\u017ce Cia\u0142o\u201d.\nA tu\u017c przed t\u0105 akcj\u0105 k\u0142ami\u0105cych, \u017ce \u201cto tylko kibolska ustawka, nie legitne wydarzenie\u201d,\naby nas zastraszy\u0107 i obni\u017cy\u0107 frekwencj\u0119.\nTo nie otwarcie homofobiczni konserwaty\u015bci zacz\u0119li publiczn\u0105 nagonk\u0119 na T\u0119czowe Disco pod Pa\u0142acem.\nTo pseudosojusznicy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1275733925600600064\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E oburzy\u0142 si\u0119 na mnie\u003C\/a\u003E\ncz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry podawa\u0142 si\u0119 za sojusznika, a nie potrafi\u0142 nawet przyzna\u0107 si\u0119 do b\u0142\u0119du,\ngdy u\u017cy\u0142 zwrotu obra\u017caj\u0105cego osoby trans. Przywi\u0105zanie do s\u0142owa jest dla niego wa\u017cniejsze ni\u017c szacunek do os\u00f3b,\nkt\u00f3re niby wspiera.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW ci\u0105gu ostatnich tygodni \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1271340081350160384\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E musia\u0142um krytykowa\u0107\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.urbandictionary.com\/define.php?term=Gaslighting\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E gaslighting\u003C\/a\u003E\nze strony ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy twierdz\u0105, \u017ce w Polsce \u017cadnej homofobii nie ma, \u017ce to kraj otwarty i tolerancyjny,\n\u017ce jak oni nie widzieli na w\u0142asne oczy nikogo dostaj\u0105cego po mordzie za t\u0119czow\u0105 przypink\u0119, to homofobia nie istnieje,\na jak zjedli \u015bniadanie, to na \u015bwiecie nie ma g\u0142odu. Wmawiaj\u0105 nam, \u017ce nie mamy do\u015bwiadcze\u0144, kt\u00f3re mamy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMotywem przewodnim wszystkich moich ostatnich interakcji z #SilnymiRazem jest \u003Cem\u003Eszanta\u017c emocjonalny\u003C\/em\u003E.\nJak nie zag\u0142osujesz na PO, to jeste\u015b jak Legierski. To jeste\u015b za Dud\u0105. To jeste\u015b winnx wszystkich problem\u00f3w w tym kraju.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, moi drodzy, tak si\u0119 nie bawimy. To klasyczny victim shaming. Ofiara homofobii mia\u0142aby by\u0107 winna homofobii,\nbo nie zamierza wybiera\u0107 sobie prezydenta spo\u015br\u00f3d homofob\u00f3w?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tak, wiem, g\u0142osuje si\u0119 na kandydata, nie na jego toksycznych fan\u00f3w.\nAle nikt mi nie wm\u00f3wi, \u017ce takie toksyczne postawy bior\u0105 si\u0119 znik\u0105d.\n\u017be tacy ludzie lgn\u0105 do Platformy bez powodu.\n\u017be Platforma takich postaw nie wspiera.\n\u017be mam jakikolwiek obowi\u0105zek znosi\u0107 z\u0142o\u015bliwe u\u015bmieszki #SilnychRazem zadowolonych,\n\u017ce ich zatrwa\u017caj\u0105co nisko zawieszona poprzeczka nie-homofobii wystarczy\u0142a, by geja przymusi\u0107 do g\u0142osu.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EEdit:\u003C\/strong\u003E publikacja tego wpisu \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/AvrisIT\/status\/1276122932700499968\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E obna\u017cy\u0142a\u003C\/a\u003E te\u017c\npodw\u00f3jne standardy zwolennik\u00f3w Trzaskowskiego. Bo ja nie powinnam m\u00f3wi\u0107 g\u0142o\u015bno o swoich pogl\u0105dach i planach wyborczych,\nbo to pogl\u0105dy szkodliwe dla \u015brodowiska LGBTQ+, ale ju\u017c\n\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/julieen13\/status\/1276120136722808833\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E agresywne komentarze\u003C\/a\u003E w kierunku zwolennik\u00f3w Biedronia\nto oj tam oj tam, oceniajmy kandydata, a nie zwolennik\u00f3w, czy parti\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJak gej na blogu uzasadni publicznie sw\u00f3j wyb\u00f3r, to \u017ale, ale jak w geja rzuc\u0105 kurwami, to dobrze, no nie? \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo Platforma nie zrobi nam ani troch\u0119 lepiej, a PiS nie zrobi wiele gorzej\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EStrasz\u0105 mnie, co b\u0119dzie jak Duda wygra. Mimo \u017ce, ech, g\u0142upia sprawa, on ju\u017c kiedy\u015b wygra\u0142.\nPrzecie\u017c prezydentury nie znalaz\u0142 w chipsach.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPiS rz\u0105dzi od lat, Duda siedzi w pa\u0142acu od lat.\nNie wyprowadzili nas z Unii, nie zacz\u0119li wsadza\u0107 do wi\u0119zie\u0144 za homoseksualno\u015b\u0107.\nOwszem, jest gorzej ni\u017c by\u0142o kiedy\u015b, ale ich akcje pokazuj\u0105,\n\u017ce tak naprawd\u0119 maj\u0105 w dupie prze\u015bladowanie mniejszo\u015bci.\nPostrasz\u0105 nami, gdy b\u0119d\u0105 potrzebowa\u0107 tematu zast\u0119pczego,\nnazw\u0105 \u201cideologi\u0105\u201d, gdy trzeba b\u0119dzie nas odcz\u0142owieczy\u0107,\nale szkoda im b\u0119dzie czasu i unijnych pieni\u0119dzy na jakiekolwiek drastyczniejsze kroki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak, wiem, wygodnie mi si\u0119 to m\u00f3wi z perspektywy emigranta\u2026\nAle nie chodzi mi tu o \u201cuciek\u0142em z kraju i ju\u017c si\u0119 ich nie boj\u0119\u201d, tylko o ch\u0142odn\u0105 analiz\u0119 sceny politycznej:\nto nie jest tak, \u017ce PiS potrzebuje \u003Cem\u003Ewi\u0119cej czasu\u003C\/em\u003E na zrobienie elgiebetom piek\u0142a na ziemi.\nMieli ju\u017c do\u015b\u0107 czasu, gdyby chcieli zrobi\u0107 du\u017co gorzej, to ju\u017c by dawno zrobili.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast pokazywanie PO jako odtrutki na PiS-owsk\u0105 homofobi\u0119 nie przekonuje mnie ani troch\u0119.\nMieli swoje osiem lat. Sejm, senat, prezydenta. Obiecywali zwi\u0105zki partnerskie \u2013 i za ka\u017cdym razem g\u0142osowali przeciw nim.\nAnna Grodzka z\u0142o\u017cy\u0142a projekt ustawy o uzgodnieniu p\u0142ci \u2013 w\u0142o\u017cyli go do sejmowej zamra\u017calki.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo my\u015blenie, \u017ce trzeba zdobywa\u0107 prawa cz\u0142owieka po troszeczku i nie wkurza\u0107 za bardzo homofob\u00f3w, jest tak bardzo polskie...\ndopiero lata mieszkania na zachodzie nauczy\u0142y mnie, jak absurdalne jest takie podej\u015bcie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie jeste\u015bmy gorsi, wi\u0119c nie mo\u017cemy by\u0107 traktowani gorzej. Kropka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW argument, \u017ce \u201cprawa cz\u0142owieka trzeba zdobywa\u0107 stopniowo, najpierw zwi\u0105zki, potem ewentualnie reszta, viva realpolitik!\u201d\nmo\u017ce i bym uwierzy\u0142u, gdybym nie s\u0142ysza\u0142u go nieustannie odk\u0105d pierwszy raz w\u0142\u0105czy\u0142um telewizor za dzieciaka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENiemcy wprowadza\u0142y r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144sk\u0105 na moich oczach, a kilkadziesi\u0105t kilometr\u00f3w na wsch\u00f3d od kilkudziesi\u0119ciu lat\nniemo\u017cliwym jest zagwarantowanie cho\u0107by najbardziej elementarnych praw, cho\u0107by namiastki r\u00f3wno\u015bci?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u015bli kto\u015b ma mnie przekonywa\u0107, \u017ce trzeba krok po kroku, to na pewno nie partia, kt\u00f3ra mia\u0142a osiem lat na robienie ich,\na nie zdecydowa\u0142a si\u0119 nawet na pierwszy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI je\u015bli kto\u015b ma dosta\u0107 m\u00f3j g\u0142os w wyborach prezydenckich, to nie cz\u0142owiek reprezentuj\u0105cy tak\u0105 parti\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EBo jest libera\u0142em\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak mi si\u0119 przynajmniej wydaje \u2013 nie zaprezentowa\u0142 przecie\u017c programu wyborczego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWymaganie od socjalisty\/ki, by g\u0142osowa\u0142x na libera\u0142a?\nTak jakby pogl\u0105dy kandydata i wyborc\u00f3w nie mia\u0142y najmniejszego znaczenia?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie zgadzamy si\u0119 pogl\u0105dami.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa, kt\u00f3re troszczy si\u0119 o najubo\u017cszych i opodatkowuje najbogatszych\n\u2013 Platforma skupia si\u0119 na polityce ciep\u0142ej wody w kranie.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa \u015bwieckiego\n\u2013 Platforma siedzi w kieszeni Ko\u015bcio\u0142a niemal tak samo g\u0142\u0119boko co PiS.\nJa chc\u0119 pa\u0144stwa gwarantuj\u0105cego prawo do bezpiecznej aborcji, eutanazji, troszcz\u0105cego si\u0119 o \u015brodowisko, klimat...\n\u2013 Platforma stoi w centroprawicowym rozkroku.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJestem lewaczk\u0105. Nie g\u0142osuj\u0119 na ludzi z przeciwnej strony sceny politycznej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPodsumowuj\u0105c\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, nie zag\u0142osuj\u0119 na Trzaskowskiego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAni w pierwszej, ani w drugiej turze.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHomofob bez programu wyborczego mo\u017ce mnie w dzyndzelek po\u0142echta\u0107, a nie oczekiwa\u0107 mojego g\u0142osu.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEdit:\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZarzucono mi, \u017ce jako emigrantka mieszkaj\u0105ca z dala od polskiej homofobii\nnie mog\u0119 czepia\u0107 si\u0119 Lisa za queersplainowanie problem\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rych nie do\u015bwiadczamy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMieszka\u0142um w PL przez 22 lata, wci\u0105\u017c mam tam przyjaci\u00f3\u0142, znosi\u0142um wszystkie przejawy polskiej homofobii\u2026\nWi\u0119c nie, nie mo\u017cesz mi zarzuci\u0107, \u017ce nie mam poj\u0119cia o realiach i o dyskryminacji. W przeciwie\u0144stwie do Lisa.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA, no i bardzo ch\u0119tnie g\u0142osowa\u0142ubym tam gdzie mieszkam. Ale nie mog\u0119. Jak b\u0119d\u0119 m\u00f3g\u0142, to zaczn\u0119 \ud83e\udd37\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZarzucono mi, \u017ce jako emigrant mog\u0119 sobie wybrzydza\u0107 i dzia\u0142a\u0107 na szkod\u0119 polskich elgiebet,\nm\u00f3wi\u0105c im, \u017ce maj\u0105 nie g\u0142osowa\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEch\u2026 sorry za ten egocentryzm, ale ten wpis jest \u003Cem\u003Ewy\u0142\u0105cznie o mnie\u003C\/em\u003E.  Nie m\u00f3wi\u0119 nikomu, co ma robi\u0107. #SilniRazem\nmaj\u0105 wi\u0119cej do powiedzenia na temat mojego g\u0142osu ni\u017c ja, dlatego zebra\u0142um w jedno miejsce\nwszystkie uzasadnienia dla nich, dlaczego zdecydowa\u0142um tak, a nie inaczej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENatomiast na kogo Ty zag\u0142osujesz, to wy\u0142\u0105cznie Twoja sprawa.\nMnie osobi\u015bcie brzydzi\u0142oby postawienie krzy\u017cyka przy nazwisku homofoba, niezale\u017cnie od alternatyw.\nCiebie nie musi. 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M\u00f3wi\u0119: \u201cej, SilniRazem, przesta\u0144cie mi m\u00f3wi\u0107, jak mam g\u0142osowa\u0107\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":2598,"readTime":11,"lang":"pl"}}},"blog\/society\/ally-is-not-a-sexuality":{"key":"blog\/society\/ally-is-not-a-sexuality","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-06-14T01:38:21+02:00","publishedAt":"2020-06-14T01:38:21+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"ally-is-not-a-sexuality"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"ally-is-not-a-sexuality","title":"\u201cAlly\u201d is not a sexuality","intro":"\u003Cp\u003E\u201cA\u201d in LGBTQIA+ stands for asexual, aromantic \u0026amp; agender \u2013 not for \u201cally\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeing an ally is not a gender \/ sexual \/ romantic minority.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeing an ally is just basic human decency.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: 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to culture and from time to time.\n\u201cAsian woman\u201d, \u201cWestern woman\u201d, \u201cMedieval European woman\u201d, etc. etc.\nare all made to follow different set of rules.\nPink used to be a colour associated with boys not girls (because of being close to bloody red).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/gender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Dictionaries define gender\u003C\/a\u003E\nas \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\nBut I would go one step further: it\u0027s not just the \u201ctraits\u201d that are \u201cassociated\u201d.\nIt\u0027s rules that are enforced.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBe it by getting physically beaten up for \u201clooking like a faggot\u201d,\nbe it by 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Let us be ourselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver since I put the \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/nonbinary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E label on my gender,\never since I started \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender_bender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gender bending\u003C\/a\u003E,\never since I started experimenting with my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/pansexuality\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E pansexuality\u003C\/a\u003E,\nI started realising how \u003Cem\u003Emade up\u003C\/em\u003E gender is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe don\u0027t choose our partners based solely on the mere existence of a penis or a vagina, right?\nWe like them for their character, skills, sense of humour,\nwe\u0027re physically attracted to their body type, body hair, muscles, face, hair, makeup, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur appearance and behaviour, our romantic and sexual attraction\n\u2013 are way more complex than just those simple binary categories: man and woman, gay, straight and bi...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, it\u0027s a decent approximation, and I still use them to describe myself and other people.\nAnd I\u0027m not trying to invalidate anyone\u0027s identity.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just wanted to share how much liberty it gave me when I started to just\n\u003Cem\u003Ecare about those labels less\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not enforcing gender rules on anyone. I\u0027m not trying to follow them myself.\nIn my mind \u2013 gender is over \ud83d\udcaa\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["gender","nonbinary","agender","genderfuck","gender bender","pansexual","pansexuality","lgbtq"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor me, gender is over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot in a sad, \u201cGame Over\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn a happy, \u201cMission accomplished\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lady-in-red_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022320\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor me, gender is over.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENot in a sad, \u201cGame Over\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIn a happy, \u201cMission accomplished\u201d way.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause for me gender is just a set of rules and regulations,\nbased on someone\u0027s perception of what kind of genitals you might have.\nIf people think that you have this or that in your pants,\nthey\u0027ll also expect you to get a specific type of job,\nwear a specific amount of makup, have specific amount of body hair in specific places,\nwear specific clothes, behave in a specfic manner, play with specific toys...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe know it\u0027s all made up rules,\nfor instance because it differs from culture to culture and from time to time.\n\u201cAsian woman\u201d, \u201cWestern woman\u201d, \u201cMedieval European woman\u201d, etc. etc.\nare all made to follow different set of rules.\nPink used to be a colour associated with boys not girls (because of being close to bloody red).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/gender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Dictionaries define gender\u003C\/a\u003E\nas \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\nBut I would go one step further: it\u0027s not just the \u201ctraits\u201d that are \u201cassociated\u201d.\nIt\u0027s rules that are enforced.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBe it by getting physically beaten up for \u201clooking like a faggot\u201d,\nbe it by being publicly riddiculed for \u201cbeing too butch\u201d,\nor be it by simply being quietly frowned upon \u2013\nthe society has its ways to make people look and behave the way their designated box says they should.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd yes, I know, there\u0027s plenty of people being very comfortable in their box.\nAnd there\u0027s many who know they\u0027ll be happy and fitting once they transition to the other box.\nBut wouldn\u0027t it be simpler if we just \u003Cem\u003Egot rid of the boxes\u003C\/em\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJust let people be people. Let us be ourselves.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver since I put the \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/nonbinary\u0022\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E label on my gender,\never since I started \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender_bender\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E gender bending\u003C\/a\u003E,\never since I started experimenting with my \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/pansexuality\u0022\u003E pansexuality\u003C\/a\u003E,\nI started realising how \u003Cem\u003Emade up\u003C\/em\u003E gender is.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWe don\u0027t choose our partners based solely on the mere existence of a penis or a vagina, right?\nWe like them for their character, skills, sense of humour,\nwe\u0027re physically attracted to their body type, body hair, muscles, face, hair, makeup, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur appearance and behaviour, our romantic and sexual attraction\n\u2013 are way more complex than just those simple binary categories: man and woman, gay, straight and bi...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, it\u0027s a decent approximation, and I still use them to describe myself and other people.\nAnd I\u0027m not trying to invalidate anyone\u0027s identity.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI just wanted to share how much liberty it gave me when I started to just\n\u003Cem\u003Ecare about those labels less\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u0027m not enforcing gender rules on anyone. I\u0027m not trying to follow them myself.\nIn my mind \u2013 gender is over \ud83d\udcaa\u003C\/p\u003E","words":453,"readTime":2,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/mythology\/why-do-queers-care-about-churches":{"key":"blog\/mythology\/why-do-queers-care-about-churches","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2020-01-23T20:38:49+01:00","publishedAt":"2020-01-23T20:38:49+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"mythology","slug":"why-do-queers-care-about-churches"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"why-do-queers-care-about-churches","title":"Why do queers care about churches?","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. Find a church whose doctrine lines up with your beliefs?\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022316\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. Find a church whose doctrine lines up with your beliefs?\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022316\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnder \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2020\/jan\/23\/sex-married-heterosexual-couples-church-of-england-christians\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E a news\u003C\/a\u003E\nthat yet another church keeps being an asshole towards queer people\nsome guy is asking why don\u0027t they just ignore it and find a better church.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh the privilege...\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. Find a church whose doctrine lines up with your beliefs?\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022395\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. Find a church whose doctrine lines up with your beliefs?\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022395\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/emile_wickham\/status\/1220353559050539009\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/emile_wickham\/status\/1220353559050539009\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnder \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2020\/jan\/23\/sex-married-heterosexual-couples-church-of-england-christians\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E a news\u003C\/a\u003E\nthat yet another church keeps being an asshole towards queer people\nsome guy is asking why don\u0027t they just ignore it and find a better church.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh the privilege...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf the churches indoctrinate you since childhood\n\u0026amp; threaten you with eternal damnation for defying their doctrine\n\u2013 membership is far from voluntary.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd as long as the churches have a huge influence over how our families and the society treat us\n\u2013 not caring about them is a luxury we simply can\u0027t afford.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy family\u0027s homophobia towards me is motivated purely religiously.\nAnd my apostasy from the Catholic Church didn\u0027t make them hate me less, quite the opposite.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAsking queers to \u003Cem\u003Ejust find a better church\u003C\/em\u003E is like asking black people\nwhy don\u0027t they just \u003Cem\u003Eignore\u003C\/em\u003E the existence of the KKK. \ud83d\ude44\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["religion","church","privilege","queer","lgbtq","marriage","sex","homosexuality"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. Find a church whose doctrine lines up with your beliefs?\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022158\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUnder \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/world\/2020\/jan\/23\/sex-married-heterosexual-couples-church-of-england-christians\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E a news\u003C\/a\u003E\nthat yet another church keeps being an asshole towards queer people\nsome guy is asking why don\u0027t they just ignore it and find a better church.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOh the privilege...\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/tweet-emile-wickham-church_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@emile_wickham on Twitter: I\u2019ve never understood the LBGTQs community insistence on fighting for acceptance from religious entities. Church participation for the most part is voluntary. 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the churches indoctrinate you since childhood\n\u0026amp; threaten you with eternal damnation for defying their doctrine\n\u2013 membership is far from voluntary.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd as long as the churches have a huge influence over how our families and the society treat us\n\u2013 not caring about them is a luxury we simply can\u0027t afford.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy family\u0027s homophobia towards me is motivated purely religiously.\nAnd my apostasy from the Catholic Church didn\u0027t make them hate me less, quite the opposite.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAsking queers to \u003Cem\u003Ejust find a better church\u003C\/em\u003E is like asking black people\nwhy don\u0027t they just \u003Cem\u003Eignore\u003C\/em\u003E the existence of the KKK. 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It\u0027s about maths.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome guy online told me that queers don\u0027t deserve rights (or at least the attention of lawmakers),\nbecause they make up only 0.03% of the population. Which is ridiculous.\nBoth the argumentation, and the number itself. Human rights are inherent and inviolable,\nhuman dignity doesn\u0027t depend on numbers of specific minoritiesed groups.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut it shows how important it is to properly estimate how many queer people are there in society.\nUsually, homophobes are trying to prove it\u0027s as low as 0.5% to make homosexuality sound like an aberration,\nsome totally marginal oddity that can be ignored, laughed at or hated.\nMeanwhile, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.out.com\/news-opinion\/2016\/3\/11\/less-50-teens-identify-straight-says-new-study\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E some studies go as high as 52%\u003C\/a\u003E!\nThat\u0027s a number that should make every homophobic politician worry about their reelection\nunless they change their hateful policies. Where are such huge discrepancies coming from?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis study treated sexual orientation as a spectrum, and not just gay\/bi\/straight.\n52% is the number of people who say they aren\u0027t 100% straight.\nAlso, it\u0027s among teenagers in the US, which shows that younger people\nin countries where the taboo on homosexuality is lower are more open\nto embrace their queer side and to admit it in a questionnaire.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut let\u0027s come back to that ridiculous figure of 0.03%.\nIf it were true, that would mean there\u0027s only 12 000 queers in Poland\n\u2013 while last year\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/paradarownosci\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Equality Parade\u003C\/a\u003E\ngathered around 50 000 people attending in Warsaw alone.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat would also make my hometown of Szczecin, population 400k,\na home to just 120 gays, bisexuals, lesbians and trans people.\nAssuming half of them are female and like a third is a proper age\n\u2014 my dating pool would have been just 30 people.\nI probably slept with more than that before I\u0027d moved out of the city.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELooking at my high school class, there were 4 people (out of 28) that I know to be LGBTQ\n(and probably some more that I don\u0027t know about), making it around 14%.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut neither of those methods of trying to estimate this number from my personal experience\nhas even a hint of scientific rigour. Most importantly, the sample sizes are laughably small,\nmaking them not representative at all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProper scientific studies, albeit probably pretty reliable, are easily dismissed by homophobes\n\u2013 those surveys were done by some random people they don\u0027t trust,\nthe respondends didn\u0027t have to tell the truth about their orientation, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I think I came up with a way to very roughly estimate the number of gay, lesbian and bisexual people\nthat everyone\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\ncan do for themselves and see with their own eyes that there\u0027s a lot of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI went on \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.planetromeo.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E PlanetRomeo\u003C\/a\u003E,\na very popular gay hookup app that shows you profiles of other guys sorted by distance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI scrolled down until the 780\u003Csup\u003Eth\u003C\/sup\u003E person until I\u0027ve reached the first person to be \u201c1 km away\u201d.\nThis means that in a circle with the area of \u03c0r\u00b2 = 3.14 km\u00b2 there are at least 780 gays and bisexual guys\n(and probably some girls, and trans people, and couples with a joint account\n\u2013 but those numbers should be neglectable for the purpose of this rough estimation).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s hard to estimate, how many gays in here use this particular app, how many use a different one,\nhow many use multiple, and how many don\u0027t use any... \u2014 so keep in mind that 780 is the lowest estimate.\nIn the radius of 1 km from me there are \u003Cem\u003Eat least\u003C\/em\u003E 780 guys, actively looking for another guy to meet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think it\u0027s safe to assume that the number of lesbians and bisexual girls would be similar, if not higher\n(studies suggest girls tend to be more bisexual than guys, which makes it a low estimate as well),\nso let\u0027s double our number: there\u0027s at the very least 1560 queer people in the 3.14 km\u00b2 area around me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe population density of the district I live in is 6966 people\/km\u00b2.\nThat means queers are at the very least \u003Ccode\u003E1560 people \/ (3.14 km\u00b2 * 6966 people\/km\u00b2) \u2248 7%\u003C\/code\u003E of the population in here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeven percent! Plus those who aren\u0027t using hookup apps. Plus those who use a different one. Plus the asexual people.\nPlus the aromantic people. Plus trans people. Plus nonbinary people. Plus all the other queers...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know, I know. There\u0027s so many unknowns in my process. But!\nFor the purposes of proving in a \u003Cem\u003Esimple and reproducable\u003C\/em\u003E way\nthat the number of queers is orders of magnitude higher than what some homophobes are claiming\n\u2013 I think this process does a great job, doesn\u0027t it?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never would have thought that one day I\u0027ll be using hookup apps not to hook up,\nbut to do maths and to fight for human rights \ud83d\ude05\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, ok, not everyone... there\u0027s still a lot of places where queers have to stay so deep in the closet that using apps might not help...\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["dating","estimation","lgbtq","maths","online dating","statistics","queer","homophobia"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/romeo-calculator_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/romeo-calculator_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/romeo-calculator_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022259.58041958042\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis post is not about gays. It\u0027s about maths.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/romeo-calculator_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/romeo-calculator_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022259.58041958042\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis post is not about gays. It\u0027s about maths.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESome guy online told me that queers don\u0027t deserve rights (or at least the attention of lawmakers),\nbecause they make up only 0.03% of the population. Which is ridiculous.\nBoth the argumentation, and the number itself. Human rights are inherent and inviolable,\nhuman dignity doesn\u0027t depend on numbers of specific minoritiesed groups.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut it shows how important it is to properly estimate how many queer people are there in society.\nUsually, homophobes are trying to prove it\u0027s as low as 0.5% to make homosexuality sound like an aberration,\nsome totally marginal oddity that can be ignored, laughed at or hated.\nMeanwhile, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.out.com\/news-opinion\/2016\/3\/11\/less-50-teens-identify-straight-says-new-study\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E some studies go as high as 52%\u003C\/a\u003E!\nThat\u0027s a number that should make every homophobic politician worry about their reelection\nunless they change their hateful policies. Where are such huge discrepancies coming from?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThis study treated sexual orientation as a spectrum, and not just gay\/bi\/straight.\n52% is the number of people who say they aren\u0027t 100% straight.\nAlso, it\u0027s among teenagers in the US, which shows that younger people\nin countries where the taboo on homosexuality is lower are more open\nto embrace their queer side and to admit it in a questionnaire.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut let\u0027s come back to that ridiculous figure of 0.03%.\nIf it were true, that would mean there\u0027s only 12 000 queers in Poland\n\u2013 while last year\u0027s \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/paradarownosci\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Equality Parade\u003C\/a\u003E\ngathered around 50 000 people attending in Warsaw alone.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThat would also make my hometown of Szczecin, population 400k,\na home to just 120 gays, bisexuals, lesbians and trans people.\nAssuming half of them are female and like a third is a proper age\n\u2014 my dating pool would have been just 30 people.\nI probably slept with more than that before I\u0027d moved out of the city.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELooking at my high school class, there were 4 people (out of 28) that I know to be LGBTQ\n(and probably some more that I don\u0027t know about), making it around 14%.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut neither of those methods of trying to estimate this number from my personal experience\nhas even a hint of scientific rigour. Most importantly, the sample sizes are laughably small,\nmaking them not representative at all.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProper scientific studies, albeit probably pretty reliable, are easily dismissed by homophobes\n\u2013 those surveys were done by some random people they don\u0027t trust,\nthe respondends didn\u0027t have to tell the truth about their orientation, etc. etc.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I think I came up with a way to very roughly estimate the number of gay, lesbian and bisexual people\nthat everyone\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\ncan do for themselves and see with their own eyes that there\u0027s a lot of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI went on \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.planetromeo.com\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E PlanetRomeo\u003C\/a\u003E,\na very popular gay hookup app that shows you profiles of other guys sorted by distance.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI scrolled down until the 780\u003Csup\u003Eth\u003C\/sup\u003E person until I\u0027ve reached the first person to be \u201c1 km away\u201d.\nThis means that in a circle with the area of \u03c0r\u00b2 = 3.14 km\u00b2 there are at least 780 gays and bisexual guys\n(and probably some girls, and trans people, and couples with a joint account\n\u2013 but those numbers should be neglectable for the purpose of this rough estimation).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u0027s hard to estimate, how many gays in here use this particular app, how many use a different one,\nhow many use multiple, and how many don\u0027t use any... \u2014 so keep in mind that 780 is the lowest estimate.\nIn the radius of 1 km from me there are \u003Cem\u003Eat least\u003C\/em\u003E 780 guys, actively looking for another guy to meet.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI think it\u0027s safe to assume that the number of lesbians and bisexual girls would be similar, if not higher\n(studies suggest girls tend to be more bisexual than guys, which makes it a low estimate as well),\nso let\u0027s double our number: there\u0027s at the very least 1560 queer people in the 3.14 km\u00b2 area around me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe population density of the district I live in is 6966 people\/km\u00b2.\nThat means queers are at the very least \u003Ccode\u003E1560 people \/ (3.14 km\u00b2 * 6966 people\/km\u00b2) \u2248 7%\u003C\/code\u003E of the population in here.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeven percent! Plus those who aren\u0027t using hookup apps. Plus those who use a different one. Plus the asexual people.\nPlus the aromantic people. Plus trans people. Plus nonbinary people. Plus all the other queers...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI know, I know. There\u0027s so many unknowns in my process. But!\nFor the purposes of proving in a \u003Cem\u003Esimple and reproducable\u003C\/em\u003E way\nthat the number of queers is orders of magnitude higher than what some homophobes are claiming\n\u2013 I think this process does a great job, doesn\u0027t it?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never would have thought that one day I\u0027ll be using hookup apps not to hook up,\nbut to do maths and to fight for human rights \ud83d\ude05\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, ok, not everyone... there\u0027s still a lot of places where queers have to stay so deep in the closet that using apps might not help...\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E","words":791,"readTime":4,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/too-queer-to-represent-queers":{"key":"blog\/society\/too-queer-to-represent-queers","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-12-15T17:21:28+01:00","publishedAt":"2019-12-16T22:36:00+01:00","group":"nonbinary","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"too-queer-to-represent-queers"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"too-queer-to-represent-queers","title":"Too queer to represent queers?","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022720\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022720\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s sad, being a member of a minoritised community and seeing some of its members turn against the others. Like in case of that \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E twitter discussion\u003C\/a\u003E on whether or not \u201cweird looking\u201d people and \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/blog\/too-queer-to-represent-queers\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E drag queens\u003C\/a\u003E should be allowed to represent us, or even mention publicly that they are queer, for fear of giving us a bad reputation.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be that asshole who answers \u201cno\u201d to this question.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022900\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAABgAAAAkCAYAAACTz\/ouAAAACXBIWXMAAA7EAAAOxAGVKw4bAAAGfklEQVRIia2WTY9cVxGGnzof93b3dE93z0z8OTghBCEFQySUSARYZBGyy4YVYof4AyDxA1jxE1ixYAVLxCICC0WERBBFiIADDpETktieGbvHHnu6p+f2vfd8FIseTzxISYTDK7VaKl1Vnap6q96SRVXpnTf\/zPALF+lurANwEGFYWj4TVAGwzz\/3zZ\/86hc\/RxX22sx0OmVroYwKoVuWiMhD\/QAUcF\/\/1nPs1IZnnnmK4XgNEUFVMWI+UwIighVB7uzt6YcfXmPQ7yMi1E1N4QuqxYJBv8\/+dIpqxhpLTJHhcEhVVTjnSSnR1DX9QZ8YEzFGHnv0Auvr68eBXEoJY4QQA\/1+n4P5Ac55AJq2xXvHYDDg\/LlzlGX5v2eSclYjQggB7z0xRpxzxx80TfNQjo8DxJRUsyJGHtrJxzoXwanC9rWrzBuOaz1cW8Nad9zwsvAYY+h1yhPZfRpSzsg\/\/t3qL\/\/QkEzLEyuZEJWzz464O1d83bD9+1exOiVT8sTjzzE6P8BmsHsZVxr205T9uCBlw2IRmdXC62+dRlX48Q8s7vZ+5u3Lhwyb22xnR\/AFT18csjtL+Fng8p+u4tMElRVm9fP068QKyr+uZF4ohRv9mp28D0mYHkTuzi2\/fnkDRfjeiwanqiTNKBFF0BSWHLaCcUJoA0ZrjAgvX3mN8\/cKduuS1ckWk\/GTnNocs9WJoBnIlCadKJOD5VQrCcSQEoiAChgHIbbY3ODLgm+cWYXNdZ7FsDG6wGo4RQhbBNNiRIgxEk\/6XwbIQCKiKqSUyQJJlyyIKdDkSBM6LOaRzWrMcK2D1Q53NxLv25rFNGJQFq1St7p8oB4HUFSURCZrJKlAVmIEK9DGgMaI1jW7YYsL70GxcYrp5ufRYSKEgnAnoKoctsp8IegDGRgQ1ICqklFSiohCSKAW2hRowyFp+jZNrHlnveDK2pjJasXiyYIbO9fZunWTOiZiTsQc4YEQDgFEaLOQsxJZ1n+6UE6PheyGwJhpd0x9a4v3tm\/y7e\/\/iNFjAIG\/vfI6B\/szxJVsnL+IKzy93oTQdBAzwiFCTIn9u9uYbAms8O7lW0y2I24tkcoVJvEc+81twodXufClp3n0KY\/rOt7542UmuzvkekpWy3R2G4zD21scyg8gFzgBnPOsDM+Q1bNoI49\/9Qz7o8QXT0Uu\/ewuB7NdUnuApEjRHwFCDpm\/v\/pX2rDApADWkpsDSIlY\/BPTPUBZx4iAWIgal40WSElpGzg8bJjPb5K1QlMFJHpeMFnI0wXbb7+L04wYxcQK6l3EZHI+xOm7yyYbWdJRk5BVURVCUBLwl9+8RJhdR2ONQXCaKLqe3CrdN67ww717uFzjii7GZERaRMBIxoQ3lgvvnTdv6m9\/egl3bwuKAknKha+dYe9uzd5rlxBNmNEaEjOLU6e59eJ3eORzm7T39hnfuMm1rkXKDp3xGGsEsQXWOjCW7z7zyFIPYhOW45vz8v9oUuQ+4Y50VnNGrQMUBTQrxhxJ6\/1tf5+hAoUVXIyJ2aLCiMFagwLCcux9b4VJnek5QRVCFowkHh34T13Vs\/khrtdFUsrK\/19rjrITXEiJSbXHwPcopMDa5T10X0JTzkez+NE5ct92XJ6PQwI3bxfsXH2F\/RvXWXvsBZq2ZXUwYHd2SKfbYzAc4fyyJAOrdMuCmBLeO1a63U\/0H2JEqrrV2d4tZrvXyINNmrYlpUQUh\/EeNCNiSFkZdxyaE8YY6rqhKPzyhjIGRLDGUFUV1jq8d5w9e3YZIKSEs5bJZELKmRgizlnOnTv3UPWPMQLgnOOEgvf6AzplgX9A2OumAYROWZxwMpsfUhaesvjIvqhriqI4cRhIG6LGqsZ2yo89XaqQ6Diz3CufgCXFT8KZrOxceonVRza5c2YNFFJKOO+IMWGtYbfc4OIwEbMHFGsdddOwPhoym89x1jJaHWCMOWYaHDW5jkl\/9951RoMh6\/d2sNZSVRXee7wvaJoakCNKKjEmisITQqDwBW1o8d4jCClnCu8JMVBVC75y8cvLVZFSxjvL+x98gPeeuq6Xx26MIBzPxolyZCXESFkWpLRU+pzz8fm5vrbGaDQ+2eSiKGjbll63h6pSlMXypUVBiomyLJcUThFrLb2jS6IsS2IInD59mk6nc\/IlKWdtQ1RV1dnBXOum1QdRLWpd1I3+N9qX39J8WJ+wzauFxphO2CTnrFkV+2lj\/5D4D3Sp1EZG637hAAAAAElFTkSuQmCC\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022900\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s sad, being a member of a minoritised community and seeing some of its members turn against the others. Like in case of that \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E twitter discussion\u003C\/a\u003E on whether or not \u201cweird looking\u201d people and \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/blog\/too-queer-to-represent-queers\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E drag queens\u003C\/a\u003E should be allowed to represent us, or even mention publicly that they are queer, for fear of giving us a bad reputation.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be that asshole who answers \u201cno\u201d to this question.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be \u003Cem\u003Ethat\u003C\/em\u003E gay guy who thought that those \u201ceffeminate\u201d of us shouldn\u2019t really talk loud about their homosexuality \u2013 cause they would only strengthen the stereotypes and make the lives of \u201cus, normal gays\u201d harder to live.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be \u003Cem\u003Ethat\u003C\/em\u003E gay guy who enjoyed drag queen shows and who liked his queen friends personally, but who advocated against them being in drag when they represent the whole LGBTQ+ movement to the rest of the world. I didn\u2019t want the world to think that \u003Cem\u003Eall\u003C\/em\u003E of us are like this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt was so wrong of me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause our strength comes from diversity. Because our fight doesn\u2019t make sense if we only fight to be safe, and not for the ability to be ourselves. Because our fight doesn\u2019t make sense if we don\u2019t fight for \u003Cem\u003Eall\u003C\/em\u003E of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wasn\u2019t just restricting others \u2013 most of all, I was restricting myself. I\u2019m a nonbinary person, but I\u2019ve spent a huge chunk of my life \u003Cem\u003Epretending\u003C\/em\u003E to be a man, instead of living a fabulous life free of gender norms. All just to make some bigots more \u003Cem\u003Ecomfortable with my existence\u003C\/em\u003E. Well, fuck them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you want to make the oppressed shape themselves in a way that the oppressor wants them to, you\u2019re playing by their rules, and you\u2019ve already lost. You\u2019re working towards a \u201ccompromise\u201d between bigotry and being oneself, between hatred and happiness \u2013 a compromise that makes everyone unhappy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u2019re valid just the way you are. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u2019re really worrying so much about the \u003Cem\u003Eimage\u003C\/em\u003E of the community, show the world an image of queer people coming together hand in hand, as \u201cstrange\u201d as they might be, united in diversity \u2013 and not fighting each other who\u2019s the \u003Cem\u003Eright amount of gay\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["acceptance","aliens","being yourself","bigotry","expression","fight","gender norms","inclusivity","lgbtq","non-binary","nonbinary","queer","representation","transgender","weird"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s sad, being a member of a minoritised community and seeing some of its members turn against the others. Like in case of that \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E twitter discussion\u003C\/a\u003E on whether or not \u201cweird looking\u201d people and \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/blog\/too-queer-to-represent-queers\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E drag queens\u003C\/a\u003E should be allowed to represent us, or even mention publicly that they are queer, for fear of giving us a bad reputation.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be that asshole who answers \u201cno\u201d to this question.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/lgbalien_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022360\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s sad, being a member of a minoritised community and seeing some of its members turn against the others. Like in case of that \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/natancombigirl\/status\/1205554427324719106\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E twitter discussion\u003C\/a\u003E on whether or not \u201cweird looking\u201d people and \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/blog\/too-queer-to-represent-queers\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E drag queens\u003C\/a\u003E should be allowed to represent us, or even mention publicly that they are queer, for fear of giving us a bad reputation.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be that asshole who answers \u201cno\u201d to this question.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be \u003Cem\u003Ethat\u003C\/em\u003E gay guy who thought that those \u201ceffeminate\u201d of us shouldn\u2019t really talk loud about their homosexuality \u2013 cause they would only strengthen the stereotypes and make the lives of \u201cus, normal gays\u201d harder to live.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to be \u003Cem\u003Ethat\u003C\/em\u003E gay guy who enjoyed drag queen shows and who liked his queen friends personally, but who advocated against them being in drag when they represent the whole LGBTQ+ movement to the rest of the world. I didn\u2019t want the world to think that \u003Cem\u003Eall\u003C\/em\u003E of us are like this.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt was so wrong of me.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBecause our strength comes from diversity. Because our fight doesn\u2019t make sense if we only fight to be safe, and not for the ability to be ourselves. Because our fight doesn\u2019t make sense if we don\u2019t fight for \u003Cem\u003Eall\u003C\/em\u003E of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI wasn\u2019t just restricting others \u2013 most of all, I was restricting myself. I\u2019m a nonbinary person, but I\u2019ve spent a huge chunk of my life \u003Cem\u003Epretending\u003C\/em\u003E to be a man, instead of living a fabulous life free of gender norms. All just to make some bigots more \u003Cem\u003Ecomfortable with my existence\u003C\/em\u003E. Well, fuck them.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you want to make the oppressed shape themselves in a way that the oppressor wants them to, you\u2019re playing by their rules, and you\u2019ve already lost. You\u2019re working towards a \u201ccompromise\u201d between bigotry and being oneself, between hatred and happiness \u2013 a compromise that makes everyone unhappy.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EYou\u2019re valid just the way you are. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIf you\u2019re really worrying so much about the \u003Cem\u003Eimage\u003C\/em\u003E of the community, show the world an image of queer people coming together hand in hand, as \u201cstrange\u201d as they might be, united in diversity \u2013 and not fighting each other who\u2019s the \u003Cem\u003Eright amount of gay\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":382,"readTime":2,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/life\/how-come-i-m-both-gay-and-pan":{"key":"blog\/life\/how-come-i-m-both-gay-and-pan","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-12-08T11:21:53+01:00","publishedAt":"2019-12-08T11:08:00+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"how-come-i-m-both-gay-and-pan"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"how-come-i-m-both-gay-and-pan","title":"How come I\u0027m both \u201cgay\u201d and \u201cpan\u201d?","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022399.2\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022399.2\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy bio says I\u2019m \u201cpan\/gay\u201d, which might seem pretty self-contradictory, right? It\u2019s one or the other, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why:\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022499\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022600\u0022 height=\u0022499\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/UrFavGay_\/status\/1232274231133720579\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/UrFavGay_\/status\/1232274231133720579\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy bio says I\u2019m \u201cpan\/gay\u201d, which might seem pretty self-contradictory, right? It\u2019s one or the other, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFirst of all, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kinsey_scale\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E sexual orientation is a spectrum\u003C\/a\u003E.\nSecond of all, it\u2019s not set in stone. I don\u2019t think anyone has to just pick one label and stick to it.\nCalling myself \u201cpan\/gay\u201d is my way of saying that I\u2019m attracted to people of all genders,\nbut with a strong preference for guys. How strong? Am I a 4 or a 5 on the Kinsey scale? Dunno \ud83e\udd37\u200d\nThere\u2019s the word \u201chomoflexible\u201d... But \u003Cem\u003Eam I\u003C\/em\u003E homoflexible?\nAnd how many people know what it means without googling?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t know, and I care less and less about putting a label or a number on it.\nOne thing for sure: just \u201cpan\u201d or just \u201cgay\u201d doesn\u2019t tell the whole story.\nBut combined? They say enough and are easy to understand.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then, there\u2019s also this thing that I\u2019m \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E.\nI might look like a man at the first glance, I might own a penis, but I\u2019m not a man, I don\u2019t subscribe to the binary.\nIs it gay to be into guys, if I\u2019m not a guy? What do I call that?\nThere\u2019s this thing called \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lgbta.wikia.org\/wiki\/Diamoric\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E diamoric orientations\u003C\/a\u003E,\nbut neither one from the list really fits me (and again, almost nobody knows them).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd finally, I\u2019ve spent a huge chunk of my life identifying as gay (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Coming out as... not so gay \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/a\u003E).\nI\u2019ve become a part of the gay community, used gay apps, visited gay bars, and I still do.\nThat identity doesn\u2019t disappear overnight just because\nI finally decided to embrace other sides of my sexuality. It never will.\nMy \u201cgayness\u201d is more than just attraction to guys.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t forget, that in many contexts \u201cgay\u201d might actually be a synecdoche for the whole LGBTQ+ community.\nFor instance, when you advocate for \u201cgay rights\u201d, you probably don\u0027t want to exclude bi or pan folx,\nyou do demand the same rights for them as you demand for gay people, even if you don\u0027t explicitly mention them.\nOr when you use the rainbow flag to represent gays specifically, as well as queers in general.\nOr when you use \u201cgay pride\u201d and \u201cLGBTQ pride\u201d interchangably.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, summing up: it\u2019s not self-contradictory, it\u2019s just complicated.\nBut \u201cpan\/gay\u201d is the best approximation of the truth I can fit in 7 bytes, so I\u2019ll go with that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/bryn-queerness_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@brynismyname on Twitter: My queerness has always fallen between the margins of identities and I will use whatever word I like to describe my experience. I\u2019m gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, non-binary, trans, femme, woman, domme, sub, daddy, poly. I\u2019m not erasing anyone\u2019s identity by describing my own.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022602\u0022 height=\u0022399\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/bryn-queerness_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@brynismyname on Twitter: My queerness has always fallen between the margins of identities and I will use whatever word I like to describe my experience. I\u2019m gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, non-binary, trans, femme, woman, domme, sub, daddy, poly. I\u2019m not erasing anyone\u2019s identity by describing my own.\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022602\u0022 height=\u0022399\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/brynismyname\/status\/1233768229010579456\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/brynismyname\/status\/1233768229010579456\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["homosexuality","identity","labels","lgbtq","pansexuality","sexuality","diamoric"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022199.6\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy bio says I\u2019m \u201cpan\/gay\u201d, which might seem pretty self-contradictory, right? It\u2019s one or the other, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why:\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pan-is-gay_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@UrFavGay_ on Twitter: Pansexuality is gay\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022199.6\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/UrFavGay_\/status\/1232274231133720579\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/UrFavGay_\/status\/1232274231133720579\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMy bio says I\u2019m \u201cpan\/gay\u201d, which might seem pretty self-contradictory, right? It\u2019s one or the other, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFirst of all, \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kinsey_scale\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E sexual orientation is a spectrum\u003C\/a\u003E.\nSecond of all, it\u2019s not set in stone. I don\u2019t think anyone has to just pick one label and stick to it.\nCalling myself \u201cpan\/gay\u201d is my way of saying that I\u2019m attracted to people of all genders,\nbut with a strong preference for guys. How strong? Am I a 4 or a 5 on the Kinsey scale? Dunno \ud83e\udd37\u200d\nThere\u2019s the word \u201chomoflexible\u201d... But \u003Cem\u003Eam I\u003C\/em\u003E homoflexible?\nAnd how many people know what it means without googling?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t know, and I care less and less about putting a label or a number on it.\nOne thing for sure: just \u201cpan\u201d or just \u201cgay\u201d doesn\u2019t tell the whole story.\nBut combined? They say enough and are easy to understand.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd then, there\u2019s also this thing that I\u2019m \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary.lite\u0022\u003E nonbinary\u003C\/a\u003E.\nI might look like a man at the first glance, I might own a penis, but I\u2019m not a man, I don\u2019t subscribe to the binary.\nIs it gay to be into guys, if I\u2019m not a guy? What do I call that?\nThere\u2019s this thing called \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lgbta.wikia.org\/wiki\/Diamoric\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E diamoric orientations\u003C\/a\u003E,\nbut neither one from the list really fits me (and again, almost nobody knows them).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd finally, I\u2019ve spent a huge chunk of my life identifying as gay (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay.lite\u0022\u003E Coming out as... not so gay \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/a\u003E).\nI\u2019ve become a part of the gay community, used gay apps, visited gay bars, and I still do.\nThat identity doesn\u2019t disappear overnight just because\nI finally decided to embrace other sides of my sexuality. It never will.\nMy \u201cgayness\u201d is more than just attraction to guys.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EDon\u0027t forget, that in many contexts \u201cgay\u201d might actually be a synecdoche for the whole LGBTQ+ community.\nFor instance, when you advocate for \u201cgay rights\u201d, you probably don\u0027t want to exclude bi or pan folx,\nyou do demand the same rights for them as you demand for gay people, even if you don\u0027t explicitly mention them.\nOr when you use the rainbow flag to represent gays specifically, as well as queers in general.\nOr when you use \u201cgay pride\u201d and \u201cLGBTQ pride\u201d interchangably.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, summing up: it\u2019s not self-contradictory, it\u2019s just complicated.\nBut \u201cpan\/gay\u201d is the best approximation of the truth I can fit in 7 bytes, so I\u2019ll go with that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/bryn-queerness_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/bryn-queerness_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@brynismyname on Twitter: My queerness has always fallen between the margins of identities and I will use whatever word I like to describe my experience. I\u2019m gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, non-binary, trans, femme, woman, domme, sub, daddy, poly. I\u2019m not erasing anyone\u2019s identity by describing my own.\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022159.06976744186\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/brynismyname\/status\/1233768229010579456\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/brynismyname\/status\/1233768229010579456\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E","words":427,"readTime":2,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/life\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay":{"key":"blog\/life\/coming-out-as-not-so-gay","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-11-03T13:41:40+01:00","publishedAt":"2019-11-03T17:00:00+01:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"coming-out-as-not-so-gay"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"coming-out-as-not-so-gay","title":"Coming out as... not so gay \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022309.41538461538\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022309.41538461538\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it turns out, coming out is still something that I have to do sometimes \ud83d\ude44. Surprisingly, though, it\u2019s the other way around now. That\u2019s a brand new experience to me \ud83d\ude05 So here it goes:\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022650\u0022 height=\u0022419\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_big.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022650\u0022 height=\u0022419\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/krikienoid.github.io\/flagwaver\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        krikienoid.github.io\/flagwaver\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it turns out, coming out is still something that I have to do sometimes \ud83d\ude44. Surprisingly, though, it\u2019s the other way around now. That\u2019s a brand new experience to me \ud83d\ude05 So here it goes:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me tell you a story of a random, average gay guy growing up in a homophobic environment.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHe discovers something strange about himself, but he can\u2019t even put a name on it. He never saw gay couples in his life, he has no idea that liking boys is \u003Cem\u003Ean option\u003C\/em\u003E, he never saw gay porn, he never even heard the word.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen he does hear it. And he hears that it is a bad thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHe lives half of his teenage years in fear \u2013 fear that he\u2019ll have to tell someone one day, fear that he\u2019ll be hated for who he is, fear that he\u2019ll end up alone for the rest of his life...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut he also hears the word \u201cbisexual\u201d. Hmm, sounds like a safe middle ground, actually. Maybe his parents will hate him less if he tells them he\u2019s bisexual, and not gay? (they won\u2019t, don\u2019t kid yourself, kid)... Maybe he actually \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E like girls? He was focusing so much on the threat of eternal damnation for liking boys, that he didn\u2019t really consider that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey tell him that one \u003Cem\u003Emust\u003C\/em\u003E \u201cpick a side\u201d though. They bombard him with Disney movies and Hollywood clich\u00e9s of a perfect romantic love that he absolutely \u003Cem\u003Emust\u003C\/em\u003E pursue if he ever wants to be happy. The once-in-a-lifetime love only happens once in a lifetime, silly! If you ever want to find \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe one\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, first select the right half of the population!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s a struggle to come out. But he finally does. As gay. It\u2019s simpler that way. Nobody knows about the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kinsey_scale\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Kinsey scale\u003C\/a\u003E anyway. Nobody can think outside the binary. They won\u2019t understand you. You don\u2019t even know yourself who you are \u2013 how can you expect anyone else to?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay turns out to be not so bad. Homophobia is terrifying, sure, but the community is so lovely! Everywhere he goes, there\u2019s his queer family ready to welcome him! Well, his \u003Cem\u003Egay\u003C\/em\u003E family.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Chr \/\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo here I was. I met a perfect guy for me. We were monogamish and our sex was always 100% male. We got married. I was pretty much \u003Cem\u003E\u201cconfirmed\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E as gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept that\u2019s not what I am.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never \u201ccame out\u201d to my husband as (as he calls it) \u201cpussy-curious\u201d. It just was out there, that some day I might want to experiment in that direction.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur relationship got more open and slightly poly, so I did. And I liked it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI might be turned on by masculinity and cocks more strongly and more often than by femininity and pussies, but I\u2019ve noticed that at the end the person\u2019s gender or their genitals are not really that high up on the list of reasons to sleep with them \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut hey, everyone thinks I\u2019m gay... I\u2019m married to a guy after all! I fight for marriage equality, I\u2019ve used the \u201cgay\u201d label so many times in my life... No wonder that friends simply see me as gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I\u2019m surprised that even to me it kinda feels \u003Cem\u003Ewrong\u003C\/em\u003E in a way...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut it isn\u2019t. At all. Human sexuality is \u003Cem\u003Enot\u003C\/em\u003E set in stone. Your sexual orientation can just change overtime (it\u2019s not the same as saying that you can forcibly change someone\u2019s orientation!), and it\u2019s totally fine. You can keep discovering your sexuality that has always been there and it\u2019s still fine.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Experimenting with my gender\u003C\/a\u003E made me realise: we\u2019re not really bound by binaries. They\u2019re all in our heads.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to comply with gender norms, I don\u2019t have to be \u201cmale\u201d or \u201cfemale\u201d. And my sexuality isn\u2019t (and doesn\u2019t have to) be so clearly defined either. I\u2019m still gay, it\u2019s still a huge part of my identity. But I\u2019m also pan.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to feel like I\u2019m kinda self-censoring. Like I\u2019m \u003Cem\u003Enot supposed to\u003C\/em\u003E like this or that. It\u2019s so much easier not to care anymore!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u2019t lose my identity after eating the first pussy. I just discovered a new one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt took me a while to figure it out, but beter late than ever, right? \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["coming out","homosexuality","identity","lgbtq","pansexuality","sex","sexual orientation","sexuality"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_small.jpeg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022154.70769230769\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it turns out, coming out is still something that I have to do sometimes \ud83d\ude44. Surprisingly, though, it\u2019s the other way around now. That\u2019s a brand new experience to me \ud83d\ude05 So here it goes:\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pansexual-pride-flag_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022154.70769230769\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/krikienoid.github.io\/flagwaver\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Ekrikienoid.github.io\/flagwaver\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo it turns out, coming out is still something that I have to do sometimes \ud83d\ude44. Surprisingly, though, it\u2019s the other way around now. That\u2019s a brand new experience to me \ud83d\ude05 So here it goes:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELet me tell you a story of a random, average gay guy growing up in a homophobic environment.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHe discovers something strange about himself, but he can\u2019t even put a name on it. He never saw gay couples in his life, he has no idea that liking boys is \u003Cem\u003Ean option\u003C\/em\u003E, he never saw gay porn, he never even heard the word.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThen he does hear it. And he hears that it is a bad thing.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHe lives half of his teenage years in fear \u2013 fear that he\u2019ll have to tell someone one day, fear that he\u2019ll be hated for who he is, fear that he\u2019ll end up alone for the rest of his life...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut he also hears the word \u201cbisexual\u201d. Hmm, sounds like a safe middle ground, actually. Maybe his parents will hate him less if he tells them he\u2019s bisexual, and not gay? (they won\u2019t, don\u2019t kid yourself, kid)... Maybe he actually \u003Cem\u003Edoes\u003C\/em\u003E like girls? He was focusing so much on the threat of eternal damnation for liking boys, that he didn\u2019t really consider that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThey tell him that one \u003Cem\u003Emust\u003C\/em\u003E \u201cpick a side\u201d though. They bombard him with Disney movies and Hollywood clich\u00e9s of a perfect romantic love that he absolutely \u003Cem\u003Emust\u003C\/em\u003E pursue if he ever wants to be happy. The once-in-a-lifetime love only happens once in a lifetime, silly! If you ever want to find \u003Cem\u003E\u201cthe one\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, first select the right half of the population!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s a struggle to come out. But he finally does. As gay. It\u2019s simpler that way. Nobody knows about the \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/en.m.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Kinsey_scale\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Kinsey scale\u003C\/a\u003E anyway. Nobody can think outside the binary. They won\u2019t understand you. You don\u2019t even know yourself who you are \u2013 how can you expect anyone else to?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay turns out to be not so bad. Homophobia is terrifying, sure, but the community is so lovely! Everywhere he goes, there\u2019s his queer family ready to welcome him! Well, his \u003Cem\u003Egay\u003C\/em\u003E family.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Chr \/\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo here I was. I met a perfect guy for me. We were monogamish and our sex was always 100% male. We got married. I was pretty much \u003Cem\u003E\u201cconfirmed\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E as gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EExcept that\u2019s not what I am.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI never \u201ccame out\u201d to my husband as (as he calls it) \u201cpussy-curious\u201d. It just was out there, that some day I might want to experiment in that direction.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOur relationship got more open and slightly poly, so I did. And I liked it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI might be turned on by masculinity and cocks more strongly and more often than by femininity and pussies, but I\u2019ve noticed that at the end the person\u2019s gender or their genitals are not really that high up on the list of reasons to sleep with them \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffc\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut hey, everyone thinks I\u2019m gay... I\u2019m married to a guy after all! I fight for marriage equality, I\u2019ve used the \u201cgay\u201d label so many times in my life... No wonder that friends simply see me as gay.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut I\u2019m surprised that even to me it kinda feels \u003Cem\u003Ewrong\u003C\/em\u003E in a way...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut it isn\u2019t. At all. Human sexuality is \u003Cem\u003Enot\u003C\/em\u003E set in stone. Your sexual orientation can just change overtime (it\u2019s not the same as saying that you can forcibly change someone\u2019s orientation!), and it\u2019s totally fine. You can keep discovering your sexuality that has always been there and it\u2019s still fine.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/am-i-non-binary.lite\u0022\u003E Experimenting with my gender\u003C\/a\u003E made me realise: we\u2019re not really bound by binaries. They\u2019re all in our heads.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to comply with gender norms, I don\u2019t have to be \u201cmale\u201d or \u201cfemale\u201d. And my sexuality isn\u2019t (and doesn\u2019t have to) be so clearly defined either. I\u2019m still gay, it\u2019s still a huge part of my identity. But I\u2019m also pan.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI used to feel like I\u2019m kinda self-censoring. Like I\u2019m \u003Cem\u003Enot supposed to\u003C\/em\u003E like this or that. It\u2019s so much easier not to care anymore!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u2019t lose my identity after eating the first pussy. I just discovered a new one.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt took me a while to figure it out, but beter late than ever, right? \ud83d\ude09\u003C\/p\u003E","words":749,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/yes-i-do-czyli-jak-wzi\u0105\u0107-\u015blub-za-granic\u0105-berlin":{"key":"blog\/society\/yes-i-do-czyli-jak-wzi\u0105\u0107-\u015blub-za-granic\u0105-berlin","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2019-10-25T11:13:35+02:00","publishedAt":"2019-10-25T11:12:00+02:00","group":"wedding","links":[{"icon":"globe-europe","colour":"primary","url":"https:\/\/mnw.org.pl\/biblioteczka\/yes-i-do-czyli-jak-wziac-slub-za-granica-berlin\/","displayUrl":"\u015aci\u0105gnij PDF"}],"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"yes-i-do-czyli-jak-wzi\u0105\u0107-\u015blub-za-granic\u0105-berlin"},"content":{"pl":{"slug":"yes-i-do-czyli-jak-wzi\u0105\u0107-\u015blub-za-granic\u0105-berlin","title":"Yes, I do, czyli jak wzi\u0105\u0107 \u015blub za granic\u0105: 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As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022600\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022If we allow LGBT and other leftists too much, they will be riding around our cities naked on bikes. As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022600\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt might be obvious for most people, (you know, those who know the \u003Cem\u003Emeaning of words\u003C\/em\u003E), but apparently, judging from the tweet above and the answers to it, (where Polish right-wingers show \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E as an example of how the \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E community has \u201cdeprived\u201d the West), some people still confuse naturism with exhibitionism and they think that it\u2019s gay...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why it\u2019s neither of those things: \u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022If we allow LGBT and other leftists too much, they will be riding around our cities naked on bikes. As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022668\u0022 height=\u0022835\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022If we allow LGBT and other leftists too much, they will be riding around our cities naked on bikes. As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022668\u0022 height=\u0022835\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt might be obvious for most people, (you know, those who know the \u003Cem\u003Emeaning of words\u003C\/em\u003E), but apparently, judging from the tweet above and the answers to it, (where Polish right-wingers show \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E as an example of how the \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E community has \u201cdeprived\u201d the West), some people still confuse naturism with exhibitionism and they think that it\u2019s gay...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why it\u2019s neither of those things: \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAccording to \u003Cabbr title=\u0022International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems\u0022\u003EICD-10\u003C\/abbr\u003E \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.icd10data.com\/ICD10CM\/Codes\/F01-F99\/F60-F69\/F65-\/F65.2\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E F65.2\u003C\/a\u003E exhibitionism is classified as sexual deviation and is described as:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA disorder characterized by recurrent sexual urges, fantasies, or behaviors involving the exposure of one\u2019s genitals to an unsuspecting stranger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA disorder in which fantasies about or the act of exposing the genitals to an unsuspecting stranger produces sexual excitement with no attempt at further sexual activity with the stranger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow here\u2019s what the World Naked Bike Ride, and naturism in general, is all about: \u003Cstrong\u003Eprecisely not that\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s about freedom, it\u2019s about loving your body, it\u2019s about not caring about clothes, it\u2019s about feeling good...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually, we\u2019re naked at home or at a nude beach, among other nude people... But not necessarily. For instance in Germany it\u2019s pretty common to see nude people sunbathing in random public parks. It\u2019s perfectly \u003Cstrong\u003Elegal\u003C\/strong\u003E, it\u2019s considered \u003Cstrong\u003Enormal\u003C\/strong\u003E, and it\u2019s \u003Cstrong\u003Enot sexual\u003C\/strong\u003E and it\u2019s \u003Cstrong\u003Enot exhibitionistic\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith WNBR there\u2019s an additional message attached to the public nudity: bringing the public\u2019s attention to the problems of car-based transportation in the cities and \u201cdelivering a vision of a cleaner, safer, body-positive world\u201d. \u003Cstrong\u003EIt\u2019s a political statement, not a sexual act.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETake it from a person who has actually done it once: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-first-world-naked-bike-ride-and-i-absolutelly-loved-it\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E My first World Naked Bike Ride \u2013 and I absolutelly loved it!\u003C\/a\u003E. I rode totally naked through the city centre of Amsterdam, and yet I\u2019m not a exhibitionist. I don\u2019t get off of that sexually, I don\u2019t fantasise about it, I\u2019m totally capable of achieving sexual pleasure without any stranger seeing me. I simply enjoy being naked, that\u2019s it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022575.55383423703\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022575.55383423703\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Full disclosure: I did have sex in public places a couple of times, but the whole point was \u003Cstrong\u003Enot\u003C\/strong\u003E to get caught by anyone. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642 I also post some explicit content online sometimes, but it\u2019s specifically targeted to people who want to see it. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt differs between countries, obviously, but in all of those I\u2019ve been publicly naked in: \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea Germany, \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddf1 The Netherlands and \ud83c\uddea\ud83c\uddf8 Spain, there\u2019s a distinction in law between just being naked in public (legal, with some exceptions like churches, cemeteries, schools...) and sexually exposing yourself (illegal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, what about public nudity allegedly being gay? Some people on Twitter were thinking that those photos from WNBR were taken during Pride, which is simply not true. I happen to take part in both, but in general they are separate events targeted to a different group of people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJudging from my observations of how few of my gay friends are eager to join me at a nude beach, and how many guys I\u2019ve met during the WNBR Amsterdam who talked about their wives\/girlfriends or came together with them \u2013 I can see no clear correlation between the LGBTQ community and naturists.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlthough they do have a lot in common: freedom and openness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u2019s all it is about.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["bike","deviation","exhibitionism","homosexuality","lgbtq","naturism","nudism","paraphilia","pride","public","public place","public transport"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022If we allow LGBT and other leftists too much, they will be riding around our cities naked on bikes. As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022300\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt might be obvious for most people, (you know, those who know the \u003Cem\u003Emeaning of words\u003C\/em\u003E), but apparently, judging from the tweet above and the answers to it, (where Polish right-wingers show \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E as an example of how the \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E community has \u201cdeprived\u201d the West), some people still confuse naturism with exhibitionism and they think that it\u2019s gay...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why it\u2019s neither of those things: \u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak-en_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022If we allow LGBT and other leftists too much, they will be riding around our cities naked on bikes. As they already do in the cities of former Western civilisation.\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022300\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt might be obvious for most people, (you know, those who know the \u003Cem\u003Emeaning of words\u003C\/em\u003E), but apparently, judging from the tweet above and the answers to it, (where Polish right-wingers show \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E as an example of how the \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E community has \u201cdeprived\u201d the West), some people still confuse naturism with exhibitionism and they think that it\u2019s gay...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, here\u2019s why it\u2019s neither of those things: \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAccording to \u003Cabbr title=\u0022International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems\u0022\u003EICD-10\u003C\/abbr\u003E \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.icd10data.com\/ICD10CM\/Codes\/F01-F99\/F60-F69\/F65-\/F65.2\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E F65.2\u003C\/a\u003E exhibitionism is classified as sexual deviation and is described as:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA disorder characterized by recurrent sexual urges, fantasies, or behaviors involving the exposure of one\u2019s genitals to an unsuspecting stranger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA disorder in which fantasies about or the act of exposing the genitals to an unsuspecting stranger produces sexual excitement with no attempt at further sexual activity with the stranger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENow here\u2019s what the World Naked Bike Ride, and naturism in general, is all about: \u003Cstrong\u003Eprecisely not that\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s about freedom, it\u2019s about loving your body, it\u2019s about not caring about clothes, it\u2019s about feeling good...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EUsually, we\u2019re naked at home or at a nude beach, among other nude people... But not necessarily. For instance in Germany it\u2019s pretty common to see nude people sunbathing in random public parks. It\u2019s perfectly \u003Cstrong\u003Elegal\u003C\/strong\u003E, it\u2019s considered \u003Cstrong\u003Enormal\u003C\/strong\u003E, and it\u2019s \u003Cstrong\u003Enot sexual\u003C\/strong\u003E and it\u2019s \u003Cstrong\u003Enot exhibitionistic\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWith WNBR there\u2019s an additional message attached to the public nudity: bringing the public\u2019s attention to the problems of car-based transportation in the cities and \u201cdelivering a vision of a cleaner, safer, body-positive world\u201d. \u003Cstrong\u003EIt\u2019s a political statement, not a sexual act.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETake it from a person who has actually done it once: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-first-world-naked-bike-ride-and-i-absolutelly-loved-it.lite\u0022\u003E My first World Naked Bike Ride \u2013 and I absolutelly loved it!\u003C\/a\u003E. I rode totally naked through the city centre of Amsterdam, and yet I\u2019m not a exhibitionist. I don\u2019t get off of that sexually, I don\u2019t fantasise about it, I\u2019m totally capable of achieving sexual pleasure without any stranger seeing me. I simply enjoy being naked, that\u2019s it.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022143.88845855926\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Full disclosure: I did have sex in public places a couple of times, but the whole point was \u003Cstrong\u003Enot\u003C\/strong\u003E to get caught by anyone. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642 I also post some explicit content online sometimes, but it\u2019s specifically targeted to people who want to see it. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt differs between countries, obviously, but in all of those I\u2019ve been publicly naked in: \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea Germany, \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddf1 The Netherlands and \ud83c\uddea\ud83c\uddf8 Spain, there\u2019s a distinction in law between just being naked in public (legal, with some exceptions like churches, cemeteries, schools...) and sexually exposing yourself (illegal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo, what about public nudity allegedly being gay? Some people on Twitter were thinking that those photos from WNBR were taken during Pride, which is simply not true. I happen to take part in both, but in general they are separate events targeted to a different group of people.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJudging from my observations of how few of my gay friends are eager to join me at a nude beach, and how many guys I\u2019ve met during the WNBR Amsterdam who talked about their wives\/girlfriends or came together with them \u2013 I can see no clear correlation between the LGBTQ community and naturists.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAlthough they do have a lot in common: freedom and openness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u2019s all it is about.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":562,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"},"pl":{"slug":"naturyzm-nie-jest-ekshibicjonizmem-i-nie-jest-gejowski","title":"Naturyzm NIE jest ekshibicjonizmem i NIE jest gejowski","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022600\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_small.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022600\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy\u0107 mo\u017ce dla wielu jest to oczywiste, (dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy znaj\u0105 \u003Cem\u003Eznaczenia s\u0142\u00f3w\u003C\/em\u003E), ale s\u0105dz\u0105c po tweetach z prawej strony, niekt\u00f3rzy mieszaj\u0105 naturyzm z ekshibicjonizmem, i my\u015bl\u0105, \u017ce \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E to przyk\u0142ad tego jak spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E seksualnie deprawuje Zach\u00f3d...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, naturyzm nie jest ani ekshibicjonizmem, ani domen\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w, a oto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022668\u0022 height=\u0022835\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_big.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022668\u0022 height=\u0022835\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\n                        \u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E\n                        twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\n                    \u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy\u0107 mo\u017ce dla wielu jest to oczywiste, (dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy znaj\u0105 \u003Cem\u003Eznaczenia s\u0142\u00f3w\u003C\/em\u003E), ale s\u0105dz\u0105c po tweetach z prawej strony, niekt\u00f3rzy mieszaj\u0105 naturyzm z ekshibicjonizmem, i my\u015bl\u0105, \u017ce \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E to przyk\u0142ad tego jak spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E seksualnie deprawuje Zach\u00f3d...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, naturyzm nie jest ani ekshibicjonizmem, ani domen\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w, a oto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZgodnie z \u003Cabbr title=\u0022International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems\u0022\u003EICD-10\u003C\/abbr\u003E \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.icd10data.com\/ICD10CM\/Codes\/F01-F99\/F60-F69\/F65-\/F65.2\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E F65.2\u003C\/a\u003E ekshibicjonizm jest klasyfikowany jako parafilia i opisany jako:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZaburzenie charakteryzuj\u0105ce si\u0119 nawracaj\u0105cymi pop\u0119dami seksualnymi, fantazjami lub zachowaniami zwi\u0105zanymi z eksponowaniem swoich genitali\u00f3w niczego nie podejrzewaj\u0105cym nieznajomym.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZaburzenie, w kt\u00f3rym fantazje lub eksponowanie genitali\u00f3w niczego nie podejrzewaj\u0105cemu nieznajomemu wywo\u0142uje podniecenie seksualne bez pr\u00f3by dalszej aktywno\u015bci seksualnej z tym nieznajomym.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA oto czym jest World Naked Bike Ride i og\u00f3lnie naturyzm: \u003Cstrong\u003Eczym\u015b zupe\u0142nie innym\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChodzi w nim o wolno\u015b\u0107, o kochanie swojego cia\u0142a, o nie dbanie o ciuchy, o czucie si\u0119 dobrze...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPrzewa\u017cnie jeste\u015bmy nago w domu albo na nagiej pla\u017cy, w\u015br\u00f3d innych naturyst\u00f3w... Ale niekoniecznie. Na przyk\u0142ad w Niemczech ca\u0142kiem cz\u0119sto mo\u017cna spotka\u0107 w publicznych parkach ludzi po prostu opalaj\u0105cych si\u0119 nago. Jest to ca\u0142kowicie \u003Cstrong\u003Elegalne\u003C\/strong\u003E, postrzegane jako \u003Cstrong\u003Enormalne\u003C\/strong\u003E, to \u003Cstrong\u003Enie ma podtekstu seksualnego\u003C\/strong\u003E i \u003Cstrong\u003Enie jest eksbibicjonizmem\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW przypadku WNBR nago\u015b\u0107 ma jeszcze dodatkowy przekaz: ma zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 uwag\u0119 opinii publicznej na problemy zwi\u0105zane z opieraniem transportu w miastach na samochodach oraz ma \u201cpokaza\u0107 wizj\u0119 czystszego, bezpieczniejszego, body-pozytywnego \u015bwiata\u201d. \u003Cstrong\u003EWNBR jest manifestem politycznym, a nie aktem seksualnym.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EM\u00f3wi to cz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry sam bra\u0142 w nim raz udzia\u0142: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-first-world-naked-bike-ride-and-i-absolutelly-loved-it\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-heartbeat\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E My first World Naked Bike Ride \u2013 and I absolutelly loved it!\u003C\/a\u003E. Wprawdzie jecha\u0142em ca\u0142kiem nago przez centrum Amsterdamu, a jednak nie jestem ekshibicjonist\u0105. Nie jara mnie to seksualnie, nie fantazjuj\u0119 o tym, nie potrzebuj\u0119 eksponowa\u0107 si\u0119 nieznajomym by osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107 satysfakcj\u0119 seksualn\u0105. Po prostu lubi\u0119 by\u0107 nago, to tyle.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022575.55383423703\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022960\u0022 height=\u0022575.55383423703\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Full disclosure: Musz\u0119 przyzna\u0107, \u017ce zdarzy\u0142o mi si\u0119 kilka razy uprawia\u0107 seks w miejscach publicznych, ale nie by\u0142 to ekshibicjonizm, a wr\u0119cz przeciwnie: w\u0142a\u015bnie o to chodzi\u0142o, by nikt nas nie przy\u0142apa\u0142 \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642 Wrzucam te\u017c czasem seksualny content do Internetu, ale jest on konkretnie kierowany do ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy chc\u0105 go zobaczy\u0107. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW r\u00f3\u017cnych krajach wygl\u0105da to r\u00f3\u017cnie, wiadomo, ale we wszystkich tych, gdzie by\u0142em publicznie nago: \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea Niemczech, \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddf1 Niderlandach i \ud83c\uddea\ud83c\uddf8 Hiszpanii, istnieje w prawie rozr\u00f3\u017cnienie pomi\u0119dzy po prostu byciem nago publicznie (co jest legalne, z paroma wyj\u0105tkami jak ko\u015bcio\u0142y, cmentarze, szko\u0142y...), a obna\u017caniem si\u0119 przed kim\u015b seksualnie (nielegalne).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA teraz kwestia tego, \u017ce publiczna nago\u015b\u0107 jest niby domen\u0105 homoseksulist\u00f3w. Niekt\u00f3rzy na Twitterze uwa\u017caj\u0105, \u017ce te zdj\u0119cia z WNBR by\u0142y zrobione podczas kt\u00f3rej\u015b z Parad R\u00f3wno\u015bci \u2013 a to zwyczajnie nie jest prawda. Ja akurat chodz\u0119 i na jedno i na drugie, ale s\u0105 to zupe\u0142nie osobne wydarzenia skierowane do r\u00f3\u017cnych grup ludzi.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ES\u0105dz\u0105c po moich obserwacjach, jak niewielu moich znajomych gej\u00f3w chce p\u00f3j\u015b\u0107 ze mn\u0105 na nag\u0105 pla\u017c\u0119, oraz jak wielu facet\u00f3w poznanych na WNBR Amsterdam opowiada\u0142o o swoich \u017conach\/dziewczynach albo przysz\u0142o razem z nimi \u2013 nie widz\u0119 korelacji mi\u0119dzy byciem LGBTQ a byciem naturyst\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAczkolwiek obie grupy maj\u0105 sporo wsp\u00f3lnego: wolno\u015b\u0107 i otwarto\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tylko o to w tym wszystkim chodzi.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["dewiacja","ekshibicjonizm","homoseksualno\u015b\u0107","lgbtq","nago\u015b\u0107","naturyzm","nudyzm","rower","wnbr","zboczenie"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_small.png","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022300\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy\u0107 mo\u017ce dla wielu jest to oczywiste, (dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy znaj\u0105 \u003Cem\u003Eznaczenia s\u0142\u00f3w\u003C\/em\u003E), ale s\u0105dz\u0105c po tweetach z prawej strony, niekt\u00f3rzy mieszaj\u0105 naturyzm z ekshibicjonizmem, i my\u015bl\u0105, \u017ce \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E to przyk\u0142ad tego jak spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E seksualnie deprawuje Zach\u00f3d...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, naturyzm nie jest ani ekshibicjonizmem, ani domen\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w, a oto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_big.png\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-gay-prawak_mini.png\u0022 alt=\u0022@PoddanyKorony on Twitter: \u0022Pozwolimy LGBT i innym lewicowcom na za du\u017co, to b\u0119d\u0105 po naszych miastach je\u017adzi\u0107 nago na rowerze. Tak, jak ma to miejsce w miastach by\u0142ej cywilizacji Zachodu.\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022300\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/twitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etwitter.com\/PoddanyKorony\/status\/1107342197974802432\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBy\u0107 mo\u017ce dla wielu jest to oczywiste, (dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy znaj\u0105 \u003Cem\u003Eznaczenia s\u0142\u00f3w\u003C\/em\u003E), ale s\u0105dz\u0105c po tweetach z prawej strony, niekt\u00f3rzy mieszaj\u0105 naturyzm z ekshibicjonizmem, i my\u015bl\u0105, \u017ce \u003Cabbr title=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride\u0022\u003EWNBR\u003C\/abbr\u003E to przyk\u0142ad tego jak spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 \u003Cabbr title=\u0022Lesbian Gay Bisexual Trans Queer\u0022\u003ELGBTQ\u003C\/abbr\u003E seksualnie deprawuje Zach\u00f3d...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWell, naturyzm nie jest ani ekshibicjonizmem, ani domen\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w, a oto dlaczego:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZgodnie z \u003Cabbr title=\u0022International Statistical Classification of Diseases and Related Health Problems\u0022\u003EICD-10\u003C\/abbr\u003E \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.icd10data.com\/ICD10CM\/Codes\/F01-F99\/F60-F69\/F65-\/F65.2\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E F65.2\u003C\/a\u003E ekshibicjonizm jest klasyfikowany jako parafilia i opisany jako:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZaburzenie charakteryzuj\u0105ce si\u0119 nawracaj\u0105cymi pop\u0119dami seksualnymi, fantazjami lub zachowaniami zwi\u0105zanymi z eksponowaniem swoich genitali\u00f3w niczego nie podejrzewaj\u0105cym nieznajomym.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZaburzenie, w kt\u00f3rym fantazje lub eksponowanie genitali\u00f3w niczego nie podejrzewaj\u0105cemu nieznajomemu wywo\u0142uje podniecenie seksualne bez pr\u00f3by dalszej aktywno\u015bci seksualnej z tym nieznajomym.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA oto czym jest World Naked Bike Ride i og\u00f3lnie naturyzm: \u003Cstrong\u003Eczym\u015b zupe\u0142nie innym\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EChodzi w nim o wolno\u015b\u0107, o kochanie swojego cia\u0142a, o nie dbanie o ciuchy, o czucie si\u0119 dobrze...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPrzewa\u017cnie jeste\u015bmy nago w domu albo na nagiej pla\u017cy, w\u015br\u00f3d innych naturyst\u00f3w... Ale niekoniecznie. Na przyk\u0142ad w Niemczech ca\u0142kiem cz\u0119sto mo\u017cna spotka\u0107 w publicznych parkach ludzi po prostu opalaj\u0105cych si\u0119 nago. Jest to ca\u0142kowicie \u003Cstrong\u003Elegalne\u003C\/strong\u003E, postrzegane jako \u003Cstrong\u003Enormalne\u003C\/strong\u003E, to \u003Cstrong\u003Enie ma podtekstu seksualnego\u003C\/strong\u003E i \u003Cstrong\u003Enie jest eksbibicjonizmem\u003C\/strong\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW przypadku WNBR nago\u015b\u0107 ma jeszcze dodatkowy przekaz: ma zwr\u00f3ci\u0107 uwag\u0119 opinii publicznej na problemy zwi\u0105zane z opieraniem transportu w miastach na samochodach oraz ma \u201cpokaza\u0107 wizj\u0119 czystszego, bezpieczniejszego, body-pozytywnego \u015bwiata\u201d. \u003Cstrong\u003EWNBR jest manifestem politycznym, a nie aktem seksualnym.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EM\u00f3wi to cz\u0142owiek, kt\u00f3ry sam bra\u0142 w nim raz udzia\u0142: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/my-first-world-naked-bike-ride-and-i-absolutelly-loved-it.lite\u0022\u003E My first World Naked Bike Ride \u2013 and I absolutelly loved it!\u003C\/a\u003E. Wprawdzie jecha\u0142em ca\u0142kiem nago przez centrum Amsterdamu, a jednak nie jestem ekshibicjonist\u0105. Nie jara mnie to seksualnie, nie fantazjuj\u0119 o tym, nie potrzebuj\u0119 eksponowa\u0107 si\u0119 nieznajomym by osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107 satysfakcj\u0119 seksualn\u0105. Po prostu lubi\u0119 by\u0107 nago, to tyle.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/wnbr-iamsterdam_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022World Naked Bike Ride Amsterdam 2018\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022143.88845855926\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E(Full disclosure: Musz\u0119 przyzna\u0107, \u017ce zdarzy\u0142o mi si\u0119 kilka razy uprawia\u0107 seks w miejscach publicznych, ale nie by\u0142 to ekshibicjonizm, a wr\u0119cz przeciwnie: w\u0142a\u015bnie o to chodzi\u0142o, by nikt nas nie przy\u0142apa\u0142 \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642 Wrzucam te\u017c czasem seksualny content do Internetu, ale jest on konkretnie kierowany do ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy chc\u0105 go zobaczy\u0107. \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW r\u00f3\u017cnych krajach wygl\u0105da to r\u00f3\u017cnie, wiadomo, ale we wszystkich tych, gdzie by\u0142em publicznie nago: \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea Niemczech, \ud83c\uddf3\ud83c\uddf1 Niderlandach i \ud83c\uddea\ud83c\uddf8 Hiszpanii, istnieje w prawie rozr\u00f3\u017cnienie pomi\u0119dzy po prostu byciem nago publicznie (co jest legalne, z paroma wyj\u0105tkami jak ko\u015bcio\u0142y, cmentarze, szko\u0142y...), a obna\u017caniem si\u0119 przed kim\u015b seksualnie (nielegalne).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA teraz kwestia tego, \u017ce publiczna nago\u015b\u0107 jest niby domen\u0105 homoseksulist\u00f3w. Niekt\u00f3rzy na Twitterze uwa\u017caj\u0105, \u017ce te zdj\u0119cia z WNBR by\u0142y zrobione podczas kt\u00f3rej\u015b z Parad R\u00f3wno\u015bci \u2013 a to zwyczajnie nie jest prawda. Ja akurat chodz\u0119 i na jedno i na drugie, ale s\u0105 to zupe\u0142nie osobne wydarzenia skierowane do r\u00f3\u017cnych grup ludzi.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ES\u0105dz\u0105c po moich obserwacjach, jak niewielu moich znajomych gej\u00f3w chce p\u00f3j\u015b\u0107 ze mn\u0105 na nag\u0105 pla\u017c\u0119, oraz jak wielu facet\u00f3w poznanych na WNBR Amsterdam opowiada\u0142o o swoich \u017conach\/dziewczynach albo przysz\u0142o razem z nimi \u2013 nie widz\u0119 korelacji mi\u0119dzy byciem LGBTQ a byciem naturyst\u0105.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAczkolwiek obie grupy maj\u0105 sporo wsp\u00f3lnego: wolno\u015b\u0107 i otwarto\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI tylko o to w tym wszystkim chodzi.\u003C\/p\u003E","words":574,"readTime":3,"lang":"pl"}}},"blog\/mythology\/jest\u0119-homoterroryst\u0119":{"key":"blog\/mythology\/jest\u0119-homoterroryst\u0119","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2018-09-06T16:21:53+02:00","publishedAt":"2018-09-06T16:02:00+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"mythology","slug":"jest\u0119-homoterroryst\u0119"},"content":{"pl":{"slug":"jest\u0119-homoterroryst\u0119","title":"Jest\u0119 homoterroryst\u0119... \ud83e\udd23","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022287.01030927835\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022287.01030927835\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E15 wrze\u015bnia ulicami mojego rodzinnego Szczecina przejdzie pierwszy w historii Marsz R\u00f3wno\u015bci. 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Trzymam kciuki za \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lambda.szczecin.pl\/aktualnosci\/nie-skladamy-parasolek-oswiadczenie-po-ataku-na-piknik\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Lambd\u0119\u003C\/a\u003E, by wreszcie si\u0119 to uda\u0142o!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem \u201c\u015brodowisko patriotyczne i kombatanckie\u201d \u015ble do prezydenta Krzystka list, kt\u00f3ry jest tak absurdalny, \u017ce a\u017c nie wiem, czy si\u0119 z niego \u015bmia\u0107, czy po\u0142o\u017cy\u0107 si\u0119 i czeka\u0107 na \u015bmier\u0107 z za\u017cenowania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022679\u0022 height=\u0022960\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror_big.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border\u0022 width=\u0022679\u0022 height=\u0022960\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E1.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPodzia\u0142 na akapity najwidoczeniej autor\u00f3w listu przerasta.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E2.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cwyra\u017camy zaniepokojenie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u017celi kogo\u015b niepokoi pokojowa demonstracja, kt\u00f3ra w historii sobie podobnych nie ma przypadk\u00f3w agresji uczestnik\u00f3w, g\u0142oszenia hase\u0142 nienawi\u015bci, ani nic podobnego, to ja mu szczerze wsp\u00f3\u0142czuj\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E3.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cZauwa\u017camy poruszenie i negatywne odczucia mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w Szczecina\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo wy sami jeste\u015bcie tymi poruszonymi \u201cmieszka\u0144cami Szczecina\u201d. Wielu si\u0119 z wami zgadza, ale wielu te\u017c nie. To, \u017ce w 400-tysi\u0119cznym mie\u015bcie znajd\u0105 si\u0119 ludzie, kt\u00f3rzy chc\u0105 dyskryminowa\u0107 osoby LGBTQ, nie jest ani odkrywcze, ani istotne. Nie pr\u00f3bujcie nikomu wmawia\u0107, \u017ce reprezentujecie mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w Szczecina, bo nie reprezentujecie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E4.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cUwa\u017camy, \u017ce ka\u017cdy zas\u0142uguje na szacunek oraz na takie same traktowanie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERaczej \u201ctakie samo\u201d... Ech, patrioci, poloni\u015bci za dych\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPoza tym: wcale tak nie uwa\u017cacie, i dobrze o tym wiecie. Popieracie prawa i inicjatywy jawnie dyskryminuj\u0105ce osoby nieheteronormatywne, wzniecacie nienawi\u015b\u0107 wobec obcokrajowc\u00f3w... To jest klasyczne \u201cnie jestem rasist\u0105, ale...\u201d, po kt\u00f3rym zawsze nast\u0119puje co\u015b rasistowskiego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E5.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cprzeciwstawiamy si\u0119 promowaniu dewiacji seksualnych\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMam dla was newsa: my te\u017c. Na naszych transparentach nie ma tekst\u00f3w w stylu \u201cpodgl\u0105danie ludzi uprawiaj\u0105cych seks jest fajne\u201d ani \u201cno we\u017a zgwa\u0142\u0107 jakie\u015b dziecko\u201d. Homo- i biseksualizm nie s\u0105 dewiacjami. Nawet je\u015bli by by\u0142y, nie da si\u0119 ich promowa\u0107 \u2013 nikt, kto nie czuje poci\u0105gu do facet\u00f3w, nie zacznie sypia\u0107 z facetami tylko dlatego, \u017ce zobaczy\u0142 t\u0119czow\u0105 flag\u0119. Nawet je\u015bli by si\u0119 da\u0142o to \u201cpromowa\u0107\u201d, wcale tego nie robimy \u2013 promujemy tolerancj\u0119 dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy do LGBTQ nale\u017c\u0105, a nie \u201cwerbujemy nowych cz\u0142onk\u00f3w\u201d \ud83e\udd26\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E6.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cpodwa\u017cania takich warto\u015bci jak B\u00f3g, Honor i Ojczyzna\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEch... Ja osobi\u015bcie jak najbardziej podwa\u017cam istnienie \u201cBoga\u201d i sens przywi\u0105zania do loterii narodzin, jak\u0105 jest \u201cOjczyzna\u201d, ale pierwsze s\u0142ysz\u0119, \u017ceby marsze\/parady r\u00f3wno\u015bci co\u015b takiego g\u0142osi\u0142y. Wasze narzekanie jest zupe\u0142nie nie na temat. Offtop. Bicie chocho\u0142a.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E7.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201ctolerancjonizm b\u0119d\u0105cy de facto bezkrytyczn\u0105 akceptacj\u0105 z\u0142a, hedonizm i egoizm\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPuszczaj\u0105c ju\u017c mimo oczu wasz\u0105 nieumiej\u0119tno\u015b\u0107 stawiania przecink\u00f3w w oficjalnych pismach... Bezkrytyczna akceptacja z\u0142a? Serio w to wierzycie? Sam na swoim blogasku wielokrotnie pisa\u0142em o moralno\u015bci (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/moral-code-of-slavery\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-pastafarianism\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Kodeks moralny niewolnictwa\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/relatywizm-moralny\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-pastafarianism\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Relatywizm moralny\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi%C5%82a-nienawi%C5%9B%C4%87\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-pastafarianism\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E ks. Piotr Pawlukiewicz \u2013 bardzo mi\u0142a nienawi\u015b\u0107\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/pope-francis-i-pinky-swear-i-won-t-be-a-criminal-anymore\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-pastafarianism\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Pope Francis: I pinky swear, I won\u0027t be a criminal anymore!\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/moral-code-of-slavery\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-pastafarianism\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Kodeks moralny niewolnictwa\u003C\/a\u003E, ...), wcale nie bezkrytycznie, stanowczo pot\u0119piaj\u0105c czyny, kt\u00f3re uwa\u017cam za niemoralne. Nie znam ani jednego cz\u0142owieka, czy to po\u015br\u00f3d LGBTQ czy nie, kt\u00f3ry \u201cbezkrytycznie akceptowa\u0142by z\u0142o\u201d, jakim jest na przyk\u0142ad morderstwo, kradzie\u017c, gwa\u0142t czy pedofilia.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E8.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cdomagaj\u0105c si\u0119 dla siebie nieograniczonej tolerancji\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENikt si\u0119 nie domaga dla siebie nieograniczonej tolerancji. Nikt nie chce sta\u0107 ponad prawem. Geje nie chc\u0105, \u017ceby uchodzi\u0142o im na sucho, no nie wiem, przechodzenie na czerwonym czy ekshibicjonizm. Chc\u0105 jedynie tolerancji wobec tego, \u017ce kochaj\u0105 osoby tej samej p\u0142ci, i tyle.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E9.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cnie maj\u0105 tej tolerancji dla nikogo innego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJa mam. Na przyk\u0142ad dla pozosta\u0142ych homoseksualist\u00f3w. Dla biseksualist\u00f3w. Dla heteroseksualist\u00f3w. Dla katolik\u00f3w. Dla buddyst\u00f3w. Dla Francuz\u00f3w. Dla Syryjczyk\u00f3w. Dla lewor\u0119cznych. D\u0142ugo jeszcze musz\u0119 wymienia\u0107?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u015arodowiska lewicowe jak najbardziej maj\u0105 pe\u0142no tolerancji, kt\u00f3r\u0105 tak promuj\u0105, a twierdzenie \u017ce tak nie jest to zwyczajne k\u0142amstwo.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E10.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cz prowokacyjnego zachowania aktywist\u00f3w LGBT\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAktywi\u015bci LGBT tak prowokuj\u0105 homofob\u00f3w, jak zebra prowokuje lwa, a dzieci kusz\u0105 ksi\u0119\u017cy-pedofil\u00f3w.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E11.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cBrak reakcji ze strony miasta\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAno w\u0142a\u015bnie, dochodzimy do chyba najwa\u017cniejszego punktu: co niby miasto mia\u0142oby z tym fantem zrobi\u0107? Jakie s\u0105 wasze \u017c\u0105dania? Co chcecie osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107? A\u017c tak g\u0142upi nie byli\u015bcie, by \u017c\u0105da\u0107 od prezydenta zakazu Marszu, bo najwidoczniej wiecie, \u017ce prezydent nie ma prawa zakaza\u0107 pokojowej demonstracji. W takim razie czego w\u0142a\u015bciwie od niego chcecie?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E12.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cskutkuje swoistym homoterrorem\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\ud83e\udd26\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E13.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201coraz niepokojem spo\u0142ecznym\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak, ale to wy go tworzycie! Grupa u\u015bmiechni\u0119tych ludzi id\u0105ca przez miasto z t\u0119czowymi flagami i domagaj\u0105ca si\u0119 r\u00f3wnego traktowania nie tworzy niepokoju spo\u0142ecznego. Za to grupa ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy z czystej nienawi\u015bci wyzywaj\u0105 ich od \u201cterroryst\u00f3w\u201d, albo grupa ludzi, kt\u00f3ra pr\u00f3buje fizycznie zaatakowa\u0107 taki pokojowy przemarsz \u2013 jak najbardziej. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E14.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW\u015br\u00f3d podpis\u00f3w widz\u0119 podpis Tomasza Kancelarczyka, katolickiego ksi\u0119dza, gwiazdy ruchu anti-choice, asystenta ko\u015bcielnego stowarzyszenia Civitas Christiana i za\u0142o\u017cyciela Bractwa Ma\u0142ych St\u00f3pek. Tak si\u0119 sk\u0142ada, \u017ce znam wiele os\u00f3b, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 lub by\u0142y cz\u0142onkami tych grup. I wiem, \u017ce co najmniej pi\u0119\u0107 spo\u015br\u00f3d nich jest homo- lub biseksualnych, a zapewne sporo wi\u0119cej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECzy te osoby s\u0142ysza\u0142y, co o nich s\u0105dzi ich (by\u0107 mo\u017ce ju\u017c by\u0142y) duszpasterz? Czy pan Kancelarczyk zdaje sobie spraw\u0119, \u017ce swoj\u0105 nienawi\u015bci\u0105 bezpo\u015brednio krzywdzi osoby g\u0142\u0119boko wierz\u0105ce i zaanga\u017cowane w jego \u201cwalk\u0119 o \u017cycie\u201d?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPodsumowuj\u0105c\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESzczerze m\u00f3wi\u0105c, gdyby \u015brodowiska LGBTQ naprawd\u0119 wygl\u0105da\u0142y tak, jak ich maluj\u0105 w powy\u017cszym li\u015bcie, sam bym protestowa\u0142. Terroryzm? Narzucanie innym swojej orientacji? Podburzanie niepokoi spo\u0142ecznych? Propagowanie absolutnej bezkarno\u015bci dla z\u0142a? Delegalizowa\u0107 to jak najpr\u0119dzej!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETyle \u017ce spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 LGBTQ wcale tak nie wygl\u0105da, a marsze r\u00f3wno\u015bci wcale takich rzeczy nie propaguj\u0105. Powy\u017cszy list nie odnosi si\u0119 do \u017cadnego realnie istniej\u0105cego problemu, ani nie domaga si\u0119 \u017cadnych konkretnych dzia\u0142a\u0144. Ten list jest wy\u0142\u0105cznie zrodzonym z nienawi\u015bci p\u0142aczem rozkapryszonego dziecka, kt\u00f3re ryczy \u201cale ja nie lubi\u0119 tych peda\u0142\u00f3w!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPS. \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lambda.szczecin.pl\/aktualnosci\/nasza-odpowiedz-na-list-otwarty-do-prezydenta\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Oficjalna odpowied\u017a Lambdy\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["anti-choice","dyskryminacja","homoseksualno\u015b\u0107","homoterror","ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 katolicki","lgbtq","marsz r\u00f3wno\u015bci","nawo\u0142ywanie do nienawi\u015bci","nienawi\u015b\u0107","parada r\u00f3wno\u015bci","patriotyzm","r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107","szczecin"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022143.50515463918\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E15 wrze\u015bnia ulicami mojego rodzinnego Szczecina przejdzie pierwszy w historii Marsz R\u00f3wno\u015bci. Trzymam kciuki za \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lambda.szczecin.pl\/aktualnosci\/nie-skladamy-parasolek-oswiadczenie-po-ataku-na-piknik\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Lambd\u0119\u003C\/a\u003E, by wreszcie si\u0119 to uda\u0142o!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem \u201c\u015brodowisko patriotyczne i kombatanckie\u201d \u015ble do prezydenta Krzystka list, kt\u00f3ry jest tak absurdalny, \u017ce a\u017c nie wiem, czy si\u0119 z niego \u015bmia\u0107, czy po\u0142o\u017cy\u0107 si\u0119 i czeka\u0107 na \u015bmier\u0107 z za\u017cenowania.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror-facepalm_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022143.50515463918\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E15 wrze\u015bnia ulicami mojego rodzinnego Szczecina przejdzie pierwszy w historii Marsz R\u00f3wno\u015bci. Trzymam kciuki za \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lambda.szczecin.pl\/aktualnosci\/nie-skladamy-parasolek-oswiadczenie-po-ataku-na-piknik\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Lambd\u0119\u003C\/a\u003E, by wreszcie si\u0119 to uda\u0142o!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETymczasem \u201c\u015brodowisko patriotyczne i kombatanckie\u201d \u015ble do prezydenta Krzystka list, kt\u00f3ry jest tak absurdalny, \u017ce a\u017c nie wiem, czy si\u0119 z niego \u015bmia\u0107, czy po\u0142o\u017cy\u0107 si\u0119 i czeka\u0107 na \u015bmier\u0107 z za\u017cenowania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/homoterror_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022339.32253313697\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E1.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPodzia\u0142 na akapity najwidoczeniej autor\u00f3w listu przerasta.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E2.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cwyra\u017camy zaniepokojenie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJe\u017celi kogo\u015b niepokoi pokojowa demonstracja, kt\u00f3ra w historii sobie podobnych nie ma przypadk\u00f3w agresji uczestnik\u00f3w, g\u0142oszenia hase\u0142 nienawi\u015bci, ani nic podobnego, to ja mu szczerze wsp\u00f3\u0142czuj\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E3.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cZauwa\u017camy poruszenie i negatywne odczucia mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w Szczecina\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo wy sami jeste\u015bcie tymi poruszonymi \u201cmieszka\u0144cami Szczecina\u201d. Wielu si\u0119 z wami zgadza, ale wielu te\u017c nie. To, \u017ce w 400-tysi\u0119cznym mie\u015bcie znajd\u0105 si\u0119 ludzie, kt\u00f3rzy chc\u0105 dyskryminowa\u0107 osoby LGBTQ, nie jest ani odkrywcze, ani istotne. Nie pr\u00f3bujcie nikomu wmawia\u0107, \u017ce reprezentujecie mieszka\u0144c\u00f3w Szczecina, bo nie reprezentujecie.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E4.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cUwa\u017camy, \u017ce ka\u017cdy zas\u0142uguje na szacunek oraz na takie same traktowanie\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ERaczej \u201ctakie samo\u201d... Ech, patrioci, poloni\u015bci za dych\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPoza tym: wcale tak nie uwa\u017cacie, i dobrze o tym wiecie. Popieracie prawa i inicjatywy jawnie dyskryminuj\u0105ce osoby nieheteronormatywne, wzniecacie nienawi\u015b\u0107 wobec obcokrajowc\u00f3w... To jest klasyczne \u201cnie jestem rasist\u0105, ale...\u201d, po kt\u00f3rym zawsze nast\u0119puje co\u015b rasistowskiego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E5.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cprzeciwstawiamy si\u0119 promowaniu dewiacji seksualnych\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMam dla was newsa: my te\u017c. Na naszych transparentach nie ma tekst\u00f3w w stylu \u201cpodgl\u0105danie ludzi uprawiaj\u0105cych seks jest fajne\u201d ani \u201cno we\u017a zgwa\u0142\u0107 jakie\u015b dziecko\u201d. Homo- i biseksualizm nie s\u0105 dewiacjami. Nawet je\u015bli by by\u0142y, nie da si\u0119 ich promowa\u0107 \u2013 nikt, kto nie czuje poci\u0105gu do facet\u00f3w, nie zacznie sypia\u0107 z facetami tylko dlatego, \u017ce zobaczy\u0142 t\u0119czow\u0105 flag\u0119. Nawet je\u015bli by si\u0119 da\u0142o to \u201cpromowa\u0107\u201d, wcale tego nie robimy \u2013 promujemy tolerancj\u0119 dla tych, kt\u00f3rzy do LGBTQ nale\u017c\u0105, a nie \u201cwerbujemy nowych cz\u0142onk\u00f3w\u201d \ud83e\udd26\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E6.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cpodwa\u017cania takich warto\u015bci jak B\u00f3g, Honor i Ojczyzna\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEch... Ja osobi\u015bcie jak najbardziej podwa\u017cam istnienie \u201cBoga\u201d i sens przywi\u0105zania do loterii narodzin, jak\u0105 jest \u201cOjczyzna\u201d, ale pierwsze s\u0142ysz\u0119, \u017ceby marsze\/parady r\u00f3wno\u015bci co\u015b takiego g\u0142osi\u0142y. Wasze narzekanie jest zupe\u0142nie nie na temat. Offtop. Bicie chocho\u0142a.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E7.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201ctolerancjonizm b\u0119d\u0105cy de facto bezkrytyczn\u0105 akceptacj\u0105 z\u0142a, hedonizm i egoizm\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPuszczaj\u0105c ju\u017c mimo oczu wasz\u0105 nieumiej\u0119tno\u015b\u0107 stawiania przecink\u00f3w w oficjalnych pismach... Bezkrytyczna akceptacja z\u0142a? Serio w to wierzycie? Sam na swoim blogasku wielokrotnie pisa\u0142em o moralno\u015bci (\u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/moral-code-of-slavery.lite\u0022\u003E Kodeks moralny niewolnictwa\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/relatywizm-moralny.lite\u0022\u003E Relatywizm moralny\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi%C5%82a-nienawi%C5%9B%C4%87.lite\u0022\u003E ks. Piotr Pawlukiewicz \u2013 bardzo mi\u0142a nienawi\u015b\u0107\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/pope-francis-i-pinky-swear-i-won-t-be-a-criminal-anymore.lite\u0022\u003E Pope Francis: I pinky swear, I won\u0027t be a criminal anymore!\u003C\/a\u003E, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/moral-code-of-slavery.lite\u0022\u003E Kodeks moralny niewolnictwa\u003C\/a\u003E, ...), wcale nie bezkrytycznie, stanowczo pot\u0119piaj\u0105c czyny, kt\u00f3re uwa\u017cam za niemoralne. Nie znam ani jednego cz\u0142owieka, czy to po\u015br\u00f3d LGBTQ czy nie, kt\u00f3ry \u201cbezkrytycznie akceptowa\u0142by z\u0142o\u201d, jakim jest na przyk\u0142ad morderstwo, kradzie\u017c, gwa\u0142t czy pedofilia.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E8.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cdomagaj\u0105c si\u0119 dla siebie nieograniczonej tolerancji\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENikt si\u0119 nie domaga dla siebie nieograniczonej tolerancji. Nikt nie chce sta\u0107 ponad prawem. Geje nie chc\u0105, \u017ceby uchodzi\u0142o im na sucho, no nie wiem, przechodzenie na czerwonym czy ekshibicjonizm. Chc\u0105 jedynie tolerancji wobec tego, \u017ce kochaj\u0105 osoby tej samej p\u0142ci, i tyle.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E9.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cnie maj\u0105 tej tolerancji dla nikogo innego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJa mam. Na przyk\u0142ad dla pozosta\u0142ych homoseksualist\u00f3w. Dla biseksualist\u00f3w. Dla heteroseksualist\u00f3w. Dla katolik\u00f3w. Dla buddyst\u00f3w. Dla Francuz\u00f3w. Dla Syryjczyk\u00f3w. Dla lewor\u0119cznych. D\u0142ugo jeszcze musz\u0119 wymienia\u0107?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u015arodowiska lewicowe jak najbardziej maj\u0105 pe\u0142no tolerancji, kt\u00f3r\u0105 tak promuj\u0105, a twierdzenie \u017ce tak nie jest to zwyczajne k\u0142amstwo.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E10.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cz prowokacyjnego zachowania aktywist\u00f3w LGBT\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAktywi\u015bci LGBT tak prowokuj\u0105 homofob\u00f3w, jak zebra prowokuje lwa, a dzieci kusz\u0105 ksi\u0119\u017cy-pedofil\u00f3w.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E11.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cBrak reakcji ze strony miasta\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAno w\u0142a\u015bnie, dochodzimy do chyba najwa\u017cniejszego punktu: co niby miasto mia\u0142oby z tym fantem zrobi\u0107? Jakie s\u0105 wasze \u017c\u0105dania? Co chcecie osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107? A\u017c tak g\u0142upi nie byli\u015bcie, by \u017c\u0105da\u0107 od prezydenta zakazu Marszu, bo najwidoczniej wiecie, \u017ce prezydent nie ma prawa zakaza\u0107 pokojowej demonstracji. W takim razie czego w\u0142a\u015bciwie od niego chcecie?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E12.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cskutkuje swoistym homoterrorem\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\ud83e\udd26\u200d\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E13.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201coraz niepokojem spo\u0142ecznym\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak, ale to wy go tworzycie! Grupa u\u015bmiechni\u0119tych ludzi id\u0105ca przez miasto z t\u0119czowymi flagami i domagaj\u0105ca si\u0119 r\u00f3wnego traktowania nie tworzy niepokoju spo\u0142ecznego. Za to grupa ludzi, kt\u00f3rzy z czystej nienawi\u015bci wyzywaj\u0105 ich od \u201cterroryst\u00f3w\u201d, albo grupa ludzi, kt\u00f3ra pr\u00f3buje fizycznie zaatakowa\u0107 taki pokojowy przemarsz \u2013 jak najbardziej. \u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003E14.\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW\u015br\u00f3d podpis\u00f3w widz\u0119 podpis Tomasza Kancelarczyka, katolickiego ksi\u0119dza, gwiazdy ruchu anti-choice, asystenta ko\u015bcielnego stowarzyszenia Civitas Christiana i za\u0142o\u017cyciela Bractwa Ma\u0142ych St\u00f3pek. Tak si\u0119 sk\u0142ada, \u017ce znam wiele os\u00f3b, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 lub by\u0142y cz\u0142onkami tych grup. I wiem, \u017ce co najmniej pi\u0119\u0107 spo\u015br\u00f3d nich jest homo- lub biseksualnych, a zapewne sporo wi\u0119cej.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECzy te osoby s\u0142ysza\u0142y, co o nich s\u0105dzi ich (by\u0107 mo\u017ce ju\u017c by\u0142y) duszpasterz? Czy pan Kancelarczyk zdaje sobie spraw\u0119, \u017ce swoj\u0105 nienawi\u015bci\u0105 bezpo\u015brednio krzywdzi osoby g\u0142\u0119boko wierz\u0105ce i zaanga\u017cowane w jego \u201cwalk\u0119 o \u017cycie\u201d?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EPodsumowuj\u0105c\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESzczerze m\u00f3wi\u0105c, gdyby \u015brodowiska LGBTQ naprawd\u0119 wygl\u0105da\u0142y tak, jak ich maluj\u0105 w powy\u017cszym li\u015bcie, sam bym protestowa\u0142. Terroryzm? Narzucanie innym swojej orientacji? Podburzanie niepokoi spo\u0142ecznych? Propagowanie absolutnej bezkarno\u015bci dla z\u0142a? Delegalizowa\u0107 to jak najpr\u0119dzej!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETyle \u017ce spo\u0142eczno\u015b\u0107 LGBTQ wcale tak nie wygl\u0105da, a marsze r\u00f3wno\u015bci wcale takich rzeczy nie propaguj\u0105. Powy\u017cszy list nie odnosi si\u0119 do \u017cadnego realnie istniej\u0105cego problemu, ani nie domaga si\u0119 \u017cadnych konkretnych dzia\u0142a\u0144. Ten list jest wy\u0142\u0105cznie zrodzonym z nienawi\u015bci p\u0142aczem rozkapryszonego dziecka, kt\u00f3re ryczy \u201cale ja nie lubi\u0119 tych peda\u0142\u00f3w!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPS. \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/lambda.szczecin.pl\/aktualnosci\/nasza-odpowiedz-na-list-otwarty-do-prezydenta\/\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Oficjalna odpowied\u017a 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Why? Because they have even less of a moral highground than the other biggots. 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How was your weekend?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Morning! Well, we went do Poland to visit my boyfriend\u2019s family and we...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Oh, so you have a boyfriend? That\u2019s ok. You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... 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How was your weekend?\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Morning! Well, we went do Poland to visit my boyfriend\u2019s family and we...\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Oh, so you have a boyfriend? That\u2019s ok. You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... What\u2019s your point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESaying \u201cI have gay friends\u201d might seem like a good way to show someone that you\u2019re okay with them being gay. In reality, it mostly just shows that you\u2019re desperately trying to \u003Cstrong\u003Eshow off your tolerance\u003C\/strong\u003E. It shows that you treat homosexuality as something \u003Cem\u003Estrange, but tolerable\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut you know what kind of support do LGBTQ people \u003Cem\u003Ereally\u003C\/em\u003E need? We just want \u003Cstrong\u003Eto be treated like everyone else\u003C\/strong\u003E \u2013 that\u2019s it. Try replacing \u201cboyfriend\u201d with \u201cgirlfriend\u201d in the dialogue above. You might be surprised (\u201dOh, I thought you were single!\u201d), you might get interested in the other person\u2019s relationship (\u201dHow did you two meet?\u201d), you might just talk abobut the actual subject of the conversation (\u201dCool, did you have fun on your trip?\u201d) \u2013 but you wouldn\u2019t comment on the other person\u2019s heterosexuality, right?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EIt\u2019s that simple \u2013 \u003Cstrong\u003Ewe\u2019re just people\u003C\/strong\u003E, with similar passions, similar problems, similar relationships and the same need for love.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOne day we won\u2019t have to \u201ccome out of the closet\u201d. We\u2019ll just say we are in love and that will be all that matters \u2013 \u003Cem\u003EEllen Degeneres\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter my wedding, I\u2019m proud to say, I realised I\u2019d finally reached the point where \u003Cstrong\u003Ecoming out is not an issue\u003C\/strong\u003E anymore. I won\u2019t ever come out again. Not that I ever did that movie-style \u201cI need to tell you something... [long pause] I\u2019m gay... [gasp]\u201d. As a matter of fact, in the last time I actually had simply talked about my boyfriend the way straight guys talk about their girlfriends \u2013 but it still felt like I\u2019m confessing some kind of a secret. Even after years of living outside of my homophobic homeland of Poland, the fear of being ridiculed, unaccepted, discriminated against or beaten up was still there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut getting married was the final milestone on the way to leaving all of that behind. It made me feel that I actually do have \u003Cstrong\u003Eall the same rights\u003C\/strong\u003E and duties as any straight person does. It\u2019s not just \u201cok\u201d to be gay \u2013 it\u2019s perfectly normal. Even the registrar was openly mocking Poland\u2019s backwardness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u2019t hesitate for a second to share the good news with anyone. My husband is so wonderful, our love so beautiful, our relationship so strong. I\u2019m proud of him and I\u2019m proud of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd all we got was a positive, loving, touching response. Not a single person reacted differently than they would react to any other wedding \u2013 not even call it a \u201cgay marriage\u201d or anything. We didn\u2019t get \u201cgay married\u201d, we just got married.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u2019s the kind of society I want to live in. \ud83d\ude0c\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["acceptance","coming out","discrimination","gay","homosexuality","human rights","lgbtq","marriage","marriage equality","same-sex marriage","tolerance"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/i-have-gay-friends_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022I have gay friends\u0022 - scumbag Christian meme\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u2013 Morning! 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You know, I have gay friends.\u003Cbr \/\u003E\n\u2013 Erm... OK... So what? I have gay friends too. And straight friends... What\u2019s your point?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESaying \u201cI have gay friends\u201d might seem like a good way to show someone that you\u2019re okay with them being gay. In reality, it mostly just shows that you\u2019re desperately trying to \u003Cstrong\u003Eshow off your tolerance\u003C\/strong\u003E. It shows that you treat homosexuality as something \u003Cem\u003Estrange, but tolerable\u003C\/em\u003E.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut you know what kind of support do LGBTQ people \u003Cem\u003Ereally\u003C\/em\u003E need? We just want \u003Cstrong\u003Eto be treated like everyone else\u003C\/strong\u003E \u2013 that\u2019s it. Try replacing \u201cboyfriend\u201d with \u201cgirlfriend\u201d in the dialogue above. 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We\u2019ll just say we are in love and that will be all that matters \u2013 \u003Cem\u003EEllen Degeneres\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAfter my wedding, I\u2019m proud to say, I realised I\u2019d finally reached the point where \u003Cstrong\u003Ecoming out is not an issue\u003C\/strong\u003E anymore. I won\u2019t ever come out again. Not that I ever did that movie-style \u201cI need to tell you something... [long pause] I\u2019m gay... [gasp]\u201d. As a matter of fact, in the last time I actually had simply talked about my boyfriend the way straight guys talk about their girlfriends \u2013 but it still felt like I\u2019m confessing some kind of a secret. Even after years of living outside of my homophobic homeland of Poland, the fear of being ridiculed, unaccepted, discriminated against or beaten up was still there.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut getting married was the final milestone on the way to leaving all of that behind. It made me feel that I actually do have \u003Cstrong\u003Eall the same rights\u003C\/strong\u003E and duties as any straight person does. It\u2019s not just \u201cok\u201d to be gay \u2013 it\u2019s perfectly normal. Even the registrar was openly mocking Poland\u2019s backwardness.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI didn\u2019t hesitate for a second to share the good news with anyone. My husband is so wonderful, our love so beautiful, our relationship so strong. I\u2019m proud of him and I\u2019m proud of us.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd all we got was a positive, loving, touching response. Not a single person reacted differently than they would react to any other wedding \u2013 not even call it a \u201cgay marriage\u201d or anything. We didn\u2019t get \u201cgay married\u201d, we just got married.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd that\u2019s the kind of society I want to live in. \ud83d\ude0c\u003C\/p\u003E","words":507,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/society\/toilets-locker-rooms":{"key":"blog\/society\/toilets-locker-rooms","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-07-13T11:53:18+02:00","publishedAt":"2017-07-13T11:50:00+02:00","group":"nudism","category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"toilets-locker-rooms"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"toilets-locker-rooms","title":"Gender specific toilets and locker rooms make no sense","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022378.19672131148\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022378.19672131148\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. 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It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven more when I started realising I was gay. Since I fancy other guys, and since girls might fancy me, should I be always given a private locker room and bathroom, so that nobody sees anyone they might fancy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShowers in the male locker room at my gym were in renovation for over two weeks. Having to go back home all sweaty and stinky \u2013 not the best experience, trust me... The solution could be really simple \u2013 just temporarily let the guys use female showers. Nothing would happen. I have no problem not raping or assaulting anyone, no matter how hot and muscular they are, and I\u2019m sure straight guys wouldn\u2019t do that either, if they saw hot naked girls. It\u2019s not a darkroom, it\u2019s just basic hygiene, grow up!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAssuming we only strip to our underwear in the school locker room\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, how is that different from just enjoying a beach in our swimsuits? We don\u2019t separate those by gender (not anymore, at least). Did the world collapse? Did the beaches become dens of iniquity? Did we stop controlling ourselves just because we can see almost-naked persons of the opposite sex? No.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd what\u2019s the deal about the toilets? We have to unnecessarily build separate public toilets for two genders, because what? Because urinals? Man, if someone were inappropriately looking at my junk while I\u2019m pissing in a public restroom\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, I would be pissed \u2013 totally regardless of whether it\u2019s a female or male pervert. And except for pissing in a urinal, it\u2019s not like we do anything intimate in front of other people. Why would I care at all, what gender is the person in a next stall?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe separation of restrooms and locker rooms is not just idiotic and baseless, but can often become problematic, if you don\u2019t easily fit into binary gender division. And I\u2019m not talking only about the transgender, transsexual and nonbinary people. You can encounter some problems even if you\u2019re a cis, straight person. In which locker room should a mother help her little son change, so that none of them feels uncomfortable? To which toilet should a father take his little daughter, not to be regarded a pervert?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole thing with the gender division makes \u003Cstrong\u003Eno sense on any level\u003C\/strong\u003E. Can someone explain to me, why are we still doing that?\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Why the hell do people prefer to keep stinking with sweat for the rest of the day rather than just take their pants off and take a shower, is a separate topic. Hint: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/homophobia\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E homophobia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, except if it happened like in a gay bar or something \ud83d\ude09\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["bathroom","gender","lgbtq","nudity","patriarchy","prudery","restroom","shame","toilet","transgender","transsexual"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_small.jpg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022189.09836065574\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_big.jpg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/restroom-whatever_mini.jpg\u0022 alt=\u0022Restroom sign: Whatever, just wash your hands\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022189.09836065574\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003Cfigcaption\u003E\n                    \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/www.tvnz.co.nz\/one-news\/new-zealand\/whatever-just-please-wash-your-hands-dunedin-theatre-installs-quirky-inclusive-signs\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csmall\u003Etvnz.co.nz\/one-news\/new-zealand\/whatever-just-please-wash-your-hands-dunedin-theatre-installs-quirky-inclusive-signs\u003C\/small\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\n                \u003C\/figcaption\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAt first I didn\u2019t really think about it. It was yet another thing that my parents taught me and I just accepted. Boys and girls need to have separate toilets and locker rooms, so that the boys wouldn\u2019t do nasty things to the girls. Simple.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut one day a cleaning \u003Cem\u003Elady\u003C\/em\u003E came in to the \u003Cem\u003Eboys\u2019\u003C\/em\u003E locker room. And one day a female teacher come in. How come? Why can they see half-naked boys, while our female classmates cannot? That got me thinking and trying to find any sense in that.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEven more when I started realising I was gay. Since I fancy other guys, and since girls might fancy me, should I be always given a private locker room and bathroom, so that nobody sees anyone they might fancy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EShowers in the male locker room at my gym were in renovation for over two weeks. Having to go back home all sweaty and stinky \u2013 not the best experience, trust me... The solution could be really simple \u2013 just temporarily let the guys use female showers. Nothing would happen. I have no problem not raping or assaulting anyone, no matter how hot and muscular they are, and I\u2019m sure straight guys wouldn\u2019t do that either, if they saw hot naked girls. It\u2019s not a darkroom, it\u2019s just basic hygiene, grow up!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAssuming we only strip to our underwear in the school locker room\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, how is that different from just enjoying a beach in our swimsuits? We don\u2019t separate those by gender (not anymore, at least). Did the world collapse? Did the beaches become dens of iniquity? Did we stop controlling ourselves just because we can see almost-naked persons of the opposite sex? No.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd what\u2019s the deal about the toilets? We have to unnecessarily build separate public toilets for two genders, because what? Because urinals? Man, if someone were inappropriately looking at my junk while I\u2019m pissing in a public restroom\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-ref-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E, I would be pissed \u2013 totally regardless of whether it\u2019s a female or male pervert. And except for pissing in a urinal, it\u2019s not like we do anything intimate in front of other people. Why would I care at all, what gender is the person in a next stall?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe separation of restrooms and locker rooms is not just idiotic and baseless, but can often become problematic, if you don\u2019t easily fit into binary gender division. And I\u2019m not talking only about the transgender, transsexual and nonbinary people. You can encounter some problems even if you\u2019re a cis, straight person. In which locker room should a mother help her little son change, so that none of them feels uncomfortable? To which toilet should a father take his little daughter, not to be regarded a pervert?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe whole thing with the gender division makes \u003Cstrong\u003Eno sense on any level\u003C\/strong\u003E. Can someone explain to me, why are we still doing that?\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Chr\/\u003E\u003Cp class=\u0022small\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-1\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-1\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[1]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Why the hell do people prefer to keep stinking with sweat for the rest of the day rather than just take their pants off and take a shower, is a separate topic. Hint: \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/homophobia\u0022\u003E homophobia\u003C\/a\u003E.\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022#ftn-ref-2\u0022 id=\u0022ftn-2\u0022\u003E\u003Csup\u003E[2]\u003C\/sup\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E Well, except if it happened like in a gay bar or something \ud83d\ude09\u003Cbr\/\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E","words":544,"readTime":3,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/life\/i-love-being-gay":{"key":"blog\/life\/i-love-being-gay","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-05-10T17:54:09+02:00","publishedAt":"2017-05-12T10:00:00+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"life","slug":"i-love-being-gay"},"content":{"en":{"slug":"i-love-being-gay","title":"I love being gay!","intro":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. I cried after the massacre in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/orlando\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-tag\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Orlando\u003C\/a\u003E as if I\u2019d lost really close friends \u2013 even though I didn\u2019t know those people. After my biological family rejected me, it\u2019s the misfits of the LGBTQ community that made me feel at home again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EOnline dating\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor a shy guy like me online dating is quite a big deal. Remember all the jokes in the sitcoms about couples being ashamed that they\u2019ve met online and coming up with some fake \u201chow we met\u201d stories? This shows a stigma around the topic. As if it was a \u003Cem\u003Eworse\u003C\/em\u003E way to meet someone. If anything, it\u2019s better in many ways. Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["chores","community","dating","equality","expression","family","freedom","gay","gender","lesbian","lgbtq","online dating","porn","relationship","sex"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EBeing gay is not easy. Depending on where you live, it might mean different things to you. Best case scenario \u2013 some minor inconveniences. Worst case \u2013 even danger of death. \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/lgbtq\u0022\u003E LGBTQ\u003C\/a\u003E youth has a higher suicide rate than their straight \u0026amp; cis friends, they fear getting disowned by their families, thrown out of their homes, in some countries being sentenced to prison or lashes... We don\u2019t have equal rights, we can\u2019t always show affection in public. Being gay can be scary, lonely and awful.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EBut there is also a good side to that. The side of being gay that I really really love!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EEquality and freedom to be yourself\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I see a straight couple on a date, most of the time the guy seems nervous: he plans the whole thing, he tries to impress the girl, he bares responsibility for the date to work out well. She, on the other hand, is more passive, just enjoying his efforts.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhen I hear about family problems of straight couples, they often concern the division of household chores or generally the traditional gender roles. The wife is expected to sacrifice her career for the children and the household, while the husband is expected to heroically protect the family from every danger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAnd almost nobody seems to be happy with that. Girls, who try to impress a guy or want to ask him out, often feel strange, inappropriate. And some guys might be shy and prefer to be approached by a girl, or might not like the burden of organising their dates. Girls might want to focus on their careers, guys might need the privilege of being cowardly...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EGays, on the other hand, can be so \u003Cstrong\u003Eflexible\u003C\/strong\u003E in all of that! Who reels up the the other? Well, whoever\u2019s brave enough. Who organises the dates? Whoever feels like it, or whoever has a nice idea, or we just do it together. Who does the chores? We just split it, so that everybody does, what they do best. If both of you are the man or the woman, then you don\u2019t have to \u201cbe the man in this relationship\u201d or wonder \u201cwhat should I do as a woman?\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI\u2019m not saying straight couples cannot have such \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/equality\u0022\u003E equality\u003C\/a\u003E and \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/freedom\u0022\u003E freedom\u003C\/a\u003E to be yourself, as same-sex couples do. That would be \u003Cstrong\u003Estereotypical, plain stupid and simply not true\u003C\/strong\u003E. They obviously can, and I know many that do. But you\u2019ve got to admit, the overall trend of equality in a relationship and the general expectations from the society in that matter look way better for same-sex couples, don\u2019t they?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EViews\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA girl meets a boy: he\u2019s nice, interesting, handsome and strong. She falls in love with him. Well, at least until they talk about politics for the first time. Then it turns out that her prince charming is actually a nationalistic fucktard, he\u2019s hateful towards other nations and skin colours, he wants to let the refugees die in the war zone...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/how-come-you-don-t-like-a-gay-jew.lite\u0022\u003E gays also can be right-wing extremists\u003C\/a\u003E, but statistically I would expect much lower percentage of such people among the LGBTQ community. Why? We can sympathise with \u003Cstrong\u003Eminorities\u003C\/strong\u003E, because we are a minority ourselves. We\u2019ve been hurt by inequality, so we have a lot of determination to fight against it. Our common suffering unites us and makes us stronger.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ECommunity\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWhich brings me to the awesomeness of the LGBTQ community in general. My first time in a gay bar was an amazing, unforgettable experience, even though nothing special actually happened. But it was just \u003Cstrong\u003Eso open\u003C\/strong\u003E!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObviously, that\u2019s a huge generalisation, but you know... In a gay bar, during a pride parade or in some LGBTQ association, as long as you share the same values, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel welcome\u003C\/strong\u003E, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Ebe yourself\u003C\/strong\u003E and not be judged for that, you can \u003Cstrong\u003Efeel safe\u003C\/strong\u003E and wanted. It\u2019s just so warm and friendly! You can be on first name terms with everybody by default (even in Poland or Germany, where \u201cDu\u201d and \u201cSie\u201d thingy is quite a big deal).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThe Community is like a huge, worldwide family for me. I cried after the massacre in \u003Ca href=\u0022\/tag\/orlando\u0022\u003E Orlando\u003C\/a\u003E as if I\u2019d lost really close friends \u2013 even though I didn\u2019t know those people. After my biological family rejected me, it\u2019s the misfits of the LGBTQ community that made me feel at home again.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EOnline dating\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFor a shy guy like me online dating is quite a big deal. Remember all the jokes in the sitcoms about couples being ashamed that they\u2019ve met online and coming up with some fake \u201chow we met\u201d stories? This shows a stigma around the topic. As if it was a \u003Cem\u003Eworse\u003C\/em\u003E way to meet someone. If anything, it\u2019s better in many ways. Like being able to get to know someone\u2019s interests and character (and not just their looks) from their profile before even talking to them \u2013 you can\u2019t see any of that when you\u2019re saying hello to a stranger in a bar.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESure, now in the age of Tinder\u2019s popularity, that stigma is getting smaller and smaller. But nevertheless: I\u2019m happy to be part of a community, where meeting your boyfriend or your hookup on the Internet is not a big deal, but practically a default.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003ESex\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EEver wondered, why sex-related jokes about gays are almost always about us doing anal (\u201dhaha, they fuck in the shithole!\u201d) or about straight guys\u2019 irrational fears that we would rape them (\u201dI\u2019ll sleep on this side, otherwise you\u2019d fuck me, faggot, hehe...\u201d)? Well, yeah, we do anal, and it\u2019s awesome, what\u2019s your point? And no, gay \u2260 rapist, and if you\u2019d joke about that, it probably means that\u2019s the way you\u2019d treat a woman in a similar situation...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMeanwhile, in sit-coms, standups etc. I keep hearing jokes about guys constantly underperforming in bed, finishing after 3 minutes, refusing to go down on a girl while demanding a blowjob for themselves, being generally boring and self-absorbed in bed... I might think they\u2019re just jokes, but then I keep hearing complaints about precisely that from my straight female friends about their boyfriends.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESeems like many straight guys don\u2019t experiment with their bodies, as if their cock was their only sex organ and a woman was basically just a toy for their wank. Getting your nipples stimulated, your armpits or asshole licked, etc. etc., that feels so amazing! Your G-spot is your prostate, and if you don\u2019t play with it for fear that \u201cit\u2019s gay\u201d, you\u2019re just missing out. Licking other people\u2019s bodies can be so hot as well...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EFrom what I hear, many straight people divide sex into foreplay and penetration. Penetration is what a guy really wants, while foreplay is what he is willing to do, reluctantly, to be allowed to get to the penetration. And gays? Seriously, I don\u2019t remember the last time I even used the word \u201cforeplay\u201d. It\u2019s all just sex. It\u2019s all awesome. Did you know that most of the time we don\u2019t even fuck in the ass during sex? Anal requires preparation, douching, status talk, condoms, lube, etc., meanwhile everything else is almost just as good, so why bother that much every time?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cSeducing a straight guy\u201d is quite a common theme in gay porn. But I don\u2019t really get that phantasy. If the majority of straight guys is really the way standuppers, sitcoms, jokes and their own partners say they are in bed, well... I\u2019m just glad that there are only gay\/bi guys in my bed.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Ch3\u003EAnd so much more...\u003C\/h3\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EI don\u2019t have to worry about getting someone \u003Cstrong\u003Epregnant\u003C\/strong\u003E. Or about my country trying to restrict access to \u003Cstrong\u003Econtraception and abortion\u003C\/strong\u003E (although \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/schwarzermontag.lite\u0022\u003E I am fighting\u003C\/a\u003E for others\u2019 right to use them). I won\u2019t end up in a marriage where we don\u2019t actually want to be together, but we just ended up with an unwanted pregnancy and decided it\u2019s best for the baby... If I share my clothes and underwear with my boyfriend, my wardrobe becomes twice as big. There are so many things I don\u2019t really think about every day, but when they do come up, I can\u2019t help but think \u201cthank goddess I\u2019m gay!\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESo if I were born straight, I guess I\u2019d be trying to be as \u201cgay\u201d as possible anyway. Looking for a girlfriend that would treat be like a partner, not as a patriarch. Visiting gay bars, because why not. Using online dating sites and not caring what others think...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EThere\u2019s naturally \u003Cstrong\u003Enothing wrong with being straight\u003C\/strong\u003E, or with being gay, or lesbian, or bisexual, or pansexual. But hell yeah I\u2019m happy I happened to be born just the way I have!\u003C\/p\u003E","words":1481,"readTime":6,"lang":"en"}}},"blog\/mythology\/ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi\u0142a-nienawi\u015b\u0107":{"key":"blog\/mythology\/ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi\u0142a-nienawi\u015b\u0107","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-04-28T19:43:57+02:00","publishedAt":"2016-07-29T10:11:00+02:00","group":"ehe-f\u00fcr-alle","category":"blog","subcategory":"mythology","slug":"ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi\u0142a-nienawi\u015b\u0107"},"content":{"pl":{"slug":"ks-piotr-pawlukiewicz-bardzo-mi\u0142a-nienawi\u015b\u0107","title":"ks. Piotr Pawlukiewicz \u2013 bardzo mi\u0142a nienawi\u015b\u0107","intro":"\u003Cp\u003EKsi\u0119dza Pawlukiewicza bardzo lubi\u0119, cho\u0107 prawie nigdy si\u0119 z nim nie zgadza\u0142em. Gdy katecheta w szkole wstydzi si\u0119 gada\u0107 z uczniami o seksie, wtedy w\u0142\u0105cza im p\u0142yt\u0119 z kazaniami Pawlukiewicza. On opowiada o sprawach seksu bez ogr\u00f3dek, ubieraj\u0105c je w ciekawe analogie, ozdabiaj\u0105c zabawnymi anegdotkami. Wydaje si\u0119 by\u0107 bardzo sympatyczny, otwarty i nowoczesny. Wydaje si\u0119 m\u00f3wi\u0107 z sensem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EWydaje si\u0119.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","content":"\u003Cp\u003EKsi\u0119dza Pawlukiewicza bardzo lubi\u0119, cho\u0107 prawie nigdy si\u0119 z nim nie zgadza\u0142em. Gdy katecheta w szkole wstydzi si\u0119 gada\u0107 z uczniami o seksie, wtedy w\u0142\u0105cza im p\u0142yt\u0119 z kazaniami Pawlukiewicza. On opowiada o sprawach seksu bez ogr\u00f3dek, ubieraj\u0105c je w ciekawe analogie, ozdabiaj\u0105c zabawnymi anegdotkami. Wydaje si\u0119 by\u0107 bardzo sympatyczny, otwarty i nowoczesny. Wydaje si\u0119 m\u00f3wi\u0107 z sensem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EWydaje si\u0119.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETrafi\u0142o mi dzi\u015b w \u0142apki nagranie audycji radiowej \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/youtu.be\/60rkG_OawPo?t=1m29s\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-link\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Katechizm Por\u0119czny ks. Piotr Pawlukiewicz 12-19-2005\u003C\/a\u003E, podczas kt\u00f3rej pan ksi\u0105dz odpowiada na pytanie o stosunek Ko\u015bcio\u0142a katolickiego do homoseksualist\u00f3w. Mi\u0142o m\u00f3wi, prawda? Sk\u0142onno\u015bci to nie grzech, wszyscy s\u0105 ukochanymi dzie\u0107mi Boga, wszyscy mog\u0105 by\u0107 zbawieni... A potem pojawia si\u0119 jedno malutkie \u201cale\u201d: \u201cale nigdy w \u017cyciu nie mo\u017cesz uprawia\u0107 seksu\u201d. A potem drugie malutkie \u201cale\u201d: \u201cale b\u0119dziemy walczy\u0107, \u017ceby\u015b nie m\u00f3g\u0142 wzi\u0105\u0107 \u015blubu\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProblem w tym, \u017ce te \u201cale\u201d wcale nie s\u0105 malutkie. Pan Piotr wybra\u0142 sobie dobrowolny celibat do ko\u0144ca \u017cycia \u2013 jego decyzja, jego sprawa. Natomiast narzucanie celibatu komukolwiek innemu jest zwyczajnie \u003Cstrong\u003Eokrutne\u003C\/strong\u003E. B\u00f3g, kt\u00f3ry \u201cobdarzy\u0142\u201d jakiego\u015b cz\u0142owieka \u201csk\u0142onno\u015bciami homoseksualnymi\u201d i naturalnym, silnym pop\u0119dem seksualnym, a potem mu powiedzia\u0142 \u201cnever ever nie realizuj tych sk\u0142onno\u015bci, bo inaczej b\u0119dziesz p\u0142on\u0105\u0107 w piekle przez ca\u0142\u0105 wieczno\u015b\u0107 w ogromnych m\u0119czarniach\u201d, taki b\u00f3g jest \u003Cstrong\u003Esadyst\u0105\u003C\/strong\u003E. Kropka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKto\u015b pewnie powie, \u017ce ich doktryna, ich wierni. Jak si\u0119 komu\u015b nie podoba, \u017ce Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 pot\u0119pia seks gejowski i lesbijski, jak kto\u015b nie jest w stanie sprosta\u0107 wyzwaniu obowi\u0105zkowego celibatu, to mo\u017ce sobie z tego Ko\u015bcio\u0142a wyj\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETyle \u017ce ich doktryna dotyka nie tylko wiernych. Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 \u003Cstrong\u003Edzieli ludzi\u003C\/strong\u003E na tych, kt\u00f3rzy maj\u0105 prawo by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwi i realizowa\u0107 swoj\u0105 seksualno\u015b\u0107, i na tych, kt\u00f3rzy nie maj\u0105 tego prawa. A ca\u0142a masa dupk\u00f3w tego s\u0142ucha i idzie z t\u0105 logik\u0105 dalej, odbieraj\u0105c gejom i lesbijkom wszystkie inne prawa. Czemu by traktowa\u0107 \u201cpeda\u0142\u00f3w\u201d z szacunkiem, skoro sam Kk g\u0142osi, \u017ce tacy to s\u0105 \u003Cstrong\u003Egorsi\u003C\/strong\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKo\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 mo\u017ce sobie udziela\u0107 (i nie udziela\u0107) ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stw, komu mu si\u0119 tylko podoba. Ale nie ma najmniejszego prawa m\u00f3wi\u0107 \u015bwieckiemu pa\u0144stwu, co ono ma w tej kwestii robi\u0107. Kiedy Kk wp\u0142ywa na tworzenie prawa, to nawet ci, kt\u00f3rzy s\u0105 poza nim, de facto znajduj\u0105 si\u0119 pod jego jurysdykcj\u0105. To jest po prostu z\u0142e.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, nieprawd\u0105 jest, \u017ce gej, kt\u00f3ry nie mo\u017ce uprawia\u0107 seksu, cierpi tak samo jak heteryk, kt\u00f3rego kusi zdradzenie \u017cony. Po pierwsze \u2013 heteryk nie ma \u003Cstrong\u003Etotalnego zakazu\u003C\/strong\u003E realizowania swoich seksualnych potrzeb, a tylko \u003Cstrong\u003Eograniczenie\u003C\/strong\u003E do jednej osoby. Po drugie \u2013 zdrada \u017cony jest konkretnym \u003Cstrong\u003Ecierpieniem\u003C\/strong\u003E zadanym tej\u017ce \u017conie, natomiast sam w sobie stosunek mi\u0119dzy ch\u0119tnymi osobami tej samej p\u0142ci nikomu krzywdy nie robi \u2013 zatem por\u00f3wnywanie tych sytuacji jest mocno nietrafion\u0105 i krzywdz\u0105c\u0105 analogi\u0105. Po trzecie natomiast \u2013 wok\u00f3\u0142 zdrad ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skich czy przedma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skiego seksu nie wyros\u0142o tak wielkie \u003Cstrong\u003Espo\u0142eczne pi\u0119tno\u003C\/strong\u003E jak wok\u00f3\u0142 homoseksualno\u015bci. Nie s\u0142ysza\u0142em nigdy o nikim, kto dosta\u0142by po mordzie od randomowego przechodnia za to, \u017ce \u017cyje ze swoj\u0105 dziewczyn\u0105 bez \u015blubu. Wielu natomiast dosta\u0142o za to, \u017ce cho\u0107by tylko \u201cwygl\u0105daj\u0105 na geja\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 jest odpowiedzialny za to spo\u0142eczne pi\u0119tno. \u0141adne s\u0142\u00f3wka o sk\u0142onno\u015bciach nieb\u0119d\u0105cych grzechem i o potrzebie wytrwania w czysto\u015bci s\u0105 kr\u00f3tkowzroczne i nie bior\u0105 pod uwag\u0119, jak wierni b\u0119d\u0105 je odczytywa\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPrzyczyny homoseksualno\u015bci to te\u017c ciekawy temat. Pan Pawlukiewicz \u201cupewni\u0142 si\u0119 w Encyklopedii Katolickiej\u201d, jakie s\u0105 to przyczyny. Bo wiadomo, rzetelnych informacji o zjawiskach biologicznych i spo\u0142ecznych nale\u017cy szuka\u0107 w\u0142a\u015bnie tam, a nie w \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142ach naukowych. Upewni\u0142 si\u0119 i mu wysz\u0142o, \u017ce to mo\u017ce by\u0107 na przyk\u0142ad \u003Cstrong\u003Ewina\u003C\/strong\u003E matki, kt\u00f3ra bierze leki podczas ci\u0105\u017cy, i przez to dziecko rodzi jej si\u0119 z uszkodzonym m\u00f3zgiem. Ja pierdol\u0119... Nawet nie potrafi\u0119 skomentowa\u0107 bezduszno\u015bci w tym tkwi\u0105cej...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cCierpienie po prostu dotyka ludzi, (...) a Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 wychodzi im z pomoc\u0105\u201d to \u003Cstrong\u003Ewierutne k\u0142amstwo\u003C\/strong\u003E. Owszem, jak kto\u015b si\u0119 urodzi bez r\u0105k, jest to straszna, niezawiniona tragedia i trzeba mu pom\u00f3c. Owszem, wszyscy ludzie jako\u015b cierpi\u0105, nie tylko geje. Ale do jasnej cholery, to nie mo\u017ce by\u0107 wym\u00f3wka, by komu\u015b przysparza\u0107 b\u00f3lu! Bo homoseksualista nie rodzi si\u0119 cierpi\u0105c. To w\u0142a\u015bnie \u003Cstrong\u003EKo\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 sprawia mu cierpienie\u003C\/strong\u003E! Gdyby nie jego idiotyczne trzymanie si\u0119 bigoterii z epoki br\u0105zu, to geje i lesbijki zapewne nawet nie do\u015bwiadczyliby tego, z czym Kk tak bohatersko walczy!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJako gej, jako by\u0142y katolik, jako sympatyk \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/mi%C4%99dzy-wiar%C4%85-a-t%C4%99cz%C4%85\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-people-carry\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Wiary i T\u0119czy\u003C\/a\u003E, jako przyjaciel wielu wierz\u0105cych i niewierz\u0105cych gej\u00f3w i lesbijek, nie znam \u003Cstrong\u003Eabsolutnie nikogo\u003C\/strong\u003E, kt\u00f3remu Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 katolicki by w tej kwestii jakkolwiek pom\u00f3g\u0142.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENast\u0119pnie pan ksi\u0105dz przedstawia \u201cdow\u00f3d\u201d na to, \u017ce homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 jest \u201cniezgodna z natur\u0105 cz\u0142owieka\u201d. Ot\u00f3\u017c gdyby wszyscy ludzie si\u0119 myli, to by by\u0142o super, natomiast gdyby wszyscy byli homo, toby ludzko\u015b\u0107 wymar\u0142a. Ergo mycie zgodne z natur\u0105, a homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 nie. \u003Cstrong\u003EIdiotyzm.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo pierwsze: m\u00f3wi to ksi\u0105dz. \u003Cstrong\u003ECelibatariusz\u003C\/strong\u003E. A przecie\u017c gdyby wszyscy \u017cyli w celibacie, ludzko\u015b\u0107 te\u017c by wymar\u0142a. C\u00f3\u017c za hipokryzja...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo drugie: ta jego definicja \u201cnormalno\u015bci\u201d i \u201cnaturalno\u015bci\u201d dzia\u0142a bardzo rzadko . Czy bycie dentyst\u0105 jest naturalne? Gdyby wszyscy byli dentystami, to nie mia\u0142by kto produkowa\u0107 jedzenia, wi\u0119c ludzko\u015b\u0107 by wymar\u0142a. Czy uprawianie sport\u00f3w ekstremalnych jest naturalne? Gdyby wszyscy to robili, to wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 by si\u0119 do tego nie nadawa\u0142a, pozabijaliby si\u0119, a ludzko\u015b\u0107 by wymar\u0142a. Ale o dziwo to nie jest pow\u00f3d, by pot\u0119pia\u0107 dentyst\u00f3w czy wielbicieli sport\u00f3w ekstremalnych, nieprawda\u017c? (albo po ko\u015bcielnemu: \u201csk\u0142onno\u015bci dentystyczne to nie grzech, pot\u0119piamy tylko akty dentystyczne\u201d).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo trzecie: nawet je\u015bli homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 nie jest \u201cnormalna\u201d czy \u201cnaturalna\u201d, to co z tego? Niemal nic, czego u\u017cywamy we wsp\u00f3\u0142czesnym \u015bwiecie nie pochodzi z natury. Smartfony, laptopy, szczepionki, leki, samoloty... Ich sztuczno\u015b\u0107 nie ma \u017cadnego zwi\u0105zku z moralno\u015bci\u0105 czy jej brakiem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo czwarte: ludzko\u015b\u0107 nigdy nie b\u0119dzie ca\u0142a homoseksualna. To jego \u003Cstrong\u003Ehipotetyczne ad absurdum\u003C\/strong\u003E jest straszakiem bez absolutnie \u017cadnych podstaw. Nawet je\u015bli si\u0119 zgodzi\u0107 z tez\u0105, \u017ce \u201cgejem mo\u017cna si\u0119 sta\u0107 przez eksperymentowanie z kolegami\u201d, to nie znaczy \u017ce ludzie masowo zaczn\u0105 to robi\u0107. Dentyst\u0105 te\u017c mo\u017cna si\u0119 sta\u0107. Ksi\u0119dzem-celibariuszem te\u017c. Gdyby wszyscy to zrobili, gatunek by nie przetrwa\u0142. No i? Nie zrobi\u0105 tego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPan ksi\u0105dz ko\u0144czy sw\u0105 wypowied\u017a stwierdzeniem, \u017ce Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 nie chce napi\u0119tnowa\u0107 gej\u00f3w, tylko pokaza\u0107 \u015bwiatu, \u017ce to jest niedobre. Nie wiem, sk\u0105d wzi\u0105\u0142 tak dziwaczn\u0105 definicj\u0119 \u201cnapi\u0119tnowania\u201d, skoro nie spe\u0142nia jej g\u0142oszenie wszem i wobec, \u017ce pewne nikogo nie krzywdz\u0105ce czyny s\u0105 niedobre, wi\u0119c nale\u017cy ludziom odebra\u0107 ich prawa obywatelskie...\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["cierpienie","homofobia","homoseksualno\u015b\u0107","ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 katolicki","lgbtq","natura","nienawi\u015b\u0107"],"hasMore":true,"image":null,"introLite":"\u003Cp\u003EKsi\u0119dza Pawlukiewicza bardzo lubi\u0119, cho\u0107 prawie nigdy si\u0119 z nim nie zgadza\u0142em. Gdy katecheta w szkole wstydzi si\u0119 gada\u0107 z uczniami o seksie, wtedy w\u0142\u0105cza im p\u0142yt\u0119 z kazaniami Pawlukiewicza. On opowiada o sprawach seksu bez ogr\u00f3dek, ubieraj\u0105c je w ciekawe analogie, ozdabiaj\u0105c zabawnymi anegdotkami. Wydaje si\u0119 by\u0107 bardzo sympatyczny, otwarty i nowoczesny. Wydaje si\u0119 m\u00f3wi\u0107 z sensem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EWydaje si\u0119.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cp\u003EKsi\u0119dza Pawlukiewicza bardzo lubi\u0119, cho\u0107 prawie nigdy si\u0119 z nim nie zgadza\u0142em. Gdy katecheta w szkole wstydzi si\u0119 gada\u0107 z uczniami o seksie, wtedy w\u0142\u0105cza im p\u0142yt\u0119 z kazaniami Pawlukiewicza. On opowiada o sprawach seksu bez ogr\u00f3dek, ubieraj\u0105c je w ciekawe analogie, ozdabiaj\u0105c zabawnymi anegdotkami. Wydaje si\u0119 by\u0107 bardzo sympatyczny, otwarty i nowoczesny. Wydaje si\u0119 m\u00f3wi\u0107 z sensem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cstrong\u003EWydaje si\u0119.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETrafi\u0142o mi dzi\u015b w \u0142apki nagranie audycji radiowej \u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/youtu.be\/60rkG_OawPo?t=1m29s\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Katechizm Por\u0119czny ks. Piotr Pawlukiewicz 12-19-2005\u003C\/a\u003E, podczas kt\u00f3rej pan ksi\u0105dz odpowiada na pytanie o stosunek Ko\u015bcio\u0142a katolickiego do homoseksualist\u00f3w. Mi\u0142o m\u00f3wi, prawda? Sk\u0142onno\u015bci to nie grzech, wszyscy s\u0105 ukochanymi dzie\u0107mi Boga, wszyscy mog\u0105 by\u0107 zbawieni... A potem pojawia si\u0119 jedno malutkie \u201cale\u201d: \u201cale nigdy w \u017cyciu nie mo\u017cesz uprawia\u0107 seksu\u201d. A potem drugie malutkie \u201cale\u201d: \u201cale b\u0119dziemy walczy\u0107, \u017ceby\u015b nie m\u00f3g\u0142 wzi\u0105\u0107 \u015blubu\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EProblem w tym, \u017ce te \u201cale\u201d wcale nie s\u0105 malutkie. Pan Piotr wybra\u0142 sobie dobrowolny celibat do ko\u0144ca \u017cycia \u2013 jego decyzja, jego sprawa. Natomiast narzucanie celibatu komukolwiek innemu jest zwyczajnie \u003Cstrong\u003Eokrutne\u003C\/strong\u003E. B\u00f3g, kt\u00f3ry \u201cobdarzy\u0142\u201d jakiego\u015b cz\u0142owieka \u201csk\u0142onno\u015bciami homoseksualnymi\u201d i naturalnym, silnym pop\u0119dem seksualnym, a potem mu powiedzia\u0142 \u201cnever ever nie realizuj tych sk\u0142onno\u015bci, bo inaczej b\u0119dziesz p\u0142on\u0105\u0107 w piekle przez ca\u0142\u0105 wieczno\u015b\u0107 w ogromnych m\u0119czarniach\u201d, taki b\u00f3g jest \u003Cstrong\u003Esadyst\u0105\u003C\/strong\u003E. Kropka.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKto\u015b pewnie powie, \u017ce ich doktryna, ich wierni. Jak si\u0119 komu\u015b nie podoba, \u017ce Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 pot\u0119pia seks gejowski i lesbijski, jak kto\u015b nie jest w stanie sprosta\u0107 wyzwaniu obowi\u0105zkowego celibatu, to mo\u017ce sobie z tego Ko\u015bcio\u0142a wyj\u015b\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETyle \u017ce ich doktryna dotyka nie tylko wiernych. Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 \u003Cstrong\u003Edzieli ludzi\u003C\/strong\u003E na tych, kt\u00f3rzy maj\u0105 prawo by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwi i realizowa\u0107 swoj\u0105 seksualno\u015b\u0107, i na tych, kt\u00f3rzy nie maj\u0105 tego prawa. A ca\u0142a masa dupk\u00f3w tego s\u0142ucha i idzie z t\u0105 logik\u0105 dalej, odbieraj\u0105c gejom i lesbijkom wszystkie inne prawa. Czemu by traktowa\u0107 \u201cpeda\u0142\u00f3w\u201d z szacunkiem, skoro sam Kk g\u0142osi, \u017ce tacy to s\u0105 \u003Cstrong\u003Egorsi\u003C\/strong\u003E?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKo\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 mo\u017ce sobie udziela\u0107 (i nie udziela\u0107) ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stw, komu mu si\u0119 tylko podoba. Ale nie ma najmniejszego prawa m\u00f3wi\u0107 \u015bwieckiemu pa\u0144stwu, co ono ma w tej kwestii robi\u0107. Kiedy Kk wp\u0142ywa na tworzenie prawa, to nawet ci, kt\u00f3rzy s\u0105 poza nim, de facto znajduj\u0105 si\u0119 pod jego jurysdykcj\u0105. To jest po prostu z\u0142e.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENie, nieprawd\u0105 jest, \u017ce gej, kt\u00f3ry nie mo\u017ce uprawia\u0107 seksu, cierpi tak samo jak heteryk, kt\u00f3rego kusi zdradzenie \u017cony. Po pierwsze \u2013 heteryk nie ma \u003Cstrong\u003Etotalnego zakazu\u003C\/strong\u003E realizowania swoich seksualnych potrzeb, a tylko \u003Cstrong\u003Eograniczenie\u003C\/strong\u003E do jednej osoby. Po drugie \u2013 zdrada \u017cony jest konkretnym \u003Cstrong\u003Ecierpieniem\u003C\/strong\u003E zadanym tej\u017ce \u017conie, natomiast sam w sobie stosunek mi\u0119dzy ch\u0119tnymi osobami tej samej p\u0142ci nikomu krzywdy nie robi \u2013 zatem por\u00f3wnywanie tych sytuacji jest mocno nietrafion\u0105 i krzywdz\u0105c\u0105 analogi\u0105. Po trzecie natomiast \u2013 wok\u00f3\u0142 zdrad ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skich czy przedma\u0142\u017ce\u0144skiego seksu nie wyros\u0142o tak wielkie \u003Cstrong\u003Espo\u0142eczne pi\u0119tno\u003C\/strong\u003E jak wok\u00f3\u0142 homoseksualno\u015bci. Nie s\u0142ysza\u0142em nigdy o nikim, kto dosta\u0142by po mordzie od randomowego przechodnia za to, \u017ce \u017cyje ze swoj\u0105 dziewczyn\u0105 bez \u015blubu. Wielu natomiast dosta\u0142o za to, \u017ce cho\u0107by tylko \u201cwygl\u0105daj\u0105 na geja\u201d.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETo Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 jest odpowiedzialny za to spo\u0142eczne pi\u0119tno. \u0141adne s\u0142\u00f3wka o sk\u0142onno\u015bciach nieb\u0119d\u0105cych grzechem i o potrzebie wytrwania w czysto\u015bci s\u0105 kr\u00f3tkowzroczne i nie bior\u0105 pod uwag\u0119, jak wierni b\u0119d\u0105 je odczytywa\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPrzyczyny homoseksualno\u015bci to te\u017c ciekawy temat. Pan Pawlukiewicz \u201cupewni\u0142 si\u0119 w Encyklopedii Katolickiej\u201d, jakie s\u0105 to przyczyny. Bo wiadomo, rzetelnych informacji o zjawiskach biologicznych i spo\u0142ecznych nale\u017cy szuka\u0107 w\u0142a\u015bnie tam, a nie w \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142ach naukowych. Upewni\u0142 si\u0119 i mu wysz\u0142o, \u017ce to mo\u017ce by\u0107 na przyk\u0142ad \u003Cstrong\u003Ewina\u003C\/strong\u003E matki, kt\u00f3ra bierze leki podczas ci\u0105\u017cy, i przez to dziecko rodzi jej si\u0119 z uszkodzonym m\u00f3zgiem. Ja pierdol\u0119... Nawet nie potrafi\u0119 skomentowa\u0107 bezduszno\u015bci w tym tkwi\u0105cej...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u201cCierpienie po prostu dotyka ludzi, (...) a Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 wychodzi im z pomoc\u0105\u201d to \u003Cstrong\u003Ewierutne k\u0142amstwo\u003C\/strong\u003E. Owszem, jak kto\u015b si\u0119 urodzi bez r\u0105k, jest to straszna, niezawiniona tragedia i trzeba mu pom\u00f3c. Owszem, wszyscy ludzie jako\u015b cierpi\u0105, nie tylko geje. Ale do jasnej cholery, to nie mo\u017ce by\u0107 wym\u00f3wka, by komu\u015b przysparza\u0107 b\u00f3lu! Bo homoseksualista nie rodzi si\u0119 cierpi\u0105c. To w\u0142a\u015bnie \u003Cstrong\u003EKo\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 sprawia mu cierpienie\u003C\/strong\u003E! Gdyby nie jego idiotyczne trzymanie si\u0119 bigoterii z epoki br\u0105zu, to geje i lesbijki zapewne nawet nie do\u015bwiadczyliby tego, z czym Kk tak bohatersko walczy!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EJako gej, jako by\u0142y katolik, jako sympatyk \u003Ca href=\u0022\/blog\/mi%C4%99dzy-wiar%C4%85-a-t%C4%99cz%C4%85.lite\u0022\u003E Wiary i T\u0119czy\u003C\/a\u003E, jako przyjaciel wielu wierz\u0105cych i niewierz\u0105cych gej\u00f3w i lesbijek, nie znam \u003Cstrong\u003Eabsolutnie nikogo\u003C\/strong\u003E, kt\u00f3remu Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 katolicki by w tej kwestii jakkolwiek pom\u00f3g\u0142.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENast\u0119pnie pan ksi\u0105dz przedstawia \u201cdow\u00f3d\u201d na to, \u017ce homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 jest \u201cniezgodna z natur\u0105 cz\u0142owieka\u201d. Ot\u00f3\u017c gdyby wszyscy ludzie si\u0119 myli, to by by\u0142o super, natomiast gdyby wszyscy byli homo, toby ludzko\u015b\u0107 wymar\u0142a. Ergo mycie zgodne z natur\u0105, a homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 nie. \u003Cstrong\u003EIdiotyzm.\u003C\/strong\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo pierwsze: m\u00f3wi to ksi\u0105dz. \u003Cstrong\u003ECelibatariusz\u003C\/strong\u003E. A przecie\u017c gdyby wszyscy \u017cyli w celibacie, ludzko\u015b\u0107 te\u017c by wymar\u0142a. C\u00f3\u017c za hipokryzja...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo drugie: ta jego definicja \u201cnormalno\u015bci\u201d i \u201cnaturalno\u015bci\u201d dzia\u0142a bardzo rzadko . Czy bycie dentyst\u0105 jest naturalne? Gdyby wszyscy byli dentystami, to nie mia\u0142by kto produkowa\u0107 jedzenia, wi\u0119c ludzko\u015b\u0107 by wymar\u0142a. Czy uprawianie sport\u00f3w ekstremalnych jest naturalne? Gdyby wszyscy to robili, to wi\u0119kszo\u015b\u0107 by si\u0119 do tego nie nadawa\u0142a, pozabijaliby si\u0119, a ludzko\u015b\u0107 by wymar\u0142a. Ale o dziwo to nie jest pow\u00f3d, by pot\u0119pia\u0107 dentyst\u00f3w czy wielbicieli sport\u00f3w ekstremalnych, nieprawda\u017c? (albo po ko\u015bcielnemu: \u201csk\u0142onno\u015bci dentystyczne to nie grzech, pot\u0119piamy tylko akty dentystyczne\u201d).\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo trzecie: nawet je\u015bli homoseksualno\u015b\u0107 nie jest \u201cnormalna\u201d czy \u201cnaturalna\u201d, to co z tego? Niemal nic, czego u\u017cywamy we wsp\u00f3\u0142czesnym \u015bwiecie nie pochodzi z natury. Smartfony, laptopy, szczepionki, leki, samoloty... Ich sztuczno\u015b\u0107 nie ma \u017cadnego zwi\u0105zku z moralno\u015bci\u0105 czy jej brakiem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo czwarte: ludzko\u015b\u0107 nigdy nie b\u0119dzie ca\u0142a homoseksualna. To jego \u003Cstrong\u003Ehipotetyczne ad absurdum\u003C\/strong\u003E jest straszakiem bez absolutnie \u017cadnych podstaw. Nawet je\u015bli si\u0119 zgodzi\u0107 z tez\u0105, \u017ce \u201cgejem mo\u017cna si\u0119 sta\u0107 przez eksperymentowanie z kolegami\u201d, to nie znaczy \u017ce ludzie masowo zaczn\u0105 to robi\u0107. Dentyst\u0105 te\u017c mo\u017cna si\u0119 sta\u0107. Ksi\u0119dzem-celibariuszem te\u017c. Gdyby wszyscy to zrobili, gatunek by nie przetrwa\u0142. No i? Nie zrobi\u0105 tego.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPan ksi\u0105dz ko\u0144czy sw\u0105 wypowied\u017a stwierdzeniem, \u017ce Ko\u015bci\u00f3\u0142 nie chce napi\u0119tnowa\u0107 gej\u00f3w, tylko pokaza\u0107 \u015bwiatu, \u017ce to jest niedobre. Nie wiem, sk\u0105d wzi\u0105\u0142 tak dziwaczn\u0105 definicj\u0119 \u201cnapi\u0119tnowania\u201d, skoro nie spe\u0142nia jej g\u0142oszenie wszem i wobec, \u017ce pewne nikogo nie krzywdz\u0105ce czyny s\u0105 niedobre, wi\u0119c nale\u017cy ludziom odebra\u0107 ich prawa obywatelskie...\u003C\/p\u003E","words":1179,"readTime":5,"lang":"pl"}}},"blog\/society\/orlando":{"key":"blog\/society\/orlando","type":"article","published":true,"meta":{"createdAt":"2017-04-28T19:43:53+02:00","publishedAt":"2016-06-12T20:51:00+02:00","group":null,"category":"blog","subcategory":"society","slug":"orlando"},"content":{"pl":{"slug":"orlando","title":"Orlando","intro":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\n                \u003Cnoscript\u003E\n                    \u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022480\u0022\u003E                \n                \u003C\/noscript\u003E\n                \u003Cspan class=\u0022hide-noscript\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022data:image\/png;base64,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\u0022 data-src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_small.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 class=\u0022border-bottom\u0022 width=\u0022480\u0022 height=\u0022480\u0022\u003E\u003C\/span\u003E\n                \n            \u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMasakra w Orlando jest przygn\u0119biaj\u0105ca i przera\u017caj\u0105ca. 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Ale jednocze\u015bnie by\u0142a tak bardzo do przewidzenia...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMog\u0119 si\u0119 za\u0142o\u017cy\u0107, \u017ce w\u0142a\u015bnie zn\u00f3w zaczyna si\u0119 w USA debata nt. dost\u0119pu do broni, w kt\u00f3rej idioci b\u0119d\u0105 u\u017cywali tej tragedii jako argumentu ZA tym, by ka\u017cdy m\u00f3g\u0142 nosi\u0107 karabin gdzie mu si\u0119 podoba. To gorzej ni\u017c u\u017cywa\u0107 walenia g\u0142ow\u0105 w \u015bcian\u0119 jako lekarstwa na b\u00f3l g\u0142owy...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak samo jest z u\u017cywaniem religii do walki z przemoc\u0105 motywowan\u0105 religijnie. Nie ma czego\u015b takiego jak \u201creligia pokoju\u201d, \u017cadna z nich nie \u201cuczy mi\u0142osierdzia\u201d; to oksymorony. Bo religia musi mie\u0107 racj\u0119, i to racj\u0119 ostateczn\u0105. Co znaczy, \u017ce wszystkie inne musz\u0105 si\u0119 myli\u0107, a od bezwzgl\u0119dnego i bezmy\u015blnego wykonywania jej absolutystycznych nakaz\u00f3w zale\u017cy ca\u0142a wieczno\u015b\u0107 ich wyznawc\u00f3w. A to potrafi zmotywowa\u0107 do robienia rzeczy przera\u017caj\u0105cych.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZawsze s\u0142ycha\u0107 w takich sytuacjach pieprzenie, \u017ce \u201cto nie by\u0142o motywowane religijnie\u201d (cho\u0107 nie wiadomo, jak niby inaczej). Ludzie niby odcinaj\u0105 si\u0119 od terroryst\u00f3w, ale jednak ze \u015bwiec\u0105 szuka\u0107 imam\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rzy oficjalnie ich pot\u0119pi\u0105, albo biskup\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rzy na\u0142o\u017c\u0105 ekskomunik\u0119 na neonazist\u00f3w czy tych, kt\u00f3rzy morduj\u0105 pracownik\u00f3w klinik aborcyjnych.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo tym zamachu nie s\u0142ysza\u0142em o dziwo, by kto\u015b deklarowa\u0142 modlitw\u0119 za jego ofiary. Ludzie pokazuj\u0105 swoj\u0105 solidarno\u015b\u0107 pisz\u0105c raczej \u201cour thoughts go to the victims\u201d albo \u201cmy heart is with the victims\u201d. Bo religia jest przyczyn\u0105 tej tragedii, nie lekarstwem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECo chcia\u0142 osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107 ten morderca? My\u015bla\u0142, \u017ce ujdzie mu to p\u0142azem? \u017be nie tylko prze\u017cyje atak, ale wr\u00f3ci po nim do normalnego \u017cycia i mo\u017ce jeszcze kiedy\u015b to powt\u00f3rzy? Nie, za\u0142o\u017c\u0119 si\u0119, \u017ce liczy\u0142 si\u0119 z tym, \u017ce zginie. Postanowi\u0142 po\u015bwi\u0119ci\u0107 \u017cycie w imi\u0119... no w\u0142a\u015bnie, czego? Nie wyt\u0119pi\u0142 pedalstwa z powierzchni ziemi, nie dokona\u0142 niczego wielkiego, a jedynie wyrz\u0105dzi\u0142 cierpienie wielu ludziom. By\u0142 got\u00f3w zgin\u0105\u0107 za co\u015b takiego, ale religia wcale nie mia\u0142a tu nic do rzeczy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECiekawe, ile os\u00f3b z tych, kt\u00f3re wykrzykuj\u0105 \u201cpeda\u0142y do gazu\u201d, kt\u00f3re traktuj\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w jak podludzi, kt\u00f3re odmawiaj\u0105 im praw, kt\u00f3re traktuj\u0105 ich z nienawi\u015bci\u0105 i pogard\u0105, kt\u00f3re t\u0119 nienawi\u015b\u0107 g\u0142osz\u0105 z ambon, prawicowych portali i g\u0142upich komentarzy, ile z tych os\u00f3b zdaje sobie spraw\u0119, \u017ce s\u0105 wsp\u00f3\u0142odpowiedzialni za tragedi\u0119 w Orlando.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKatechizm nazywa to \u201cgrzechem cudzym\u201d. Ale kto by si\u0119 przejmowa\u0142...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECiekawe te\u017c, \u017ce centra krwiodawstwa w obliczu kryzysu dopu\u015bci\u0142y do donacji wszystkich dawc\u00f3w, nawet homoseksualnych m\u0119\u017cczyzn. Patrzcie no, nagle si\u0119 okazuje, \u017ce homoseksualna krew w niczym nie jest gorsza?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOfiary z Orlando nie zas\u0142ugiwa\u0142y, by wymordowano je jak byd\u0142o w rze\u017ani. Bo nikt na co\u015b takiego nie zas\u0142uguje. Absolutnie nikt!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EWszyscy, kt\u00f3rzy jeste\u015bcie nara\u017ceni na ludzk\u0105 nienawi\u015b\u0107, trzymajcie si\u0119! Jeszcze zmienimy \u015bwiat na lepsze!\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["bro\u0144","lgbtq","morderstwo","orlando","pulse","\u015bmier\u0107","terroryzm","usa","zamach"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_small.jpeg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMasakra w Orlando jest przygn\u0119biaj\u0105ca i przera\u017caj\u0105ca. Ale jednocze\u015bnie by\u0142a tak bardzo do przewidzenia...\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/orlando_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022240\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMasakra w Orlando jest przygn\u0119biaj\u0105ca i przera\u017caj\u0105ca. Ale jednocze\u015bnie by\u0142a tak bardzo do przewidzenia...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EMog\u0119 si\u0119 za\u0142o\u017cy\u0107, \u017ce w\u0142a\u015bnie zn\u00f3w zaczyna si\u0119 w USA debata nt. dost\u0119pu do broni, w kt\u00f3rej idioci b\u0119d\u0105 u\u017cywali tej tragedii jako argumentu ZA tym, by ka\u017cdy m\u00f3g\u0142 nosi\u0107 karabin gdzie mu si\u0119 podoba. To gorzej ni\u017c u\u017cywa\u0107 walenia g\u0142ow\u0105 w \u015bcian\u0119 jako lekarstwa na b\u00f3l g\u0142owy...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak samo jest z u\u017cywaniem religii do walki z przemoc\u0105 motywowan\u0105 religijnie. Nie ma czego\u015b takiego jak \u201creligia pokoju\u201d, \u017cadna z nich nie \u201cuczy mi\u0142osierdzia\u201d; to oksymorony. Bo religia musi mie\u0107 racj\u0119, i to racj\u0119 ostateczn\u0105. Co znaczy, \u017ce wszystkie inne musz\u0105 si\u0119 myli\u0107, a od bezwzgl\u0119dnego i bezmy\u015blnego wykonywania jej absolutystycznych nakaz\u00f3w zale\u017cy ca\u0142a wieczno\u015b\u0107 ich wyznawc\u00f3w. A to potrafi zmotywowa\u0107 do robienia rzeczy przera\u017caj\u0105cych.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZawsze s\u0142ycha\u0107 w takich sytuacjach pieprzenie, \u017ce \u201cto nie by\u0142o motywowane religijnie\u201d (cho\u0107 nie wiadomo, jak niby inaczej). Ludzie niby odcinaj\u0105 si\u0119 od terroryst\u00f3w, ale jednak ze \u015bwiec\u0105 szuka\u0107 imam\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rzy oficjalnie ich pot\u0119pi\u0105, albo biskup\u00f3w, kt\u00f3rzy na\u0142o\u017c\u0105 ekskomunik\u0119 na neonazist\u00f3w czy tych, kt\u00f3rzy morduj\u0105 pracownik\u00f3w klinik aborcyjnych.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPo tym zamachu nie s\u0142ysza\u0142em o dziwo, by kto\u015b deklarowa\u0142 modlitw\u0119 za jego ofiary. Ludzie pokazuj\u0105 swoj\u0105 solidarno\u015b\u0107 pisz\u0105c raczej \u201cour thoughts go to the victims\u201d albo \u201cmy heart is with the victims\u201d. Bo religia jest przyczyn\u0105 tej tragedii, nie lekarstwem.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECo chcia\u0142 osi\u0105gn\u0105\u0107 ten morderca? My\u015bla\u0142, \u017ce ujdzie mu to p\u0142azem? \u017be nie tylko prze\u017cyje atak, ale wr\u00f3ci po nim do normalnego \u017cycia i mo\u017ce jeszcze kiedy\u015b to powt\u00f3rzy? Nie, za\u0142o\u017c\u0119 si\u0119, \u017ce liczy\u0142 si\u0119 z tym, \u017ce zginie. Postanowi\u0142 po\u015bwi\u0119ci\u0107 \u017cycie w imi\u0119... no w\u0142a\u015bnie, czego? Nie wyt\u0119pi\u0142 pedalstwa z powierzchni ziemi, nie dokona\u0142 niczego wielkiego, a jedynie wyrz\u0105dzi\u0142 cierpienie wielu ludziom. By\u0142 got\u00f3w zgin\u0105\u0107 za co\u015b takiego, ale religia wcale nie mia\u0142a tu nic do rzeczy?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECiekawe, ile os\u00f3b z tych, kt\u00f3re wykrzykuj\u0105 \u201cpeda\u0142y do gazu\u201d, kt\u00f3re traktuj\u0105 homoseksualist\u00f3w jak podludzi, kt\u00f3re odmawiaj\u0105 im praw, kt\u00f3re traktuj\u0105 ich z nienawi\u015bci\u0105 i pogard\u0105, kt\u00f3re t\u0119 nienawi\u015b\u0107 g\u0142osz\u0105 z ambon, prawicowych portali i g\u0142upich komentarzy, ile z tych os\u00f3b zdaje sobie spraw\u0119, \u017ce s\u0105 wsp\u00f3\u0142odpowiedzialni za tragedi\u0119 w Orlando.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKatechizm nazywa to \u201cgrzechem cudzym\u201d. Ale kto by si\u0119 przejmowa\u0142...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECiekawe te\u017c, \u017ce centra krwiodawstwa w obliczu kryzysu dopu\u015bci\u0142y do donacji wszystkich dawc\u00f3w, nawet homoseksualnych m\u0119\u017cczyzn. 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Tak tylko pogl\u0105dowo, bez dog\u0142\u0119bych analiz (bo ani czasu, ani ochoty, ani przede wszystkim kwalifikacji do tego nie posiadam). 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Tak tylko pogl\u0105dowo, bez dog\u0142\u0119bych analiz (bo ani czasu, ani ochoty, ani przede wszystkim kwalifikacji do tego nie posiadam). I par\u0119 kwiatk\u00f3w uda\u0142o mi si\u0119 tam wypatrze\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZnalaz\u0142em dwa projekty konstytucji, z r\u00f3\u017cnych lat:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/file\/Konstytucja PiS 2005.pdf\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-cloud-download\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Konstytucja PiS 2005\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/file\/Konstytucja PiS 2010.pdf\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Csvg class=\u0022icon\u0022\u003E\u003Cuse xlink:href=\u0022#light-cloud-download\u0022\u003E\u003C\/use\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E Konstytucja PiS 2010\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPierwsze, co rzuca si\u0119 w nich w oczy, to jawne wprowadzenie pa\u0144stwa wyznaniowego. Preambu\u0142a nie tylko zaczyna si\u0119 od \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW imi\u0119 Boga Wszechmog\u0105cego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, ale wr\u0119cz udaje, \u017ce \u003Cstrong\u003Enie istniej\u0105\u003C\/strong\u003E obywatele w niego nie wierz\u0105cy. Znika fragment o ludziach \u003Cem\u003E\u201cnie podzielaj\u0105cych tej wiary, a uniwersalne warto\u015bci wywodz\u0105cych z innych \u017ar\u00f3de\u0142\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, a ca\u0142o\u015b\u0107 brzmi bardziej jak akt zawierzenia jakiemu\u015b niepokalanemu sercu, ni\u017c jak akt prawny cywilizowanego kraju. No ale w ko\u0144cu jak kto\u015b nie katolik, to co z niego za obywatel, nie?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObecnie wszystkie konstytucyjne roty przyrzecze\u0144 maj\u0105 zastrze\u017cenie, \u017ce mo\u017cna do nich doda\u0107 \u003Cem\u003E\u201cTak mi dopom\u00f3\u017c B\u00f3g\u201d.\u003C\/em\u003E W pa\u0144stwie PiS-u b\u0119dzie ociupink\u0119 inaczej: rota zawiera wezwanie do boga, ale ustawodawca \u0142askawie pozwala je pomin\u0105\u0107. Ufff...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i religia w szko\u0142ach jest gwarantowana konstytucyjnie. A\u017c chce si\u0119 krzykn\u0105\u0107: \u003Cem\u003EHurra! Indoktrynacja prawem cz\u0142owieka!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAle zostawmy bozi\u0119 i zajmijmy si\u0119 osobami, kt\u00f3re naprawd\u0119 istniej\u0105. Na przyk\u0142ad kobietami.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPO straszy, \u017ce PiS chce usun\u0105\u0107 z Konstytucji r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 p\u0142ci. Tymczasem zapis \u003Cem\u003E\u201cWszyscy ludzie s\u0105 r\u00f3wni wobec prawa i maj\u0105 prawo do r\u00f3wnego traktowania przez w\u0142adze publiczne.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E znajduje si\u0119 w obu wersjach PiS-owskiego projektu. Kobieta te\u017c lud\u017a, a lud\u017a ludziowi r\u00f3wny. Czyli nie jest tak \u017ale.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECho\u0107 dobrze te\u017c nie jest. Bo wprawdzie w starszym projekcie Konstytucji znajdowa\u0142 si\u0119 osobny punkt, kt\u00f3ry wprost m\u00f3wi\u0142 o prawach kobiet i gwarantowa\u0142 im r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 nie tylko w relacjach z w\u0142adz\u0105, ale i np. pracodawc\u0105, to jednak ju\u017c w nowej wersji ustawy punkt ten tajemniczo znikn\u0105\u0142. Dlaczego?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW 2005 roku PiS proponowa\u0142 zapis \u003Cem\u003E\u201cKa\u017cdy cz\u0142owiek ma prawo do ochrony \u017cycia i integralno\u015bci cielesnej.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, pi\u0119\u0107 lat p\u00f3\u017aniej natomiast zmieni\u0142 go na swoje s\u0142ynne \u003Cem\u003E\u201cKa\u017cdy cz\u0142owiek ma prawo do \u017cycia od pocz\u0119cia do naturalnej \u015bmierci.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELGBT te\u017c z czasem lubi\u0105 coraz mniej. W starszym projekcie wymieniaj\u0105 w\u015br\u00f3d najwa\u017cniejszych zada\u0144 RP \u003Cem\u003E\u201copiek\u0119 nad ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwem jako zwi\u0105zkiem kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 czyli r\u00f3wnie dwuznacznie jak w obecnej Konstytucji: chronimy ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwa dwup\u0142ciowe, ale nie wspominamy o \u017cadnych innych zwi\u0105zkach \u2013 natomiast w projekcie z 2010 roku mamy ju\u017c jednoznaczny \u015brodkowy palec w stron\u0119 t\u0119czowych obywateli: w jednym punkcie zaznaczaj\u0105 wyra\u017anie, \u017ce ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo jest \u003Cstrong\u003Ewy\u0142\u0105cznie\u003C\/strong\u003E zwi\u0105zkiem K+M, a w drugim, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW\u0142adze publiczne nie reguluj\u0105 spraw par niema\u0142\u017ce\u0144skich ani nie prowadz\u0105 ich ewidencji\u201d.\u003C\/em\u003E Czyli zwi\u0105zki partnerskie te\u017c absolutnie nie wchodz\u0105 w gr\u0119. Milusio.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cNiedopuszczalne jest ponowne prowadzenie post\u0119powania karnego przeciwko tej samej osobie o ten sam czyn, je\u017celi uprzednio zosta\u0142o ono prawomocnie zako\u0144czone w post\u0119powaniu s\u0105dowym.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 hurra, tak bardzo Ameryka! Uniewinnili\u015bmy kogo\u015b z braku dowod\u00f3w, ale pi\u0119\u0107 lat p\u00f3\u017aniej mamy na tyle rozwini\u0119t\u0105 technologi\u0119 \u017ceby jednak udowodni\u0107 jego win\u0119? Kit z tym, morderca ma by\u0107 na wolno\u015bci, bo tak. Miodzio!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cZaszczytnym obowi\u0105zkiem obywatelskim jest obrona Ojczyzny. Zakres obowi\u0105zku s\u0142u\u017cby wojskowej i spos\u00f3b jej odbywania okre\u015bla ustawa.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 pierdolcie si\u0119. Umieranie za wasze interesy to \u017caden zaszczyt. A obowi\u0105zkowe wysy\u0142anie do koszar czy na front jest w jawnej sprzeczno\u015bci z prawem do wolno\u015bci osobistej i do \u017cycia. Po prostu pierdolcie si\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESwoj\u0105 drog\u0105, tw\u00f3rcy tych projekt\u00f3w Konstytucji lubi\u0105 w nie wrzuca\u0107 slogany, tak jakby by\u0142y zapisami normatywnymi. \u003Cem\u003E\u201cZaszczytnym obowi\u0105zkiem obywatelskim jest obrona Ojczyzny.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 tak tak, ustaw\u0105 wprowadzi\u0107 zaszczytno\u015b\u0107! Albo: \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW\u0142asno\u015b\u0107 zobowi\u0105zuje.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 ehe, serio jest tam takie zdanie. No bo wiecie, trzeba zarz\u0105dzi\u0107 zobowi\u0105zywanie w\u0142asno\u015bci. Kiedy\u015b w\u0142asno\u015b\u0107 nie zobowi\u0105zywa\u0142a, ale PiS wprowadzi zapis, wi\u0119c ju\u017c b\u0119dzie zobowi\u0105zywa\u0142a! Prawnik ze mnie s\u0142aby, ale mam wra\u017cenie, \u017ce tak si\u0119 prawa nie pisze...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak samo: mo\u017ce ja si\u0119 nie znam, ale jak si\u0119 wymienia jeden po drugim \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142a prawa, to raczej te wcze\u015bniej wymienione s\u0105 wa\u017cniejsze od tych, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 p\u00f3\u017aniej. Je\u015bli tak w\u0142a\u015bnie jest, to PiS-owska Konstytucja zak\u0142ada, \u017ce ratyfikowane umowy mi\u0119dzynarodowe s\u0105 mniej wa\u017cne od akt\u00f3w prawa miejscowego! A co, Gmina Pierdziszewo nie b\u0119dzie si\u0119 s\u0142ucha\u0142a jakiej\u015b tam Unii!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKandydatura na urz\u0105d Prezydenta Rzeczypospolitej wymaga poparcia przez:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) co najmniej 300 os\u00f3b pe\u0142ni\u0105cych funkcj\u0119 publiczn\u0105 pochodz\u0105c\u0105 z wybor\u00f3w bezpo\u015brednich oraz co najmniej 100 tysi\u0119cy obywateli polskich posiadaj\u0105cych prawo wybierania lub\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) co najmniej 300 tysi\u0119cy obywateli polskich posiadaj\u0105cych prawo wybierania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHermetyzujmy bardziej polityk\u0119, a co! Trudno jest zebra\u0107 100k podpis\u00f3w, a co dopiero 300k, wi\u0119c \u003Cem\u003Ede facto\u003C\/em\u003E zapis ten doprowadzi do stanu, gdzie b\u0119dziemy mogli wybiera\u0107 w\u0142adz\u0119 tylko spo\u015br\u00f3d ludzi... popieranych przez w\u0142adz\u0119. Demokracja tak bardzo!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i jeszcze referenda: aby by\u0142y wi\u0105\u017c\u0105ce, wystarczy frekwencja 30%. Czy musz\u0119 t\u0142umaczy\u0107, jak bardzo z\u0142y i niedemokratyczny jest to pomys\u0142?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA prezydenci dostan\u0105 do\u017cywotni\u0105 ciep\u0142\u0105 posadk\u0119:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote class=\u0022blockquote ml-4 pl-4 border-left\u0022\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOsoba, kt\u00f3ra w przesz\u0142o\u015bci sprawowa\u0142a urz\u0105d Prezydenta Rzeczypospolitej na podstawie wybor\u00f3w bezpo\u015brednich, wchodzi z urz\u0119du w sk\u0142ad Senatu (...)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA na deser jeszcze ma\u0142a, niespecjalnie istotna pomy\u0142ka: \u003Cem\u003E\u201cprezes i wiceprezesi Naczelnego S\u0105du Najwy\u017cszego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E. Ups ;-)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003EW imi\u0119 Boga Wszechmog\u0105cego\u003C\/em\u003E, niech oni nie rz\u0105dz\u0105...\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Csvg xmlns=\u0022http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\u0022 style=\u0022display: none;\u0022\u003E\u003C\/svg\u003E","tags":["aborcja","b\u00f3g","demokracja","eutanazja","kobieta","kobiety","konstytucja","lgbtq","ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwa jednop\u0142ciowe","ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo","pa\u0144stwo wyznaniowe","pis","polityka","polska","prawa cz\u0142owieka","prezydent","religia","wolno\u015b\u0107","zwi\u0105zki partnerskie"],"hasMore":true,"image":"https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pis-owska-konstytucja_small.jpeg","introLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pis-owska-konstytucja_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pis-owska-konstytucja_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022135.09278350515\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EG\u0142o\u015bno si\u0119 zrobi\u0142o ostatnio o projekcie konstytucji wed\u0142ug PiS, wi\u0119c wreszcie si\u0119 spi\u0105\u0142em i zabra\u0142em za przejrzenie jego tre\u015bci. Tak tylko pogl\u0105dowo, bez dog\u0142\u0119bych analiz (bo ani czasu, ani ochoty, ani przede wszystkim kwalifikacji do tego nie posiadam). I par\u0119 kwiatk\u00f3w uda\u0142o mi si\u0119 tam wypatrze\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E","contentLite":"\u003Cfigure\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pis-owska-konstytucja_big.jpeg\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg src=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/image\/pis-owska-konstytucja_mini.jpeg\u0022 alt=\u0022\u0022 width=\u0022240\u0022 height=\u0022135.09278350515\u0022 loading=\u0022lazy\u0022\u003E\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/figure\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EG\u0142o\u015bno si\u0119 zrobi\u0142o ostatnio o projekcie konstytucji wed\u0142ug PiS, wi\u0119c wreszcie si\u0119 spi\u0105\u0142em i zabra\u0142em za przejrzenie jego tre\u015bci. Tak tylko pogl\u0105dowo, bez dog\u0142\u0119bych analiz (bo ani czasu, ani ochoty, ani przede wszystkim kwalifikacji do tego nie posiadam). I par\u0119 kwiatk\u00f3w uda\u0142o mi si\u0119 tam wypatrze\u0107.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EZnalaz\u0142em dwa projekty konstytucji, z r\u00f3\u017cnych lat:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cul\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/file\/Konstytucja PiS 2005.pdf\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Konstytucja PiS 2005\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022https:\/\/avris.it\/file\/Konstytucja PiS 2010.pdf\u0022 target=\u0022_blank\u0022 rel=\u0022noopener\u0022\u003E Konstytucja PiS 2010\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/li\u003E\n\u003C\/ul\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPierwsze, co rzuca si\u0119 w nich w oczy, to jawne wprowadzenie pa\u0144stwa wyznaniowego. Preambu\u0142a nie tylko zaczyna si\u0119 od \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW imi\u0119 Boga Wszechmog\u0105cego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, ale wr\u0119cz udaje, \u017ce \u003Cstrong\u003Enie istniej\u0105\u003C\/strong\u003E obywatele w niego nie wierz\u0105cy. Znika fragment o ludziach \u003Cem\u003E\u201cnie podzielaj\u0105cych tej wiary, a uniwersalne warto\u015bci wywodz\u0105cych z innych \u017ar\u00f3de\u0142\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, a ca\u0142o\u015b\u0107 brzmi bardziej jak akt zawierzenia jakiemu\u015b niepokalanemu sercu, ni\u017c jak akt prawny cywilizowanego kraju. No ale w ko\u0144cu jak kto\u015b nie katolik, to co z niego za obywatel, nie?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EObecnie wszystkie konstytucyjne roty przyrzecze\u0144 maj\u0105 zastrze\u017cenie, \u017ce mo\u017cna do nich doda\u0107 \u003Cem\u003E\u201cTak mi dopom\u00f3\u017c B\u00f3g\u201d.\u003C\/em\u003E W pa\u0144stwie PiS-u b\u0119dzie ociupink\u0119 inaczej: rota zawiera wezwanie do boga, ale ustawodawca \u0142askawie pozwala je pomin\u0105\u0107. Ufff...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i religia w szko\u0142ach jest gwarantowana konstytucyjnie. A\u017c chce si\u0119 krzykn\u0105\u0107: \u003Cem\u003EHurra! Indoktrynacja prawem cz\u0142owieka!\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EAle zostawmy bozi\u0119 i zajmijmy si\u0119 osobami, kt\u00f3re naprawd\u0119 istniej\u0105. Na przyk\u0142ad kobietami.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EPO straszy, \u017ce PiS chce usun\u0105\u0107 z Konstytucji r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 p\u0142ci. Tymczasem zapis \u003Cem\u003E\u201cWszyscy ludzie s\u0105 r\u00f3wni wobec prawa i maj\u0105 prawo do r\u00f3wnego traktowania przez w\u0142adze publiczne.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E znajduje si\u0119 w obu wersjach PiS-owskiego projektu. Kobieta te\u017c lud\u017a, a lud\u017a ludziowi r\u00f3wny. Czyli nie jest tak \u017ale.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ECho\u0107 dobrze te\u017c nie jest. Bo wprawdzie w starszym projekcie Konstytucji znajdowa\u0142 si\u0119 osobny punkt, kt\u00f3ry wprost m\u00f3wi\u0142 o prawach kobiet i gwarantowa\u0142 im r\u00f3wno\u015b\u0107 nie tylko w relacjach z w\u0142adz\u0105, ale i np. pracodawc\u0105, to jednak ju\u017c w nowej wersji ustawy punkt ten tajemniczo znikn\u0105\u0142. Dlaczego?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EW 2005 roku PiS proponowa\u0142 zapis \u003Cem\u003E\u201cKa\u017cdy cz\u0142owiek ma prawo do ochrony \u017cycia i integralno\u015bci cielesnej.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E, pi\u0119\u0107 lat p\u00f3\u017aniej natomiast zmieni\u0142 go na swoje s\u0142ynne \u003Cem\u003E\u201cKa\u017cdy cz\u0142owiek ma prawo do \u017cycia od pocz\u0119cia do naturalnej \u015bmierci.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ELGBT te\u017c z czasem lubi\u0105 coraz mniej. W starszym projekcie wymieniaj\u0105 w\u015br\u00f3d najwa\u017cniejszych zada\u0144 RP \u003Cem\u003E\u201copiek\u0119 nad ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwem jako zwi\u0105zkiem kobiety i m\u0119\u017cczyzny\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 czyli r\u00f3wnie dwuznacznie jak w obecnej Konstytucji: chronimy ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwa dwup\u0142ciowe, ale nie wspominamy o \u017cadnych innych zwi\u0105zkach \u2013 natomiast w projekcie z 2010 roku mamy ju\u017c jednoznaczny \u015brodkowy palec w stron\u0119 t\u0119czowych obywateli: w jednym punkcie zaznaczaj\u0105 wyra\u017anie, \u017ce ma\u0142\u017ce\u0144stwo jest \u003Cstrong\u003Ewy\u0142\u0105cznie\u003C\/strong\u003E zwi\u0105zkiem K+M, a w drugim, \u017ce \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW\u0142adze publiczne nie reguluj\u0105 spraw par niema\u0142\u017ce\u0144skich ani nie prowadz\u0105 ich ewidencji\u201d.\u003C\/em\u003E Czyli zwi\u0105zki partnerskie te\u017c absolutnie nie wchodz\u0105 w gr\u0119. Milusio.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cNiedopuszczalne jest ponowne prowadzenie post\u0119powania karnego przeciwko tej samej osobie o ten sam czyn, je\u017celi uprzednio zosta\u0142o ono prawomocnie zako\u0144czone w post\u0119powaniu s\u0105dowym.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 hurra, tak bardzo Ameryka! Uniewinnili\u015bmy kogo\u015b z braku dowod\u00f3w, ale pi\u0119\u0107 lat p\u00f3\u017aniej mamy na tyle rozwini\u0119t\u0105 technologi\u0119 \u017ceby jednak udowodni\u0107 jego win\u0119? Kit z tym, morderca ma by\u0107 na wolno\u015bci, bo tak. Miodzio!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003E\u201cZaszczytnym obowi\u0105zkiem obywatelskim jest obrona Ojczyzny. Zakres obowi\u0105zku s\u0142u\u017cby wojskowej i spos\u00f3b jej odbywania okre\u015bla ustawa.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 pierdolcie si\u0119. Umieranie za wasze interesy to \u017caden zaszczyt. A obowi\u0105zkowe wysy\u0142anie do koszar czy na front jest w jawnej sprzeczno\u015bci z prawem do wolno\u015bci osobistej i do \u017cycia. Po prostu pierdolcie si\u0119.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ESwoj\u0105 drog\u0105, tw\u00f3rcy tych projekt\u00f3w Konstytucji lubi\u0105 w nie wrzuca\u0107 slogany, tak jakby by\u0142y zapisami normatywnymi. \u003Cem\u003E\u201cZaszczytnym obowi\u0105zkiem obywatelskim jest obrona Ojczyzny.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 tak tak, ustaw\u0105 wprowadzi\u0107 zaszczytno\u015b\u0107! Albo: \u003Cem\u003E\u201cW\u0142asno\u015b\u0107 zobowi\u0105zuje.\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E \u2013 ehe, serio jest tam takie zdanie. No bo wiecie, trzeba zarz\u0105dzi\u0107 zobowi\u0105zywanie w\u0142asno\u015bci. Kiedy\u015b w\u0142asno\u015b\u0107 nie zobowi\u0105zywa\u0142a, ale PiS wprowadzi zapis, wi\u0119c ju\u017c b\u0119dzie zobowi\u0105zywa\u0142a! Prawnik ze mnie s\u0142aby, ale mam wra\u017cenie, \u017ce tak si\u0119 prawa nie pisze...\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ETak samo: mo\u017ce ja si\u0119 nie znam, ale jak si\u0119 wymienia jeden po drugim \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142a prawa, to raczej te wcze\u015bniej wymienione s\u0105 wa\u017cniejsze od tych, kt\u00f3re s\u0105 p\u00f3\u017aniej. Je\u015bli tak w\u0142a\u015bnie jest, to PiS-owska Konstytucja zak\u0142ada, \u017ce ratyfikowane umowy mi\u0119dzynarodowe s\u0105 mniej wa\u017cne od akt\u00f3w prawa miejscowego! A co, Gmina Pierdziszewo nie b\u0119dzie si\u0119 s\u0142ucha\u0142a jakiej\u015b tam Unii!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EKandydatura na urz\u0105d Prezydenta Rzeczypospolitej wymaga poparcia przez:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E1) co najmniej 300 os\u00f3b pe\u0142ni\u0105cych funkcj\u0119 publiczn\u0105 pochodz\u0105c\u0105 z wybor\u00f3w bezpo\u015brednich oraz co najmniej 100 tysi\u0119cy obywateli polskich posiadaj\u0105cych prawo wybierania lub\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E2) co najmniej 300 tysi\u0119cy obywateli polskich posiadaj\u0105cych prawo wybierania.\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EHermetyzujmy bardziej polityk\u0119, a co! Trudno jest zebra\u0107 100k podpis\u00f3w, a co dopiero 300k, wi\u0119c \u003Cem\u003Ede facto\u003C\/em\u003E zapis ten doprowadzi do stanu, gdzie b\u0119dziemy mogli wybiera\u0107 w\u0142adz\u0119 tylko spo\u015br\u00f3d ludzi... popieranych przez w\u0142adz\u0119. Demokracja tak bardzo!\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003ENo i jeszcze referenda: aby by\u0142y wi\u0105\u017c\u0105ce, wystarczy frekwencja 30%. Czy musz\u0119 t\u0142umaczy\u0107, jak bardzo z\u0142y i niedemokratyczny jest to pomys\u0142?\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA prezydenci dostan\u0105 do\u017cywotni\u0105 ciep\u0142\u0105 posadk\u0119:\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cblockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EOsoba, kt\u00f3ra w przesz\u0142o\u015bci sprawowa\u0142a urz\u0105d Prezydenta Rzeczypospolitej na podstawie wybor\u00f3w bezpo\u015brednich, wchodzi z urz\u0119du w sk\u0142ad Senatu (...)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003C\/blockquote\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003EA na deser jeszcze ma\u0142a, niespecjalnie istotna pomy\u0142ka: \u003Cem\u003E\u201cprezes i wiceprezesi Naczelnego S\u0105du Najwy\u017cszego\u201d\u003C\/em\u003E. Ups ;-)\u003C\/p\u003E\n\u003Cp\u003E\u003Cem\u003EW imi\u0119 Boga Wszechmog\u0105cego\u003C\/em\u003E, niech oni nie rz\u0105dz\u0105...\u003C\/p\u003E","words":961,"readTime":4,"lang":"pl"}}}}}